I just got a number at a bar last night and although it is the correct number.Was kinda wondering if any ladies had any personal takes on how to address this matter.I mean i txt her after leaving the bar since she had been drinking and i wanted her to have a reminder in the am...lol
Thing is she has been unresponsive today and i wish not too over do it so ive laid back a bit.
I wanna catch up with her again,but dont wanna blow her phone up like crazy till i reach her...
Now women in your oppinion A would you give a guy ur real number if you had no intrest?B if you had how much is enough intrest to show without it being excessive and last how can i guage if this is a lost cause without giveing up too soon....Real advice needed plz

Are you sure it is the right #, and if so then call her

she sobered up

i did it went to voice mail and i left a message....But no call back.I know it was her number b/c i recognized the voice on her message box intro.Thing is i dont wanna give her a bad vibe by being too presistant,but at same understand people get busy and might forget after hrs pass to hit u up..

If I call twice and dont get an answer thats usually it for me.Phone number goes into the trash.

i feel you mirror the crazy thing is if she wasnt into me then why give me her real number???

if u really want 2 get 2 know her call the # and u'll find out if it's real or not,good luck

Call her if the # was real

If she doesn't remember you quickly hang up

okay you're going to have more game if you wait a few days..not hours, not the next morning

she did give you her number while intoxicated....I'd say three days average..then call...she'll be more likely to answer the phone cause she is not expecting a mistake to come back and say howdy..and you have more ground to ask for coffee..always go with the coffee for a first..its easy and casual

Maybe she was drunk and didn't know what she was doing

Really? If someone waited three days to call me after I gave him my number, I might start to think he wasn't interested.

If she has been unresponsive thus far, chances are she may not remember you or wish to... but rather than keep calling and texting... I would suggest sending one text with your myspace or mingle2 ID and tell her to check our your profile (as a reminder of who you are)... and to call you if she is still interested (make sure you mention where she gave you her number). Then leave it in her hands. If she does not respond, chalk it up to experience. You never know, you might run into her again at the bar another night... but make sure she's sober before approaching her.

Good luck.

Some people don't know how to gracefully say no when asked for their number. We weren't there so we can't judge her motive. If you have left a voicemail I would wait for her to return your call. If she doesn't, she's not interested.

If a guy waits 3 days to call after I give him my number, he's liable to lose his place in line!!

try it one more time : )

you should just lay low for a bit. She is probably trying to remember what she did that night...if she embarrased herself (she waaaasss drinking) If she truly was into you, she probably will call you...but it will be on her terms now. If you never hear from her....I believe you have your answer.

She could be busy... she's not sitting at home waiting for you to call. If you call her, leave a message which you did. Now it's up to her. If she calls you back great, if not then move on. It does happen alot. Guys do it too. I've gotten numbers and when I called them they never called me back. I don't know why people do that but they do. If you keep calling her, I promise you'll freak her out and you will never again have a chance with her.

thats the point if she was at all uneasy about remembering that she gave him her number the lack of action is going to better get her attention...and if she wants to forget him simply because he got her number while she was intoxicated...its better to catch her off guard..that way he still has a chance..despite her possible reserves

This.

Have given out my number and not responded later to people.
Why?
Why be rude to someones face?
Let them have their moment, if i'm truely interest i'll pick up when they call or text back.

As far as having no game usally 1 or 2 days later its a text. Reply or i don't bother wasting the time to call. No point stressing over who likes you and doesn't. You made the move, got the number, texted her.. balls in her court. If she doesn't play, move on.

Not trying to be a D!CK, but better for you in the end.

edit: sorry had to find another way to type D!ck

exactly.