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Sun 08/03/08 04:47 PM

For some it wouldn't be "Chasing". For some it would be established already and the move would be part of the making a permanent decision to be together.
but how does it get established in the first place? You can't possibly spend enough time together ahead of time to know.

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Sun 08/03/08 04:42 PM

What about brand spanking new?
now that sounds like something I could appreciate.

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Sun 08/03/08 04:41 PM




A lot of people will not relocate due to jobs and family...I can get that...I would not want to leave my kids and grandbabies...just me.
I understand the issue with kids!!

But there is a lot of people on the site who has no kids but allow jobs to stand in their way. If there was a chance of real happiness why let a job get in the way of it!! JMO
because some of us like to live in houses and eat food.


Well, the idea would be to find a new job in the place you'd be moving to.
It can take 6 months to a year to find a job. I wouldn't quit a good job to go chasing after romance.

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Sun 08/03/08 04:38 PM
Normal people don't like to be tied up? noway noway noway

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Sun 08/03/08 04:10 PM

Can overweight people go "skinny dipping"?
no - we go chunky dunking

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Sun 08/03/08 04:03 PM
I would steer clear of the desperate loser aisle.

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Sun 08/03/08 03:54 PM


A lot of people will not relocate due to jobs and family...I can get that...I would not want to leave my kids and grandbabies...just me.
I understand the issue with kids!!

But there is a lot of people on the site who has no kids but allow jobs to stand in their way. If there was a chance of real happiness why let a job get in the way of it!! JMO
because some of us like to live in houses and eat food.

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Sun 08/03/08 03:52 PM
It takes me a long time to get to know someone well enough to know if I want them in my life. If there was a great distance involved, the expense would be prohibitive. It would involve numerous trips over a long period of time and even then, you don't get to see the person in your day to day life in their own environment. You get sort of a "Sunday best" version of the person.

Too risky.

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Sun 08/03/08 03:49 PM
if someone wants to send out mass e-mails to women whose profiles he clearly has not read, I fail to see how my refusal to participate in his scattershot game makes me rude. He is the rude one.

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Sun 08/03/08 03:43 PM
I think some of us want to be alone, whether we want to admit it or not; so we sabotage everything that has potential.

I don't think it has anything to do with destiny.

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Sun 08/03/08 03:34 PM
tell them the truth so you don't waste any of their time

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Sun 08/03/08 03:33 PM
so on target! Nice job!flowerforyou

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Sun 08/03/08 03:13 PM

Its so formal when people refer it to a "DATE' that i have no clue what am i suppose to say... I blank out and talk about mundane things which are boring..."where do u work?, do you like your job?"

I feel bored even asking these questions, the only reason why i ask is to avoid the awkward silence and the fact that i have nothing else to talk about. See its not even the fact that i cant come up with a topic, its the fact that the "DATE" make the whole situation more confined to a "love talk" event. ugh...so Should do you all talk about on your "dates" (jokes, stories...etc?) or do you have some sort of event planned to do and improvise while sticking to the planned events?

thanks for reading:)
"love talk"? on a first date? No way, dude. If someone started that with me I would call a cab.

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Sun 08/03/08 07:00 AM

It's not a matter of admitting whether or not you're overweight, its feeling good about yourself.

saying "Yes, i'm a big beautiful woman" Sounds alot better than
"Yeah... i'm fat" Dont you think?

saying bbw makes your self esteem boost where as calling yourself fat is kinda a downer
I disagree. If I have to cover the truth with euphemisms, that means I find the truth less than palatable.

I am fat. I am also fabulous. I don't need to hide behind a pretty label.

I don't think "fat" is an insult. It's merely a descriptive, like "tall" or "blonde".

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Sun 08/03/08 06:58 AM
I admit I have a thing for men in tights....

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Sun 08/03/08 06:48 AM
ah, the beauty of a one-hit wonder!

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Sun 08/03/08 06:15 AM
You get e-mails? huh I will take them from all 50 and overseas!

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Sun 08/03/08 06:06 AM

ok you two kiss and make up alreadylaugh
Can't - I am on the treadmill!!

laugh

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Sun 08/03/08 06:04 AM

Fair enough. You didn’t offend me but you directed your comments at me and clearly did not comprehend what I was attempting to convey to you. I was on your side. I never made any rude or judgmental comments about anyone. It was a case of running off at the mouth. Anyway, I’m not reporting it as it doesn’t rise to that level but for next time, look at a person's profile before jumping to conclusions like that.
I sincerly apologize.

I am oversensitive on some subjects and that is my problem. I had no right to get snippy with you.flowerforyou

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Sun 08/03/08 05:56 AM
This is a sensitive subject and I think people tend to judge the overweight more severely than, say, the too thin. Obesity is a terrible thing to stuggle with, and if it were so easy to overcome,there would be no overweight people in this world.

Sorry if I offended anyone with my opinions.

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