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Hi
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Hi. Shirley...welcome!
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Hello fellow minglers.
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Welcome
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How do you feel when~~~
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LouLou2
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Never been in that situation, but it sounds like something wonderful to anticipate. As long as he'd be certain to arrive before my move to a nursing home , I think I'd wait.
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Are you a
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I seem to collect stuff that just needs a bit of fixing...a little glue, a coat of paint, some refinishing, perhaps rewired. Now, I refuse to bring anything else home...figure I'll be dead before everything I've already amassed is fixed...
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Met the ex in a bar...what the he!! was I thinkin'??? Musta been that flaming shot...
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What makes you
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I'm really good to the people I care about. Actually, I'm pretty good to people in general.
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I think I have a tendency to see people as I'd like them to be...or as I think they are. I kind of get ahead of things...I form these ideas of the person before I've had time to learn who they are. When a person doesn't match the image I've made of them in my head, I am disappointed...not necessarily because I don't like who they are...just that they are different from what I'd thought. At this late date, I'm finally allowing myself the time for friendships to evolve and to learn about others at the natural pace. Funny, at a point in my life when I feel I'm running out of time, I'm finally learning to slow down and enjoy what is...
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Today is gonna be the day...
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Oh, yeah...I ruminated about the 'whys' and 'hows' for a good while. I think the ruminating was something I had to do to make it real to me. It sort of allowed everything to sift down into my head. Took time, but I eventually saw the person as who he is. Not sure I'd have seen it without the pain and ruminating. Reality gave me permission to walk away...to let it go. Best thing I ever did.
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Games people play...
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Stigma
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The aging hippie thing I've got going on doesn't have them beating down the door, Lex...not to mention my addiction to nicotine My hunch is that the "aging hippie" scenario has a rather limited target constituency, i.e., other aging hippies and wannabe aging hippies. It's sort of recursive.....!! I had this idea that being an internationally-known author (and I've sold books in at least 3 countries, so that counts!) would make me a veritable chick magnet. But no! I've already done the musician thing, so what's left? Actor? Politician? Oxi-Clean spokesperson? Ambassador to Ghana? I just don't know anymore. Good point. Unfortunately, it is all I've got... |
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Stigma
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The aging hippie thing I've got going on doesn't have them beating down the door, Lex...not to mention my addiction to nicotine
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Favorite Covers
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Soggy Bottom Boys - Man of Constant Sorrow (Bob Dylan cover [well... Dylan's is the most famous version]) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=08e9k-c91E8&feature=fvst Good song...terrific movie! |
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What sort of car would...
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Good question. Wonder if he'd drive one at all given the mess down in the Gulf? Of course someone around here that is better versed in this than I will surely provide an answer.
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Favorite Covers
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Favorite Covers
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That is the point I was trying to make...no one is willing to listen to anyone. Is it just possible that some of what everyone is saying is truth, is valid, is relevant? Is it just possible that if we try to get past the first sentence, or the one differing opinion (no matter how major it may be) that we might find some common ground? Something? If we could just stop belittling each other's opinions with adjectives like 'stupid', and using the terms 'liberal' and 'conservative' as if they were slurs, couldn't the we come up with better ways of dealing with the problems we face? Oh, geez...I am so out of step with these times...I still look around me and say, "people are just people...same as me..." - *sigh* - "Those were the days, my friend..."
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Mr. Codrescu speaks English as fluently as is his written English...probably far more proper than most of us. He does speak, however, with a delightful accent that may have at one time seemed attractive to many women in the U.S. Accents were once considered exotic or attractive. Times change I suppose. Now it seems they are considered a threat. Very sad...I love recalling my great-uncle's voice with his English accent. He'd lived as a U.S. citizen for 3/4 of his life, but still had that accent when he passed. where does it say that they can put you in jail for speaking english with an accent? I don't recall mentioning jail. I did, however, talk of how times had changed...and I imagine times will continue changing. I would mention, though, that under Arizona law, Mr. Codrescu would not have been able to teach here for 40 years...because of his accent. really... the law doesn't allow citizens with accents to teach? "School districts in Arizona are under orders from the state's Department of Education to remove from classrooms teachers who speak English with a very heavy accent or whose speech is ungrammatical." This is from a different article. |
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Arizona's new immigration law is outrageous to anyone who's had the bad luck of living in a country where fear of the police was a constant source of suppressed rage. A huge weight lifted off my psyche when I came to the U.S. from Communist Romania and was told that the police couldn't stop me just because I still wore my commie trench coat and spoke with an accent.
That was in 1966, and now in Arizona in 2010, the police can target both my trench coat and my accent. The Arizona Department of Education has told schools that teachers with "heavy" or "ungrammatical" accents are no longer allowed to teach English to kids just learning to speak the language. Oh boy! Did I land back behind the Iron Curtain half a century ago? My last 40 years of teaching would have never happened if the Arizona law had been the law of the land in 1966. Forty years of accented instruction gone by the wayside! Gone also the 40 years when American education, lower and higher, finally recognized the diversity of America. "Come to think of it, the Arizona law doesn't go far enough: People with accents should be banned from any profession that involves communication. Politics, for instance. Henry Kissinger's accent would surely qualify for the ban. And let's not stop with the foreign-born: Ban all accents. Southern accents, for instance, or Yankee ones. Actually, there isn't anyone who speaks without an accent, so let's just ban communicating altogether. This would be a much better country if everyone just kept quiet and handed his proof of citizenship to the police. Arizona's immigration law should be rewritten to make every person who sees a policeman just go over to that policeman and hand over voluntarily, and quietly, proof of residency in the respective police district." I don't care to read the article, you said accents were now considered a threat... who considers them a threat? Then, please, don't trouble yourself to read it. Sad, though, that is what is wrong. No one is talking with each other. No one is willing to listen to another's view of things. To even read an article seems to threaten some. |
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I've said it before and I'll say it again. The only people who have anything to worry about are the ones who are doing something wrong. "From your lips...", as they say. I hope you are right. |
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Mr. Codrescu speaks English as fluently as is his written English...probably far more proper than most of us. He does speak, however, with a delightful accent that may have at one time seemed attractive to many women in the U.S. Accents were once considered exotic or attractive. Times change I suppose. Now it seems they are considered a threat. Very sad...I love recalling my great-uncle's voice with his English accent. He'd lived as a U.S. citizen for 3/4 of his life, but still had that accent when he passed. where does it say that they can put you in jail for speaking english with an accent? I don't recall mentioning jail. I did, however, talk of how times had changed...and I imagine times will continue changing. I would mention, though, that under Arizona law, Mr. Codrescu would not have been able to teach here for 40 years...because of his accent. |
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