I totally agree with you on this point. It's amazing how many single men are supposedly out there, but they choose to be a jerk or disrespectful so that turns us true ladies off by their behavior. The supposed single men need to be gentlemen and respect us ladies that have good values (an example would be to sleep with the man/men before really getting to know them). Now, that takes me to another topic of when you should sleep with the man?

Basically, all I'm asking for is a man with good midwestern values that appreciates a true lady that would be willing to cook, clean and take care of him ONLY if he isn't materialistic, shows respect, appreciation and doesn't only take.

i can sum this up into two headings
this is what changes good me

NASTY DIVORCE

&

UNFAIR CHILD CUSTODY LAWS

thats the truth ladies

i now have custody of my kids after a 2 yr court battle and a 20 thousand dollar legal exspense. but im not the same "GOOD MAN" i use to be

What happened to good men 35-55?

WE learned that many women lie like most men do.

i am here waiting for a good woman... .where have they all gone???

Here I am.....

may we all get exactly what we deserve.

sort of new but im here checkin it out

they're all on myspace

Right here living in God's country.....

We are out there. Right under your nose. Just ask.

New here myself and I apologize for no pic yet, I have to ask the same question. In other words where do we need to be? I go to bars, community activities, grocery stores (in the meat section), ... but the only woman I run into are 20 somethings and married. So, tell me where should we be hanging out in order to meet single 30-50 somethings?

A (humble) take on: "where have all the good ones gone?"

* The key is to BECOME the good one (or, better stated) allow the best in you to shine through.

* As we express our own, unique positive body-mind-Spirit, it tends to magnetize like-minded people towards us.

* As we complain, criticize, and begrudge, we attract THAT to ourselves, also.

I'd like to relate to a FANTASTIC lady, so first I must be the kind of guy that will attract her. As I develop and improve my own level of Wellness, she is already being drawn to me.

Maybe it's not that "they're not out there" ...maybe it's more of an internal question.

:) This is just what came into my mind (apologies, if nec.)

As a single mother of four wonderful kids and all gone but two I would have to say that I have just now started looking for a good man after being divorced for 4yrs. It is hard! I have talked to a few in my area but it never turns out or should I say I am just not what they are looking for> Every Guy just like a girl always has to go on looks personality is a plus so is great communication,trust, and of course lots more but starting off as FRIENDS is the best thing of all.

I have always stated to myself that when God is ready for me to find that perfect one for me than he will show up.


Good luck to everyone.

I agree...it seems that most of the women...just like most of the men...are in search...of the perfect specimen...thats why...in lots of cases...I LOVE talking to a woman without a pic posted...not only do you get to know her...from the inside out...but...theres something to be said for the " mystery "...

I've met some great people on this site.

Unfortunately most of the men I have met here live too far away to maintain anything but a long distance friendship with. I did the long distance relationship thing once and I really can't do that again. It was difficult for us both in the end.

I completely agree with the posters here who point out that when you put out icky energy you get the same back but with limits. I know some really terrific people who are still alone. Why? I am not sure.

I think it might have something to do with the fact that even with all the great technology we have to stay in touch with others in some ways people are more isolated now than ever. Maybe the answer is to get out more but get out where to meet others?

Myself?

Still hoping to be found by the right guy.

Someone who appreciates me for my virtues as well as my flaws and someone who allows me to do the same for him. (Oh and someone who doesn't live miles and miles away)

I am still around and will proably always just be around because noone seems interested enough to hang on long enough and talk so that I can find out a little something about them Yea I out here One of many good men.

Wait a minute don't judge nobody by their words because everone has different veiws.

Theres a few of us out there it's just we are patient and go slow... well atleast in my case lol

i dont know what your deff of good is. but im 42 never been married and no dependents.

nothing happened to us good guys.. we are just simply overlooked for the bad boy type.