Met a woman online- 1st date brief, 2nd date 7hrs which ended up us making out/groping/french kissing on the beach. We were vague about setting up the next date so i flat out said i want to see her again and as a response she just grabbed me and kissed me hard.

I took this as a strong yes.

However on the follow up text she says she's too busy to meet me in the immediate future, and that she's not ready for a relationship- which she told me in person even before we started kissing.

Ok, so she is career oriented and busy, that much is certain.

And I already asked her out twice and got a no, like so:
-are you busy this weekend?
yes, trip overseas
-can i try asking you next week and the week after?
i am being realistic, i won't have time in the immediate future because of my schedule

Ok, The sensible me should write this off but I never had someone disappear on me after all that kissing.

So what do you think is going on and how should I approach this?

I'm thinking just a light text a week from now, along with asking her out that weekend, and then probably drop it completely.

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Linda Lovelace was not her "real" name. And she did not "pioneer" the technique. She just made it more public.

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Hi inev, welcome to Mingle2
Since you're new to online dating sites, may I just advise you not to go out of the site for your own protection. It is usually a red flag when someone wants to chat outside the site right away. Don't give out any personal information such as email or phone number as there are a lot of bad people out there.

The guy must thought you were moving too fast. I think what he meant by keeping it simple is staying within the site and not giving out any personal info until you get to know each other better.... or he was just not into you... or worst, that you were up to no good lol

my two cents

I see you like to deflect a lot. ( there i go thinking too much again with my little feelings )

I haven't had that in a while, but there seems to be a breed of men around that are really cerebral and use the "20 questions" technique.
It's effing annoying, it's all you -as a woman at least- do not want in a nice conversation.
It's rude, impersonal, superficial, making you feel like a number.
I think for many men it IS like that, why they use it: a way to decide within 20 seconds whether they are interested or not. The 'fastfood dating idiot', haha.

Another thing I have noticed is that men don't understand what is wrong with this. They then get upset and irrate, "Am I not allowed to ask questions!!!"
Sure you are, but like you normally would in any conversation, don't turn it into an Inquisition.
I've turned it around at times, purely cos I was A) PO and B) curious, and asked them question after question after question.
Result: They just answer... They don't seem to mind at all.
Problem with this: You do not get to any depth whatsoever.

So for one group it apparently is a means to go through a mental checklist. If you fail to get one answer correct, you're out ---> No real interest.
Mostly men who can get plenty of attention and (stupid) women to dance to their tune.

For the other group... they likely have underdeveloped communication skills or are nervous to start a new conversation.
Then there IS hope. YOU as a woman can guide the conversation by steering it to different waters, ask questions that require depth and so on. It takes getting used to at first, it can pay off though.