Does love exist? It's all around you. Love is a Mother nurturing her child. Love is a child cuddling her kitten. Love is a elderly man helping his wife with her sweater in the movie theater. Love is everywhere.

No, I must find it before a prince does. Do you have any idea how high maintenance a prince is?

I don't believe in moping around about a lost relationship either. For me, that's not the point of being alone at all. Personally, I like a period of self reflection between relationships to concentrate on myself and my own needs before inviting someone else into my life. But that's just me. Everyone has their own comfort level and does their own thang...and that's cool.

But don't you think you will hurt her more to break up with her over a new girlfriend you find than to just tell her now that it's not working out between you and you feel it's time to move on with your separate lives? You once cared for her enough to have been in a relationship with her...can her feelings matter so little to you now?

What would be the point of hanging onto one while looking for another? That could be taken as wanting your cake and eating it too.

It's also not very fair to keep her out of the loop when making a decision this big. Doesn't she deserve the right to move on too if it's over?

Trying to find the lost and found. Misplaced my glass slipper...again!

Are you suggesting I'm better off with the devil I know?

Why are you posting a pic of MY MAN!

DUDE! Back away from my stud! I SAW 'EM FIRST!

If I had a family with children I would be more than happy to encourage the children to play in the garage so my man can enjoy the solitude and comforts of the family den for his manly pursuits.

I'm sure for the safety and welfare of his children, he will be happy to remove all sharp objects, combustible fuels and power operated tools to the den with him.



If the claims about education are true, it's somewhat of a reversal of fortune I suppose. But isn't it perpetuated by the need to encourage girls to do more and be more than what their Mothers and Grandmothers could attain? And isn't that a good thing when it was needed? So, can blame be laid solely at the feet of the women teachers/administrators, when looking back at the reason for this shift, it's really the very pavement that was laid under those feet by the whole of society? Just as women spoke up, men should be doing so now if they feel society puts them at a disadvantage.

I for one will revel at the sight of men taking to the streets in protest of inequality and burning... jock straps?

I would feel ill at ease if a person I were asking for a date or planning to meet were not open enough with me to share a photo or two with me.

Personally, I've recently experienced a bit of discomfort when it comes to just anyone perusing the photos on my profile, so took them down. The person I plan to meet can have all the pictures he wants of me.

I would not expect someone to meet me if they have not seen recent photos so they can put a face to the person they're getting acquainted with. I believe that physical expressions are part of a personality and if I'm going to meet someone, I want them to have as good of an idea of who I am in whole, so there will be no shocking surprises when we do meet. I think that's important.

I can't see this through the eyes of a bodacious beauty queen who has to fight men off with sticks. The problems they may face, I couldn't tell you.

I love this...a perfect analogy! Vroom vroom!

I wouldn't worry about your single status of only 2 years. After all if it were that easy for us to find someone we relate to and can share our lives with, we would probably all be so alike this world would be way too boring.

I also think that the longer it takes to find someone special enough to want to really share ourselves with, the more special it is when it happens and the less likely we are to take it for granted.

I would like to think I'd be happy with myself in whatever sex I'd been born as.

That being said, I actually enjoy being a girl, but that could be just because it's the only thing I know. Maybe being a boy is more fun or satisfying...but I would never know it. I'm certain there are issues and obstacles that come with maleness, just as there are those that come with femininity.

It's my belief that you can't expect other people to be excited about who you are when YOU'RE not even excited about who you are.

Of course if the frame of mind you're presenting us now, you may think you have nothing to be excited about yourself for. That's just your bad perspective talking. Teach your bad perspective to have good perspectives by writing down all your good qualities that you're proud off. I know it seems silly, but if you do it, you may be surprised how powerful that exercise can be in reminding ourselves of the good qualities we overlook when we're in a such a s slump.

Yes, I believe everyone here who has said we all have gone though this at some point in our lives. You can also be thankful that you're going through this early and getting it out of the way. Consider it a growth tool in your journey to discovering your deeper self.

It's true...It's true! Great minds really DO think alike.

It's only when we stray from our own moral standards that we see a thing as wrong, so this answer is too relative for a singular answer.

Personally, it's wrong FOR ME to engage in sexual relations with someone I don't care deeply for. But that is my standard, because I feel anything less deminishes the value and anything more might eliminate the possibility altogether.

That's perfectly understandable. I might have thought he was talking about me too, with the exception, of course, that I don't wear your underwear.

Clipping toenails at the dinner table between courses means it's O F T for me. If he can't wait til the dishes are cleared, I'm OUT!

I would consider strip Twister a contractual perk only. The guy next door will just have to play wiff himself I guess.

Now that would just be disrespectful. I butcher French badly enough as it is.