guess im sol im 34 lol

I can't speak for anybody else, but the reason I joined the site in the first place was because I was hoping to meet someone decent.

After two years, I've had to accept that there simply isn't anyone here who is compatible with me.

I'm not normally a quitter, but the simple reality of the situation has caused me to give up. And I know I'm not the only one.

I'm glad to see I'm not the only one who inadvertantly responded to threads that probably would have been better off left dead.

I find being on a few dating sites all i seen is nothing but way to much drama and head games that people play.

I have no clue how many times women would want my email and we chat on yahoo then a cell all i get is exscuses iam not ready ,or i been hurt,or iam to busy ,i can go on and on i must of heard every exscuse in the book.But again there the ones who are that interested in chatting and getting to know me.

Makes no sense huh u kind of figure are they doing this for attention and if so are they that alone that they have to play childish games and hurting others feelings but then they complaine its the man the is a player or plays games or cheats sorry ladys it works bouth ways it aint always the men .

Not that iam bashing the whole women race iam sure there are very few out there who dont judge for looks or are money hungry .

The way i was taught is that money dont by love nor it buys happyness the way i see it as longs as its enough to pay my bills roof over my head cloths on my back and food in the fredge iam happy with that.Iam so glad iam not one who sits there and judge others or play head games iam to old for that crap i figure if a person cant be real and honest then there not worth my time.

Can I get an Amen.

Good men are all around, you have to look for them.

Should I lock or unlock the deadbolt, then?

Proceed with caution

You know the saying - "Good men are hard to find and hard men are good to find."

good men aren't hard to find.
it's a mental choice really. woman consistantly go for the bad boy and get burned. for some reason they don't learn and keep putting their hands in the fire. realize what it is that is causing you pain and then stop choosing it.

personally, if i ever have sons i'm going to teach them to be jerks and a55holes so that they can get all the women they want.

Like Father like son eh?

if that were the case i wouldn't need to be here.

To be or not to be that is the question and the biggest question is where are the good ones.


To be honest there not to hard to find its that there past on bye with out looking at them there the ones that you wouldn't take a second chance at and why you may ask well lets see there are to many out there who judge for weight,looks,who has a better job,money,etc.

Thats what i seen on thease sites if a person only look in the heart and not what they look like or what they have you then find the person you be seeking but again not many out there do this.


what a sad world we live in ha .

I judge from the heart...looks are going to fade away...but the heart is golden.

Guess we all just went bad, for goodness sakes.

the heeart is a special thing its love ,feeling,kindness and no money out there can buy it thats what i believe in iam so glad im not out there for the looks etc.

Amen to that !!!

The way i see it any one out there are the judging type or just out there for the money or want to play games i see your furture already you know what i see ?

I see a very unhappy life with no one to love you and treat you with respect and the only ones that would find you is the ones thatdo the sames as you .

So to find a good one is simple it's not what you have or how much money,house a car,etc it's whats in your heart and if a person can show true love from there heart not what u buy in a store then that is special. For me i dont ask for anything from any one and i rather have something made from the person then bought from a store.

Rember this life is to short and treat life as it was your last because u never know when your time is up leave the drama,head games,etc for the ones who rather dwell on it and build a good life.you have to respect and love your self befor any one else.

cant you tell i have my head on strait see there are good people out there.

I knew what I was gonna write and then read that its been said. What I think, is that unappreciative women change good men to not so good to the next woman. We give our best efforts and when a woman acts like she doesn't recognize it, after the heartache a woman causes, its very hard to want to continue being good. That's just me. I know in time, I'm gonna want to be the man I know I am, but its hard to trust. How do we know women arent going to surprise us with letting us down. Us good men want to give 100%, but leave it up to a blind woman to screw it up for the next available good woman.