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Thu 01/08/09 06:02 PM
Pre-plan what you would say in a situation like that. If I don't want to give out my number I say "You seem very nice but I'm afraid I don't give out my phone number to strangers. Maybe we'll run into each other again sometime and will have the opportunity to get to know each other better".

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Thu 01/08/09 05:42 PM

You'd rather give your number even though you're not going to answer in order to make them feel better. Yet, make them feel worse later when you don't bother to answer or call them back. Yeah, that makes sense.


It's human nature to avoid uncomfortable conversations or situations. This is not not that unusual.

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Thu 01/08/09 05:13 PM



i did it went to voice mail and i left a message....But no call back.I know it was her number b/c i recognized the voice on her message box intro.Thing is i dont wanna give her a bad vibe by being too presistant,but at same understand people get busy and might forget after hrs pass to hit u up..


okay you're going to have more game if you wait a few days..not hours, not the next morning

she did give you her number while intoxicated....I'd say three days average..then call...she'll be more likely to answer the phone cause she is not expecting a mistake to come back and say howdy..and you have more ground to ask for coffee..always go with the coffee for a first..its easy and casual


Really? If someone waited three days to call me after I gave him my number, I might start to think he wasn't interested.


If a guy waits 3 days to call after I give him my number, he's liable to lose his place in line!!

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Thu 01/08/09 05:11 PM
Some people don't know how to gracefully say no when asked for their number. We weren't there so we can't judge her motive. If you have left a voicemail I would wait for her to return your call. If she doesn't, she's not interested.

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Thu 01/08/09 05:01 PM
I spent 10 days in Caserta/Amalfi/Positano/Rome. I didn't speak the language but did have my English/Italian dictionary. It was a blast conversing with the locals. Most of the places I went were not commercialized like Rome. Many people in Rome speak English (that's where I finally got my McDonalds!) I didn't see a single red sauce in my entire trip. The pizza is layered with thinly sliced tomatoe rather than sauce. Email me if you have more questions.

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Wed 01/07/09 06:25 PM

I already did once... That's how I wound up in Texas.


lol... that's how I ended up in Oklahoma!

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Wed 01/07/09 06:13 PM
I'm lost. He went to the ER just to get blood drawn?

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Tue 01/06/09 05:29 PM
waving

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Sun 01/04/09 05:41 PM

i left a message blushing blushing blushing


Well? Did she call back?

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Sun 01/04/09 04:52 PM
what? you don't like country music???

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Sun 01/04/09 04:40 PM
Welcome!

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Sun 01/04/09 04:20 PM
Welcome! Jump in and have fun!

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Sun 01/04/09 04:18 PM
Welcome!

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Sun 01/04/09 03:49 PM
Glad to hear I'm not the only one with the "gotta go back to work tomorrow" blues!!

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Sun 01/04/09 03:34 PM
Not anymore Ed! I'm very dull and boring these days. When was the last time you saw me out?

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Sun 01/04/09 11:41 AM


If you're not afraid to call, what are you waiting for?


im not afraid to call, i dun like the fact she is sittin there waitin for me to call scared scared scared


You better call... she might perceive you to be playing some type of game. If you are not careful you might lose your place in line!!

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Sun 01/04/09 09:06 AM
I find men very entertaining (in small doses).

I think people who are bashing the opposite sex may have a "broken picker" or "leap too quickly". If one continues to do the same things and expect different results, then who has the problem here?

Rushing into a relationship before you take the time to get to know someone is asking for trouble. The insincere will not stay around long.

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Sun 01/04/09 08:51 AM
Maybe I'm a bit insecure about my body but at a time like that I want to look my very best (men being visual and all)... my aging body does not support just any style,,, so no, I would prefer to purchase my own and surprise him.

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Sun 01/04/09 07:21 AM
Edited by AllSmilesInTulsa on Sun 01/04/09 07:22 AM
If you are NOT supposed to pay for daycare, take your divorce papers to the daycare center and show them you are NOT responsible for the bill.

Whether your ex is working or not is not your concern. In this economy, many are losing their jobs but that doesn't make you automatically responsible for the daycare bill.

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Sun 01/04/09 06:42 AM
She sounds insecure and needy. Let's say you give this up,,, what next? JMO but it sounds like your life will never be your own because there will always be something taking you away from her. Time to pull her head out of your A$$ and move on.

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