I have tried other dating sites with no luck not even a coffee date what am I doing wrong???

Welcome to mingle2 I hope you find what you are looking for. My advice is to get involved in the forums/games, have fun and be yourself. I think your profile is fine, but another picture or two would help.

I would also add a few more pictures.
I am glad that you are honest about still being
married BUT a lot of women will not become involved
with you until you are divorced. That do not want
drug into any drama that you are about to go through.
I would put that you are here to make new friends,
then that way you might have a great friend that
helps you go through your divorce with you and then
you can have a new relationship.
I believe that you can not start a new relationship
until you finished the old one.
Join in the community rooms and that way people can
start knowing who you are. When you write in the threads
people learn to know you much better, so don't be a stranger.
Good luck!

Unsure just wanted to say that you are always full of great advice