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i for one am not dissing. i hope you find someone wonderful. i think that security, openness, family, honesty and financial security are vitally important. i even recognize that there are vastly different lifestyles out there and i'm not the type to criticize at all. good luck in your search. Thanks very much. I look forward to being a devoted wife and mother 
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It seems to me the people replying do not believe a potential partner's financial status has any place in discussing marriage, family and home life?
That sounds a litle short sighted to me. I think financial stress is a contributing factor in divorce. |
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I cant believe this thread.. lol wow! all i have to say. With you on that one M...My grands have been married 60 years. I have this weird idea that you marry someone to be faithful FOREVER. But thats coming from me...still single at 31. me too and i am single 22 yr man.. i do care how hot your are i wouldnt go for that shi*. and guessin since you didnt post a pic you are most likely on the fugly side.. have more respect for youself. I have repsect for myself and for others as well. |
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Are you writing all this down yet? The ladies here are talking to you. Us guys are dissin' you hard!!!!! Listen to the ladies and get your head straight.   
What is wrong with wanting a man that can provide financial security for his family? Why are you guys 'dissin' me? |
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I'm a sweet, smart, loving girl.... You've got one thing right, you are a "girl" (as opposed to a woman) but "smart"? Don't think so.... What's not smart about wanting a suitable marriage and family partner? You don't want a "suitable marriage and family partner," you want to use someone to get what you want. Frankly, your laziness and materialism would scare the sh it out of me if I were a man. That sounds hateful. I am in graduate studies and will be earning a master's degree. Wanting a nice house for yourself and your children is a good thing, right? Graduate school? Where, Degrees-R-Us.com? I can't post that here, but the main point I'm making is that I'm not lazy and have my own career. I care about family
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YOUR QUOTE: Honestly, men, your appearance isn't everything. Grooming and dress matter. You should be an affluent professional or successful business person, being able to afford a comfortable home and vacation retreats. Excessive lifestyle isn't necessary rather basic luxuries. MINE: This part confuses me..or maybe u are just confused your self....Excessive lifestyle isnt necessary? Yet you want vacation retreats? Hahahahahahaha....sorry that dont make sense to me 
I just mean we don't need his and her private jets or to own a yacht when you can charter. basic luxuries, like we both have our own car and maybe sinks in the bathroom. |
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would you be willing to keep finances completely separate and sign a prenuptial agreement in case the marriage failed? Prenups are insulting. I'd never sign one. |
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I think you are very traditional woman......I didn't realize that anyone would put up with mistresses on the side in this day and age....would you really be okay with that when it came down to the nitty gritty reality..... Men do this all time If my husband gives me a home and children and care, I don't have a problem granting him some liberty if he desires it.
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I'm a sweet, smart, loving girl.... You've got one thing right, you are a "girl" (as opposed to a woman) but "smart"? Don't think so.... What's not smart about wanting a suitable marriage and family partner? You don't want a "suitable marriage and family partner," you want to use someone to get what you want. Frankly, your laziness and materialism would scare the sh it out of me if I were a man. That sounds hateful. I am in graduate studies and will be earning a master's degree. Wanting a nice house for yourself and your children is a good thing, right? |
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I think you're looking for the wrong things. I mean, if that's what you really want, I'm sorry to judge you. However, are you affluent yourself? Are you independent? Are you successful? A lot of successful men these days are weary of women who are just looking for someone to "take care" of them. Of course, there are men who like to take care of women, but do you really want to be under someone's thumb? If he makes all the money, he has all the control. If i'm wrong about you and you are a successful, independent woman, then you have every right to want the same in a man. However, it sounds like you're looking for superficial qualities. Make your own success, dont rely on someone else's. I'm interested in a family life together. I think having children and a marital union are commitments. How is it superficial to want a man who can provide? I have a career, but I don't plan on being a single parent or spending more time with my clients than I do with my children. |
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WOW!!!!
Not one to "pick" but ummm..does anyone else pick up on some STRANGE (maybe unhealthy) attributes here???? Or maybe its just me....what the hell. Good luck in finding him...cause that's NOT this puppy!
Unhealthy? I think I'm hearing people on this site have unhealthy ideas about relationships. What is unhealthy about wanting a good man for marriage? |
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I'm a sweet, smart, loving girl.... You've got one thing right, you are a "girl" (as opposed to a woman) but "smart"? Don't think so.... What's not smart about wanting a suitable marriage and family partner? |
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And when you have had enough and feel real COMFORTABLE, YOU WILL TAKE YOUR HALF OF ALL OF HIS, HUH? No thank you, lil darlin' ! Good luck on that one.
No, commitment and family are important. Taking care of one another is important. |
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Just wondering why you don't just want a man who will be honest and loyal to you? I think it takes more than just honesty or just loyalty to run a household. I want to have children and be there to raise them without the ordinary, accepted, and ugly pressures of most american families. Commitment is important. |
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I'm a sweet, smart, loving girl that would like to date men to find a marriage partner. I want to have children, a family and home.
Honestly, men, your appearance isn't everything. Grooming and dress matter. You should be an affluent professional or successful business person, being able to afford a comfortable home and vacation retreats. Excessive lifestyle isn't necessary rather basic luxuries. Naturally, I would like a healthy love life but also understand men sometimes like variety. That's ok with me though I probably won't want to hear about it, and as long as you take care of your responsibilities. |
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