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rich junkie types
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Since polyps are at the other end of the spectrum 
I suppose you are getting at the fact that we take it in the rear for each other...?  
Yes you could say we help one another make decisions and distinctions. So many to teach for some. The question remains, who made who gay. Now look, I think I've run sav a girl off. Which way did YOU go, hun? I'm already well into it fire. I'm beginning to think relationships and family choices are all questions of whose delusion are you willing to buy into. I'm sorting and not ready to pick up his tab. |
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rich junkie types
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This makes me truly sad for you  Not sympathetic..and in no way am I condoning your lifestyle...but there is so much in the way you speak that is poetic and it makes me sad...because you are an intelligent woman and the answer is right in front of you.....but to be honest...if he's so far gone that he doesnt even "see" you anymore...its time to walk...even if it is the most painful thing you ever do in your life....even if your love for him exceeds any and all things.....your love for yourself...should be much greater....and the material things mean nothing....
Thank you angelface Walking away is one thing, leaving is another. I think its a transformation every time we decide.
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rich junkie types
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I just want to tell him, go be a real junkie. Hang with a band of users and do it the real way. No more hiding hypodermics under your granite countertop and your double door double seat name brand bathroom and gem inlaid coffee table, silk lampshade, you're like private practice. If I'm going to join him in life until death do us part, we're going to pretend it's so elegant and savory to rattle and dive. I'm telling him I want to be a full scale full blown addict. I will not care what we or our house looks like. Isn't that the point of living free? I tell you, that's his true insanity. Tea time and pretend. I'm game for the high, the lulling to sleep whatever death we reap. We've been perfect for one another since the day we met. Sweetheart childhood love. I just ask for some semblance of authenticity. I'm tired of dating all his friends. He says we'll be clean by the time we're 48. I keep saying I'm ready to crash. Losers.... Who really loses? Am I a loser because he happens to be one of the smartest guys I know? Of all the guys I've dated, he accepts me into his life fully and completely. I coould be Ms. perfect, where are the men who appreciate me and want to have nice families, treat me with respect, I have have a brain that deserves a voice. Life is just so plainly evident to us. The sex was good before the drugs and pyscho drama when we were children. It's like peter pan. We never need to grow up. Just fade and die. Decide if and when we want to be old. |
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rich junkie types
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Give him a little more time with spike, it will take everything,even you if you let it. Just a little more time......... One would think time.. how long has a decade been? |
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rich junkie types
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Uh...I may be a bit easily put on by this idea but...quit? There is no such thing as a lavish living junkie, unless the money was given to them (and a lot at that). So I say, gibberish and plain bollocks this post is. but yeah that's what i'm saying. all good things must come to an end.. or do they?? 
Live clean or live dead. One might think he could have a good thing and the choice IS to junk and manage. |
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rich junkie types
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At least if you choose to be a junkie, have access.
It's what can happen to kids at the end of their ropa. |
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rich junkie types
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I just want to tell him, go be a real junkie. Hang with a band of users and do it the real way. No more hiding hypodermics under your granite countertop and your double door double seat name brand bathroom and gem inlaid coffee table, silk lampshade, you're like private practice.
If I'm going to join him in life until death do us part, we're going to pretend it's so elegant and savory to rattle and dive. I'm telling him I want to be a full scale full blown addict. I will not care what we or our house looks like. Isn't that the point of living free? I tell you, that's his true insanity. Tea time and pretend. I'm game for the high, the lulling to sleep whatever death we reap. We've been perfect for one another since the day we met. Sweetheart childhood love. I just ask for some semblance of authenticity. I'm tired of dating all his friends. He says we'll be clean by the time we're 48. I keep saying I'm ready to crash. |
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McCain is against MLK day
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oh yeah he's been tryin to get the word out to any crzy artist who can listen
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officially tired
Edited by
savagirl
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Fri 06/27/08 12:06 PM
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i'd like to be the boy in the relationship. goodbye maybelline. it just so happens i was born with it. you're retired pink and green.
i wonder which one'll want me as i am hope its daddy(s) this time around... more to come later 
i mean, we can all be low maintenance.. i wear the skirt |
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urination
because my duty was always to beauty try |
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THIS IS THE DEAL
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Thank you Snuggles and Chris.
To all, I don't really understand the hatefulness been expressed here by many of you. I hope only this will demonstrate to other members some of the values we each hold. Now, I will go vomit to purge myself of this filth and faithlessness. Some and most of you though not everyone who posted here don't really seem like relationship or family material. It is sad that you are parents. |
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ABOUT GUYS
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I THINK GUYS DONT KNOW IT BUT THERE ALOT OF GIRLS DO LIKE GUYS JUST RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOU THATS WHY IM CANCEL MY ACCOUNT ON JSH ITS NOT GETTING NO WHERE BUT BEEN CALL NAMES THATS SOMETHING THAT A GIRL DONT LIKE THATS WHY GUYD DONT GET A DATE OR A RELATIONSHIP I CAN DO BETTER THEN THIS HERE WHERE I LIVE AT THEY ARE NICER HERE AND ON MYSPACE.COM ITS BETTER TOO I THINK GUY SOME GUYS AND SOME GIRLS BUT THERE SOME NICE GIRLS AND SOME NICE GUYS ITS IN FRONT OF YOU---YOU HAVE TO LOOK. BYE ALL BABYCAKES This website is about the equivalent of a public restroom at a rest stop or sewerage system underneath. The poets seem cool like the subway kind of folks. That's not a bad choice, baby. |
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THIS IS THE DEAL
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Ok I'm back. Hmmmmmm. Gotta give savagirl credit. She stated her opine. And she stuck to her guns. She never waivered from her selling points. She debated you all well and never let her emotions get in her way. Maybe we didn't hear some issues we didn't like concerning moral issues but hey really what's in your closet and wallet. She put it all out on the table. No BS here. Can you knock someone for different views. We all get knocked and have to roll with the punches. She's did 13 rounds and 13 pages with all of you and she's still standing. Ding! Ding! She's the winner as far as I'm concerned. Debate her. Don't scorn her. Advise her. Don't attack her. What's my problem? None. None whatsoever. And I don't want any. I do have a question for you savagirl and that is what went wrong with your last relationship? Be honest. Did you grow apart? Was he too family as in controlled by his parents orientated? Was there infidelity issues involved? Did you cheat on him? What would he say regarding your breakup? That's all I have. I'd love to have a mutual life with someone. But I'm too old to raise children and I'm not too keen on having a relationship based on contractual obligations and what is expected of each other in one persons mind. There should be more sharing of ideas and mutual interests to keep spice in a lifelong relationship. I'm not interested in a boring unchallenging, non adventurous life. I live my life to its fullest and value every moment full of real love and sharing. I know the difference between right and wrong in my heart and choose the right thing all the time no matter what even if it hurts me. I live life with no regrets and I sleep every night with a clear concious. Wish I could find someone a bit like me. I'm unsure your age, biker, but sounds like you've had some broken relationships. I'm consistent with many of your thoughts. My previous relationships ended for the following reasons: one, he was older, divorced and seemed to chicken out of having a serious relationship even though he approached me with that intention as we were dating. two, I broke up with him. He lied about being interested in family so that he could continue to date me. player. three, was an alcoholic. four, he was nice and had a lot going for him but seemed pressured by his own family, parents, that he resisted. These are a few cases, very simplified. |
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THIS IS THE DEAL
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and? did you make a poor or good choice in marriage partner? Nope. He was and is a good man---and as far as I'm concerned, my marriage was not a failure as we were together for so long. However, situations and people change and it doesn't matter how hard one works, plans, and schemes. Sounds like a lack of commitment. How many children were affected? You are naive. The real world is not black and white. Perhaps you should take a few philosophy classes. Knowing what I want makes me naive? I disagree. This is not a challenge about education, why not stick to the topic. I think she is referring to the fact that you cannot predict the future or determine how things will work out based upon who the person is today. As an example, lets say you find the man you are looking for. 10 years from now his very successful career becomes so stressful that he has a nervous breakdown and gambles everything away and the two of you end up living in that trailer park. Is it your fault for not picking someone else to marry? Mostly, there are no guarantees. Still, choices must be made. I think most people DO ignore the red flags when choosing marriage partners. There is nothing wrong with doing the best you can. |
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THIS IS THE DEAL
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and? did you make a poor or good choice in marriage partner? Nope. He was and is a good man---and as far as I'm concerned, my marriage was not a failure as we were together for so long. However, situations and people change and it doesn't matter how hard one works, plans, and schemes. Sounds like a lack of commitment. How many children were affected? You are naive. The real world is not black and white. Perhaps you should take a few philosophy classes. Knowing what I want makes me naive? I disagree. This is not a challenge about education, why not stick to the topic. |
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THIS IS THE DEAL
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what i find amazing is that everyone is so into discussion about this. everyone needs to be comfortable and that is all she was saying. everybody took issue with her statement about being forgiving of indiscretions. well that may be a little different but it is hardly worth this level of commentary.
she never said she did not prefer fidelity. she never said that she wouldn't contribute. she did say that she wants a loving relationship. she never said that she thought money was of primary importance. i think she just wanted to interact with someone who is in a position to help support her financially. this is not necessarily gold-digging. EVERYBODY wants that. so i say. stick with it savagirl. don't let them define you. i agree that who the person is - is what's is really important - not how much money they have or how much money they make. but i also do not think it is terrible to prefer to be with someone who can help you financially. in every relationship each partner contributes in different ways. Party on, Wayne! 
Indiscretions are not exactly attractive, but I can only presume from the number of married men that pick up on me that it's more common than we think. If I agree to marry a man, I simply realize this is a possibility. We think we're good judges of character, but still there's always the chance. |
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THIS IS THE DEAL
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and? did you make a poor or good choice in marriage partner? Nope. He was and is a good man---and as far as I'm concerned, my marriage was not a failure as we were together for so long. However, situations and people change and it doesn't matter how hard one works, plans, and schemes. Sounds like a lack of commitment. How many children were affected? |
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THIS IS THE DEAL
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For the record, I don't think challenging a person based solely on attacking their education level creates a valid argument.
I still don't see why I should take so much heat from members here that I'm interested in dating successful marriage and family minded men. |
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THIS IS THE DEAL
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what is the SWARM? I don't follow... I'm sure gustava has her own definitions and a long history of urinary tract infections to define it, but I'd call it less than desirable living conditions. Just remember that Jesus would not have a problem with living in a trailer park........unless a tornado was coming:) I'm not Jesus
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THIS IS THE DEAL
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what is the SWARM? I don't follow... I'm sure gustava has her own definitions and a long history of urinary tract infections to define it, but I'd call it less than desirable living conditions. Heehee. Yup, you pegged me... For your information little girl, I was married for 15 years, have a graduate degree in English Literature, owned a successful business, and am currently a writer. and? did you make a poor or good choice in marriage partner? |
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