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JUST A ??????????
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Regardless of any genetic predispositions or taught morals, I stand by my statement that both men and women habitually cheat because they need validation of some sort. That is usually due to insecurity either within themselves or within their relationship.
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JUST A ??????????
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strip away everything else, men sole job in nature is to populate and plant their seed whenever the opportunity arise! 
Yes, but women are also predisposed to select the strongest male with whom to propogate. Through socialization both males and females have conciously made the choice of monogomy. Your theory would have women throwing aside their man to bear children by a "better" male in order to sustain the species. Women are always selective in their process of mating with the (strongest, best looking, etc) man regardless of any socialization, even Cosmo tell them subconciously to look for a Tom Cruz or Sean Connery!
I agree. But do they consistently seek Tom or Sean to father their children outside of their committed relationship? |
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JUST A ??????????
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strip away everything else, men sole job in nature is to populate and plant their seed whenever the opportunity arise!
Yes, but women are also predisposed to select the strongest male with whom to propogate. Through socialization both males and females have conciously made the choice of monogomy. Your theory would have women throwing aside their man to bear children by a "better" male in order to sustain the species. |
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JUST A ??????????
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Not ALL men think that... but the ones that do are insecure and need validation that they are desirable.
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love yourself?
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im not sure if this goes here or has been discussed,but you know how ppl say in order to care for someone-you must care for yourself first?! how do you do that if you're weak and been scared and can't...i dont know-ashamed  care for yourself?  <btw-this is hard for me to put out there in public-on the real>
 You CAN care about others without caring about yourself. Its just a cliche when people say otherwise.
Of course you can care for others but to be able to have a functional relationship with someone, both parties need to have self respect and self worth. I have been in relationships with men who were insecure and it is not only heartbreaking that they don't believe in themselves but also maddening because their insecurity undermines the relationship. |
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I hate Paint
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This is when I really miss having a girl friend
lol.. yeah, she would just tell you what color you are going to paint it. |
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Then & Now
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Relationship = Sinle then, Single now
Income \ work = Promoted and salarie has doubled Weight = About the same Bad habits = Don't drink nearly as much as I did then... still trying to kick the heroin. |
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I believe everything happens for a reason. Maybe you lost this job because you are meant for greater things.
Maybe she was given this gift of disfigurement in order for her to find something within herself that has nothing to do with her looks. |
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Weird....
Edited by
AllSmilesInTulsa
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Sat 01/17/09 07:10 AM
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Narcotics often cause nausea. The drug passes through the stomach and is absorbed in the intestine so it is normal that you would feel nausea first.
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Who do you want to meet?
Edited by
AllSmilesInTulsa
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Tue 01/13/09 06:23 PM
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Lex and Old Sage
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Q-Tips - Lick them or Not?
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Hmmm... I have never heard of licking the Q-tip before using it.
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instant message
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Once you view their profile there is a row of orange boxes under their picture. One of them is for instant message.
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This ever happen to you?
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Because chances are you will not believe them, be suspect of their motives, and end the friendship.
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Just a simple question,
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dust
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snowblower vs. leaf blower
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Must be very powdery snow!
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why the rejection
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When a lady says ...." I don't even feel like I can post with you there", that is quite harsh, when you have not done anything at all. Sounds like there is more to this story. I would like to comment about something; your profile says you are seeking friends. I would just like to say that I am seeking someone for a relationship which INCLUDES being friends. Any man that wants to start as friends will most likely stay a "friend". I don't kiss my friends, nor do I ... well, you know... with my friends! |
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He Lied! The F*cker LIED!
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I would really want to know why he lied in the first place...it's not like it's a little lie either...22 years is a big gap. like 17 years isn't a big gap?????? |
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He Lied! The F*cker LIED!
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If he is sleeping at your house you obviously care for this man. Instead of assuming the worst, why not talk to him and find out his reason for lying. I don't think there is ANY good reason but you at least owe him the opportunity to explain before you throw the relationship out the window.
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Ladies input needed ASAP
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Well, it's been a few days... did you ever hear from her?
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Srsly..
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It sounds like you have a good plan. I wish you both all the best!
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