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Good Sex
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Good sex is something a lot of people talk about, but very few are able to accomplish.  
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So...all this time I just wanted a BFF all along. 
Hey wait a minute...you're trying to rip me off here. 
There's nothing in there about mind blowing sex! 
You creep that in....with the cuddling We will add that in as #23 
You so sneaky. 
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Friendship to relationship
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I didn't see it either. I'm just in an agreeable mood today.
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So...all this time I just wanted a BFF all along.
Hey wait a minute...you're trying to rip me off here.
There's nothing in there about mind blowing sex!
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Friendship to relationship
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Absolutely...couldn't agree more.
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Good Sex
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To quote 9,275,463 Mingle profiles, "I'll tell ya later."
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OH THE IRONY !!!
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You ladies would complain if a old dude was wanting to get him some of that young stuff.
My dearest Goof...that's part of the irony though isn't it? Why do you think so many young men are chasing after 40 something women? You 40's fellas have all the little hotties all tied up these days.  Just realized I typed "all tied up"! 
Rope? Scarf? Duct tape?
Careful with that duct tape stud. 
The waxing scene from 40 Year Old Virgin comes to mind.   
Yeowwwwwwww......Kelly Clarkson! I'm riddled with guilt whenever I see it. It feels wrong to laugh....but I just can't help it!
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LOL
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I think the shirtless men of the world think their abs can hypnotize us into forgetting we might never have liked them with their shirts ON.
But that will never work on mmmm.... for the love of God, put those washboards....ummm, pictures away! I'm trying to concentrate here! 
Now what was I saying?
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Nice guys.
Edited by
1Cynderella
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Wed 08/07/13 07:38 AM
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I don't see niceness as being related in any way to a passive personality; or being a pushover. They're completely different things. I think men with passive personalities are often labeled "nice guys" due to the unlikelihood that they will disagree with anything or confront anyone, when in truth you may never really know the mind or demeanor of a passive person...as by nature they are not as forthcoming about themselves for fear of initializing conflict.
On the other hand, aggressive personalities are not all bad boys either. Plenty of aggressive, go getters, thrill seeker types are very loving, passionate, respectful, nice guys and a great deal of fun too. 
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Unconditional love.
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Oh no I thought we was going to be able to not hear the coon rant anymore but don't think that's going to happen
Rants? No rants. Just concentrated discourse. Mature adults who love unconditionally and have passionate religious and spiritual convictions don't rant at one another, they debate the merits of their beliefs and differences respectfully. As should we all. 
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Unconditional love.
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To me unconditional love is like "I'm a drug dealer are you cool with that?" "No" "Well then you don't love me unconditionaly" Maybe unconditional love is over rated. Like some have said, the love is still there, even if I dont what the behavior in my life, so Im leavin. Love wont make me prisoner. Love just makes me happy and alive. So if someone chooses their drugs over me, then they dont really love me much anyway, do they? what im trina say, is that the love isnt conditional, the relationship is. It's easier to love someone unconditionally....if you know for sure what their condition is FIRST! 
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5 date rule?
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I'm curious what your reaction would be if someone told you they had a 5 date rule. Meaning that they require that you have at least 5 dates before they would consider becoming intimate. What would your reaction be? I would say ignore the five date rule, who is to say when both parties are ready to move closer together, could be the 5th date, 6th date , 7th date, ... It will happen when both want it to happen in my opinion.
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Topic:
Unconditional love.
Edited by
1Cynderella
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Wed 08/07/13 06:40 AM
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I agree that Shakespeare's Sonnet 116 is beautiful. Sigh. No.
According to your, and Shakespeare's, definition of love, I must love everyone...as I hate none.
In the spirit of trying to understand your concept of this, if there is nothing in between, and jealousy, pride and infidelity are all hate, then are sympathy, compassion and pity actually love? Personally, I subscribe to the traditional definitions of love and hate as supported by modern psychology as being emotions. So, we are not likely to agree on anything using such different definitions. But I'm confident you won't hold that against me, as someone so vehemently passionate about LOVE. 
Trust, humility, and faithfulness* are parts of love. Love is a series of actions that do not change if the subject of that love changes; that is what "unconditional" means. No matter what flaws a person may have, or may attain, love sees beyond them always. That said, unconditional love is impossible for a human being to achieve without God. * Those being the approximate, conceptual opposites of jealousy, pride, and infidelity. Did you just sigh at me?
Sorry, I didn't explain that I was not seeking antonyms of jealousy, pride and infidelity. You illustrated those negative emotions and actions as being a part of hatred, so I was asking if you also relate positive emotions and actions to love...specifically sympathy, compassion and pity, which are the three non-hateful emotions I CAN feel for someone I once loved who later turns into a rapist, sadistic torturer and murderer. I can feel sympathy, compassion and pity for even the most vile monster, in fact usually do whether I professed to have loved them before or not. So, if those are indeed a part of love by your definition, then I guess I DO have unconditional love for a rapist and murderer. I'm just illustrating that by your definition, I DO love unconditionally...therefor we are debating something we actually agree on.
However, had I been married to this person prior to his horrific actions, there would certainly be no more nookie in his future. |
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unblock someone
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I need to get my glasses. I thought this topic was...How to unlock someone. I thought someone lost the keys to the handcuffs.
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Robot like answers
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Sorry...I'll try to make my next message more entertaining.
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OH THE IRONY !!!
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The men our age are busy dating the 20 year old girls.
It's a vicious cycle.
it seems to me that women in their 40's and even 50's, have lost their husbands, raised daughters on their own, and those daughters have had children at a young age and can not or will not raise them. so the grandmother has taken on the responsibility of raising the grandchild. also the women in their 40's and 50's what to hold on to old traditions that make meeting men darn near impossible that leaves these younger daughters free to go out and date older men i guarantee i guarantee that if women have to keep raising daughters on their own, and then granddaughters, this is a vicious cycle that could last generations (bulldog double guarantee - patent pending)
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OH THE IRONY !!!
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You ladies would complain if a old dude was wanting to get him some of that young stuff.
My dearest Goof...that's part of the irony though isn't it? Why do you think so many young men are chasing after 40 something women? You 40's fellas have all the little hotties all tied up these days. Just realized I typed "all tied up"!
Rope? Scarf? Duct tape?
Careful with that duct tape stud.
The waxing scene from 40 Year Old Virgin comes to mind.
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OH THE IRONY !!!
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Here is the thing, when I see someone chatting in the community..I might like what they said and check out their profile. I can't tell their age by their picture and when I get there they might be in their 20's and I think OMG he is that young. I think maybe they can not tell our age by pictures only? I know I can't. Hey start complaining when you have someone 78 checking you out, I did the other day. I was thinking wow, he is Dad Material. LOL
What is funny is when you have an 18 year old kid writing you saying, you are hawt. LOL my youngest son is 18, so I just chuckle!! That's the only thing that actually worries me...the language in the notes that come with invites. Didn't anyone teach these whippersnappers to respect their elders? 
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OH THE IRONY !!!
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So let's put this all in perspective, shall we! I just turned 60 - omg! Anyways, yesterday I got viewed and added as a favourite by a 28 yr. old and a 22 yr. old because why I ask you! My kids are older than they are! That is seriously creepy! I asked them what the hay they were doing looking at a 60 yr. old's profile! I think they're looking for any female or anyone with female parts!!! Seriously creepy!!! You should ask them if they want you to spank them or diaper them first? 
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OH THE IRONY !!!
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did someone say duct tape????
ya this place is a frackin freak show sometimes....I get all kinds...the teenagers I advise to get off the internet and go do their homework lol One on my viewed me list looked about 15, and after reading his message wanted to tell him to quit sleeping in Lit class.
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