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Fri 07/10/09 02:06 PM


I haven't decided whether or not I'm up to meeting that kid again from last weekend cause do I really feel like being seen naked? He was cute and young and interested but all that might freak me out a bit and be a bit much for my nervous system.


Eh??? Do you meet him at a nudist beach? Why would someone you met last weekend be seeing you naked? spock


How are YOU starting the weekend?


I'll be shoveling horsecr*p and doing other barn duties late this afternoon and evening. Yes, I live on the wild side... not. laugh




well, we'll probably wind up kissing then he'll invite me to his place and i can't resist a big safe bed with a set of nice big man arms.

you live on a farm, alternativa? i've always wondered what that must be like

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Fri 07/10/09 02:04 PM
Edited by savagirl on Fri 07/10/09 02:39 PM

You need to be VERY careful with the Xanax.


careful not to lose any under the car seat

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Fri 07/10/09 02:01 PM
boys? in healthcare?


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Fri 07/10/09 01:58 PM



i usually start by eating my boogers:smile:


thats's kinda gross and pointless
yeah most threads are the same way to:smile:


pointless, yes, but gross? i'm not 100% with that

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Fri 07/10/09 01:57 PM

Melatonin and a float trip:tongue:



hmm... that sounds new. i thought melatonin works only for the older crowd.

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Fri 07/10/09 01:54 PM

frustrated self absorbed much?


who is not?

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Fri 07/10/09 01:52 PM

dilaudid is better



never tried

i'll have to inquire on that

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Fri 07/10/09 01:51 PM

i usually start by eating my boogers:smile:


thats's kinda gross and pointless

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Fri 07/10/09 01:40 PM
I've already popped two xanax, prescribed-I'm no street trash, and I haven't decided whether or not I'm up to meeting that kid again from last weekend cause do I really feel like being seen naked? He was cute and young and interested but all that might freak me out a bit and be a bit much for my nervous system.

Two xanax, one fat free sugar free sundae (that oughtta do a number) and I'm ready to deal with the weekend.

I will miss you work, sniff, I will miss you fancy math class, double sniff.

I need to find more junk to do for the weekend.. or maybe I'll meet up with him... but then I'll need to care about my appearance and I'll go psychotic in the mirror even though I rationally know that I'm above average.

How are YOU starting the weekend?

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Tue 06/30/09 09:34 AM
i've basically given up food so i can be skinny. just cut it off, my relationship with food. and i've reached my goal and it's not enough so i keep going. but all in all i was HAPPIER and more energetic when i was 30 lbs heavier and honestly i had more boyfriends even then. perhaps it was because i didn't have to OBSESS about what i consumed. my identity came from somewhere other than how thin i was. i think that's an enviable position for any girl to be in.. to actually believe it to be true.

so life has taken me here and there, good and not so good, cause basically life is larger than anyone or anything can ever be.

internally, this is what i have left.

externally, it's all appearances and presumptions. the value is there apparently.

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Tue 06/30/09 04:38 AM
Edited by savagirl on Tue 06/30/09 04:39 AM


I broke up with a guy recently. He was baffled. He thought things were going so well and that the relationship had had real 'potential.' I found myself biting my lip to giving any details that would answer the question 'Why?'.

I should have liked to be honest and tell him he spoke too much about his mother, that I couldn't stand those plaid shorts and that maybe he should never even wear shorts, that I lost all sexual attraction when he actually allowed me to pay his beer, that having his car towed cause he had an expired tag AND no proof of insurance made him a loser...the list goes on. Yes, he did need dental. No, he shouldn't have only replaced the lenses of those frames. Yes, he did need a shower before we got intimate. Don't brag about a cheap, bad haircut. Driving a classic doesn't automatically make you cute or interesting. The list goes ON.

I think he would benefit in a future relationship if he knew maybe some things to do or not do. Isn't that better for him than letting him scratch his head about my ending it, or do I simply have a greater sadistic side than I realize?





And you were initially attracted to him, why? huh


Doesn't say a lot for you....this post.ohwell




c'est une bonne questione!

he seemed outgoing and nice. i thought i'd have a closer look.

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Tue 06/30/09 04:34 AM



If he was such a loser, why did you go out with him in the first place.???


maybe she didn't know he was a loser, or he became a loser during the relationship? it happens, trust me


Bad teeth, BO, clothing choices, and a bad hair cut were there in her face when she first met him.
That didn't show up after they were intimate.


some actually make that first impression. a lot of guys look good in a tux or clean up for events

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Tue 06/30/09 04:31 AM

people don't wanna know what's wrong with em. They'll just get defensive and resentful

better to just say "it's not you, it's me" even if it really is them


thats kind of sad or self defeating or something

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Tue 06/30/09 04:29 AM


I'm sure he knew, it's like when a girl says it's not you it's me. You know she's sparing your "feelings". People know there shortcommings. Life goes on.


not all the time; you have a lot of social deviants who have no clue why they are alone and considered undateable by any woman with standards.


yes, some are living the delusion

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Tue 06/30/09 04:27 AM


If he was such a loser, why did you go out with him in the first place.???


maybe she didn't know he was a loser, or he became a loser during the relationship? it happens, trust me


yep:banana:

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Tue 06/30/09 04:27 AM

If he was such a loser, why did you go out with him in the first place.???


sometimes a girl will try out a guy who seems nice and sometimes we, i guess, find out some things we dont like or maybe he wasnt all that nice in the first place.

gossiping is not nice.

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Tue 06/30/09 04:25 AM

people can not correct their flaws if they're never brought to their attention. you should have told him before/as you were dumping him. if you do it now it you will only sound like a bitter ex who's trying to hurt him.


. . .


im afraid i agree. the chance is lost unless he presses further.

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Tue 06/30/09 04:23 AM


I broke up with a guy recently. He was baffled. He thought things were going so well and that the relationship had had real 'potential.' I found myself biting my lip to giving any details that would answer the question 'Why?'.

I should have liked to be honest and tell him he spoke too much about his mother, that I couldn't stand those plaid shorts and that maybe he should never even wear shorts, that I lost all sexual attraction when he actually allowed me to pay his beer, that having his car towed cause he had an expired tag AND no proof of insurance made him a loser...the list goes on. Yes, he did need dental. No, he shouldn't have only replaced the lenses of those frames. Yes, he did need a shower before we got intimate. Don't brag about a cheap, bad haircut. Driving a classic doesn't automatically make you cute or interesting. The list goes ON.

I think he would benefit in a future relationship if he knew maybe some things to do or not do. Isn't that better for him than letting him scratch his head about my ending it, or do I simply have a greater sadistic side than I realize?






you should have been more honest with him, he did deserve to know the real truth



i should have taken longer to prepare a statement for him. it couldve sounded like an attack.. like i was the one with the issues.

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Tue 06/30/09 04:21 AM


I broke up with a guy recently. He was baffled. He thought things were going so well and that the relationship had had real 'potential.' I found myself biting my lip to giving any details that would answer the question 'Why?'.

I should have liked to be honest and tell him he spoke too much about his mother, that I couldn't stand those plaid shorts and that maybe he should never even wear shorts, that I lost all sexual attraction when he actually allowed me to pay his beer, that having his car towed cause he had an expired tag AND no proof of insurance made him a loser...the list goes on. Yes, he did need dental. No, he shouldn't have only replaced the lenses of those frames. Yes, he did need a shower before we got intimate. Don't brag about a cheap, bad haircut. Driving a classic doesn't automatically make you cute or interesting. The list goes ON.

I think he would benefit in a future relationship if he knew maybe some things to do or not do. Isn't that better for him than letting him scratch his head about my ending it, or do I simply have a greater sadistic side than I realize?





I call it constructive criticism. How old is this guy? He sounds fresh out of high school.


47.. yikes!

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Tue 06/30/09 04:20 AM

I'm pretty sure if he stays away from you he will be fine!


good answer!

geez, im sorry i missed these, but i had to run somewhere!

yes, he may be fine but is ignorance really bliss? is living the delusion really living?