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Topic:
Infatuation vs love
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I don't know that I'm capable of full on giggle girl infatuation. I like my feet on the ground too much for that.
But I've learned that I'm capable of thinking of someone when I should be concentrating on my work.  
I know it's more than a hot body or handsome face though, because I've been around those every day for most of my life and am immune to hot men. It takes something much more than that for a man to invade my thoughts....or dreams. 
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Everyday life
Edited by
1Cynderella
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Sun 08/04/13 07:33 AM
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In everyday life what do you think your friends or people close to you learn from knowing you? I hope I sometimes pass on what I've learned from others...finding humor in the mundane, making the best bad situations, finding empathy for those who cause us pain, and finding a smile in the midst of sadness. And something I've never mastered, but always try to practice....the importance of balance and perspective for a healthy and happy life. 
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Revenge!!!
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I get no gratification from thoughts of revenge. When I feel someone has done me wrong, I just hope that someday they will "get it" and can forgive themselves for their mistakes and hopefully move on to have a better life.
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This is all good in theory. Sexy is bad....men are shallow...love me for the person I am...guys only want me for my looks..... Try the other end of the spectrum.... Post up the crappiest pix ya got....hair looking like crap...no make up....beer belly...Chili stained shirt...looking like ya just spent a hard weekend in the drunk tank at the county jail. Really put that "love the inner me " to the test..... Personally, I always spiffy up to hang out socially .....either here or in actual gatherings. Looking like I am ashamed, a slob or I just don't give a damned has always gotten me ZERO attention. Catching someones attention is pretty danged important if you ever want to meet them. Bad hygiene, beer belly showing, stained shirt etc. just shows disrespect and a "I don't give a crap" attitude. It should get you zero attention. No Charles1962150, women don't "fall all over" these types. There is a difference between ruggedly handsome and a slob. I kid you not, What I said was the absolute truth. The guy I spoke of above,Every time I see him his hair is sticking straight up and looks like it's got five pounds of dirt in it. Sometimes I wonder if he ever takes a bath. And here is another one. This is the gods honest truth. It happened to me. I met a woman on POF. We talked for a good while. Everything seemed OK. I'll be honest. I'm over weight. I've got a gut on me. But, When I go out to meet someone I try my best to put my best foot forward. I'm clean,I shave and I wear clean clothes. Nothing fancy. Just nice. I'm gonna make this story short and get to the good part. This is gonna be hard for some to believe,but it's the truth. This woman stopped dating me because I smelled to good every time we met. She told me straight to my face that she liked the smell of sweat on a man. It turned her on. I was floored. I never thought I would ever in this life time be told that by a woman. I don't want to date you anymore because you smell to good. She told me that if I really liked her that I would have to stop using deodorant. She said that she could not get turned on with a man that smelled to good. I was really floored. This woman told me that the only way she could have sex with a man,He had to smell like a man that had worked all day in the sun. The stinker,The better. I never saw her again after that. I couldn't help but think she was a few fries short of a happy meal. That's just something I'm not going to do. I'm not going to stink for anyone. But, Lets say nothing is wrong with this woman between the ears. It's just her personal preference. That would mean that if there is one that way,There are others that are that way. Which would explain the good looking lawyer lady being attracted to the walking pile of dirt I see in town. I wonder where the conversation would have gone had you asked HER to give up soap for a week? 
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Something tells me that if I were to put a pic of me, laying down on my side in a silk robe opened up to reveal some silk boxers.....yeah....I don't think I would get many responses. 
Quit hacking into my dreams! 
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Topic:
Public display of Affection
Edited by
1Cynderella
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Sun 08/04/13 06:38 AM
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I consider any affection that the adult entertainment industry would not charge admission for as okay for public display. 
Oh,...So, in other words, you get what you pay for, right? 
Uhhh...no. Just saying while I'm perfectly fine with pda, I don't personally, nor would I appreciate when others, put on a peep show for the public. 
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Topic:
Public display of Affection
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I consider any affection that the adult entertainment industry would not charge admission for as okay for public display.
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Benjamin Franklin would be proud to know his closing technique is still thriving....and being used to get you dates.
 
That was actually pretty cute.
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When you are true to yourself, any love you hold true in your heart is true love.
The rare thing in life is to find someone who is also true to themselves and has a true love for you too.
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Topic:
How far is too far?
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If I were in a loving, committed relationship with someone who moved to another country, I would live anywhere with him. But I would not move to another country in hopes of achieving a loving and committed relationship with someone.
In other words...I will not give up my entire life for a chance at love, but an existing love, I would not give up for my entire life. 
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Usually it takes a few dates to really get to know a potential mate. Sitting across from each other while dining, talking, sharing a few jokes, people-watching, and getting to know one another is all fine and good, but, what about the first meeting behind closed doors? Just exactly how far does the first impression extend? Are your options still open when the clothes come off and you find yourself contemplating a difficult decision? What if you are not exactly excited about what you see or what have may just occurred? What do you do then? Do you tell your partner to go on a diet? Do you tell them to try an enhancement product? Find a new breath mint?
First impression???  Well, one thing for certain. One particular option is always open - "What If?"
It would all depend on the situation. Like if he turns out to have two dogs in his junkyard, I suppose the choices are an encore performance or phone a friend. 
2 dogs in his junkyard? 
I would hope a fella would warn a girl if he had something really novel going on in that region. Wouldn't he?
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Topic:
What if?
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Wouldnt it be classier to just ask the guy to leave? Hahaha yeh probably so. So no show of masculinity then? (Adds input to his what not to do on a date list)
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Edited by
1Cynderella
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Sat 08/03/13 05:20 AM
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Usually it takes a few dates to really get to know a potential mate. Sitting across from each other while dining, talking, sharing a few jokes, people-watching, and getting to know one another is all fine and good, but, what about the first meeting behind closed doors? Just exactly how far does the first impression extend? Are your options still open when the clothes come off and you find yourself contemplating a difficult decision? What if you are not exactly excited about what you see or what have may just occurred? What do you do then? Do you tell your partner to go on a diet? Do you tell them to try an enhancement product? Find a new breath mint?
First impression??? Well, one thing for certain. One particular option is always open - "What If?"
It would all depend on the situation. Like if he turns out to have two dogs in his junkyard, I suppose the choices are an encore performance or phone a friend.
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Edited by
1Cynderella
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Thu 08/01/13 12:27 PM
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will you fight for your love or let him go and let him be at peace even it means you will be crying? Will u ask hime to fight wth your relationship if it is his friends and families against it? I only date grown men who know their own minds, trust their own decisions and don't need permission from others to live their lives as they see fit. So, no. I would not try to convince someone to be with me if he is swayed so easily by others. Also I can't help but wonder why they don't like me. Did I sneaze in their cornflakes or something?
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Topic:
Living a lie
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I've dodged that one so far.
Can't say it doesn't worry me that it appears to be so common. 
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Watching him smile became the most amazing feeling I'd ever felt.
 That's when I knew I was in love.
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I started feeling a pain in my gut. Turned out it was gas. 
Are you telling me I might NOT have been in love with that spinach artichoke pizza?
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Topic:
What's your mood right now?
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<--- been like this all day. Just can't seem to stop myself.
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why call it a Sacrifice if you bettered yourself? If you envision your life a symphony and spend all your time mastering the drums, no matter how accomplished a drummer you may be; one drummer does not a symphony make. A drummer without a symphony can still appreciate his skill and still regret not having committed more efforts in other instruments along the way. Fortunately for our drummer, it's never too late to learn.
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