Welcome

I am alone now
I cannot let you in
My friends I must abandon
This fight I'll never win
Perhaps you will just let me watch
The others having fun
I'll wait along the fringes
For now, I am no one
It's been a jolly time, for sure
It's been a joy, at times
You've given me your heart
I've shared with you my rhymes
And maybe someday, someplace else
We'll play our games again
The world will be a kinder place
I'm waiting, until then

good luck to you.

Yes, but I would keep searching for a better job in the meanwhile.

Maybe she doesn't care. Has anyone considered that this woman may not love her husband? Why is he automatically the bad guy and she the victim? I have known women who could not care less who their husbands spent time with as long as the paychecks kept coming in.

so if your spouse no longer desires you, your only option is prostitution?

That is kinda sad. He is in a very lonely place, and yes, what he is considering is technically "wrong"; but we make many decisions on a daily basis that skate on the edge of right and wrong. He does not want his kids to have to split the holidays or deal with parents who live in two different homes; that is commendable. But he also does not want to go the rest of his life without ever being touched again. Cut the guy some slack.

Maybe she just doesn't love him anymore and just wants to stay married for the kids. Maybe he is lonely and justs needs some human contact without having to pay for it by losing his home, half his salary and 401K, and the right to live with his kids every day and spend all holidays with him. He wants to feel human again without disrupting everyone's lives.

people are so judgemental.

and yet another thread about it

the interesting people are all gone, though.

welcome