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I joined this site in hope of getting to know more people! and may be to find somebody to bond with and eventually to share my life with, but what is going on?? isn't there any body with the same view on this site?
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Welcome 2 JSH 
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Edited by
SKPCG
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Wed 04/02/08 10:27 AM
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I feel your pain!!
Actually, I have "met" some swell people on here in my age group, which is OLD!!! Get involved in the forums. That's where all the fun is!! Best wishes and I hope you get some good out of this experience. Cheers!! 
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Absolutely there are those people here. Having a bad day? Welcome to the forums...
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Hey Welcome and good luck
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Thank you lovely people for your sweet messages, let's see by joining the forums what happens?
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Welcome. I have found a lot of friends here. It might take some time to find that friend but it will happen just hang in there
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WELCOME
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speaking of old , I'm here as well
 but I digress... welcome and enjoy your stay here at JSH ... young OR "antique " like me
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they are here, and your not old, but a spring flower....
smile, it does a body, better than milk!! |
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more fun being a bad man rather than a good men
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Welcome.
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What happended to the good men ages 35-55 huh? Well, part of the men that age will be completely jaded by now, either through lack of luck (like me) or because some other woman ruined him for the rest of you (i.e. divorce). That's just part of them though.
You see, a truly honest to god good man is easy to find, you probably already know one, but just can't see him. He's that guy that's attentive to you, helps you out when you need it, sometimes shows up with pizza and beer just to watch movies with you. Oh, you probably tell the gals "he's just a friend," but I bet if you asked, he's dying to go out with you. Now a woman's first response is usually "I don't feel that way about him." But in fact, most ladies just have never thought of having those feelings for that type of guy, and a friendship is a great place to start a relationship. So, that's where you find a few more of the "good" ones. Another place to find them, church. I'm not saying become a religious zealot by any means. But some people need the inner peace derived from sitting in a large room with 200 strangers. Meditation helps no matter where you do it, but some need that. These good men, probably aren't even on the internet dating sights. Might not have the self confidence to do it. Just remember, most truly good men have had some person in the past take complete advantage of there soft hearts, and then dump the like a bad habit when something that only appeared better came into view. These men will be cautious, emotionally conservative and rather quiet. They know they can be easily hurt and are less likely to put themselves into situations where it can happen again. If you feel you're having to wait for a guy to come around, odds are, he's a good one. Be patient, and a little agressive, you'll bag him. |
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What happended to the good men ages 35-55 huh? Well, part of the men that age will be completely jaded by now, either through lack of luck (like me) or because some other woman ruined him for the rest of you (i.e. divorce). That's just part of them though. You see, a truly honest to god good man is easy to find, you probably already know one, but just can't see him. He's that guy that's attentive to you, helps you out when you need it, sometimes shows up with pizza and beer just to watch movies with you. Oh, you probably tell the gals "he's just a friend," but I bet if you asked, he's dying to go out with you. Now a woman's first response is usually "I don't feel that way about him." But in fact, most ladies just have never thought of having those feelings for that type of guy, and a friendship is a great place to start a relationship. So, that's where you find a few more of the "good" ones. Another place to find them, church. I'm not saying become a religious zealot by any means. But some people need the inner peace derived from sitting in a large room with 200 strangers. Meditation helps no matter where you do it, but some need that. These good men, probably aren't even on the internet dating sights. Might not have the self confidence to do it. Just remember, most truly good men have had some person in the past take complete advantage of there soft hearts, and then dump the like a bad habit when something that only appeared better came into view. These men will be cautious, emotionally conservative and rather quiet. They know they can be easily hurt and are less likely to put themselves into situations where it can happen again. If you feel you're having to wait for a guy to come around, odds are, he's a good one. Be patient, and a little agressive, you'll bag him. .......excellent informative advice...a little of all of us in you story too.........attaboy
 ~wicked~
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i think we all joined for the same reason. friends that might become more. never know.
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People tell me i am a nice person,so they are all not gone.
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People tell me i am a nice person,so they are all not gone.
....lol..u know me JSH'ers...I love me them cowboys....lol...lol..
welcome there TX67
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welcome and enjoy
have patience, make friends, join forums have fun! tgif |
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I am not sure about the reason people join either. I have been a member and have not had much luck finding "friends" to meet. I am very easy to get along with, new to the area and thought this would be better than going to clubs and bars. BUT.............
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