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Topic: Srsly..
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Fri 01/09/09 04:14 PM
I like someone who lives like an hour away. We just started talking a few days ago and she seems like someone I'd enjoy hanging out with and dating. What should I do? Thats pretty far, and yes I know some of you are dating people 10 hours away, but I'm young with not much money and a not that great car so keep that in mind before you insult me!

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Fri 01/09/09 04:18 PM
find a place half way, that way you both have something invested in the date and you will not have to drive as far. just pick a town and look on the net for things to do there. hope it helps.

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Fri 01/09/09 04:19 PM

I like someone who lives like an hour away. We just started talking a few days ago and she seems like someone I'd enjoy hanging out with and dating. What should I do? Thats pretty far, and yes I know some of you are dating people 10 hours away, but I'm young with not much money and a not that great car so keep that in mind before you insult me!
:smile: Only you can decide if its feasable for you to drive an hour to meet someone.:smile: How bad do you want it?:smile:

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Fri 01/09/09 04:20 PM
You're right Mirror, if she means a lot to me I will make it work. She also said that when she does long distance she does 50/50 and will drive to me also. Losingpatience that is always a good idea also. I have a while before we meet I just wanted to see what you guys say:smile:

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Fri 01/09/09 04:21 PM
i dont have that much money either, but if the both of you really wanna meet in person of hopes of sparks flying, then it can be done.

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Fri 01/09/09 04:23 PM
Half way makes the most sense to me. flowerforyou

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Fri 01/09/09 04:23 PM
one hour?and you're thinking it's too far,maybe you're not that into herflowerforyou

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Fri 01/09/09 04:23 PM

i dont have that much money either, but if the both of you really wanna meet in person of hopes of sparks flying, then it can be done.

I have money just not much obviously. Being in college with a part time job its tough to save up money especially with the economy cutting my hours and my bills not going down in price. I agree that if we both want it it will work

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Fri 01/09/09 04:24 PM

one hour?and you're thinking it's too far,maybe you're not that into herflowerforyou

We've only been chatting a few days! I'm not too into her yet I definitely feel the start of something that might become special though.

Mr_Music's photo
Fri 01/09/09 04:25 PM
The OP needs a photo before I will entertain any questions he may have. I will not talk to a voice bubble.

misstina2's photo
Fri 01/09/09 04:28 PM

The OP needs a photo before I will entertain any questions he may have. I will not talk to a voice bubble.
he's a regular who most of us have seen his pic beforeflowerforyou

ljcc1964's photo
Fri 01/09/09 04:32 PM
Do the Robot.

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Fri 01/09/09 04:33 PM

The OP needs a photo before I will entertain any questions he may have. I will not talk to a voice bubble.


aw but voice bubbles are sooo much fun.....


I'd say half way too...unless given any extenuating circumstances...

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Fri 01/09/09 04:34 PM


one hour?and you're thinking it's too far,maybe you're not that into herflowerforyou

We've only been chatting a few days! I'm not too into her yet I definitely feel the start of something that might become special though.
take a chance and please let us know how it turns outflowerforyou best of luck

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Fri 01/09/09 04:38 PM
I'd like to meet her half way the first date. Thats what me and my 1 ex did. If things go well I wouldn't mind driving the hour, but to drive an hour just to meet her once I wouldn't like that too much.

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Fri 01/09/09 04:39 PM

You're right Mirror, if she means a lot to me I will make it work. She also said that when she does long distance she does 50/50 and will drive to me also. Losingpatience that is always a good idea also. I have a while before we meet I just wanted to see what you guys say:smile:


:thumbsup:

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Fri 01/09/09 04:43 PM

The OP needs a photo before I will entertain any questions he may have. I will not talk to a voice bubble.

Well I added a picture can you comment?

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Fri 01/09/09 04:46 PM


The OP needs a photo before I will entertain any questions he may have. I will not talk to a voice bubble.

Well I added a picture can you comment?
laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Fri 01/09/09 04:47 PM
It sounds like you have a good plan. I wish you both all the best!

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Fri 01/09/09 05:45 PM
So, anyone in a LDR got any advice?

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