AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Thu 08/28/08 06:03 PM



i work in a call center we NEVER CLOSE LOL


I work for a hospital... we never close either! We tried to get the stabbings, gunfights, heart attacks and surgeries scheduled M-F, 8a-5p but it didn't work.

Regardless, I have a four day weekend too!!


"ok sir i see here you were schedule to be shot tomorrow but youre early,were booked so well keep on call if we have an opening!"


Here's a bandaide and 2 tylenol!

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Thu 08/28/08 05:42 PM

i work in a call center we NEVER CLOSE LOL


I work for a hospital... we never close either! We tried to get the stabbings, gunfights, heart attacks and surgeries scheduled M-F, 8a-5p but it didn't work.

Regardless, I have a four day weekend too!!

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Tue 08/26/08 06:21 PM
Oh Crap! I think I have cigarettes AND alcohol in my pics!!

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Sun 08/24/08 12:30 PM


Relationship is a very ambiguous term. We have relationships of some kind with many people.

To answer your question, in my opinion a relationship is defined when both parties agree to be exclusive.


Oh okay.

So then dating people are allowed to see others or not really ???.


Once again, just my opinion... if two people are dating and the discussion of exclusivity has not been had, then both parties are free to date others.

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Sun 08/24/08 12:25 PM
Edited by AllSmilesInTulsa on Sun 08/24/08 12:25 PM
Relationship is a very ambiguous term. We have relationships of some kind with many people.

To answer your question, in my opinion a romantic relationship is defined when both parties agree to be exclusive.

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Sun 08/24/08 10:42 AM
Since I am only there to dance, I accept.

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Sun 08/17/08 06:14 PM

You're not the only one. I thought I hit something. That happened three times to me. Once I said skip add, the page took me to the previous page I looked at instead of the page I was on then.


Same thing happened to me.

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Sun 08/17/08 03:26 PM
It's just you.....

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Sun 08/17/08 01:55 PM

No I am suppose to be working 25hrs to 30 and they have me down for 3 hrs 7 days a week


If these are temporary cutbacks and you enjoy the work you might consider hanging in there and possibly trying to pick up other people's shifts.

If you don't particularly enjoy the job or see no end in sight to the cutback you probably need to move on.

I would definitely express your concerns to your boss. They can't fix a problem they are unaware of.

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Sun 08/17/08 01:50 PM
Is that the schedule you agreed to when you hired on?

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Sun 08/17/08 01:33 PM
A wonderful gesture that would be appreciated by most ANY woman but I would not go for roses; try a bouquet of assorted fresh flowers. It's too soon for roses.

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Sun 08/17/08 12:36 PM
I would consider marriage if someone gave me a (very) good reason to do it.

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Sun 08/17/08 12:11 PM


The Mid West is cheap, but there are reasons. I am in Wisconsin, there are no decent jobs,thankfully the cost of housing reflects this. The winters are brutal. The local social scene consists of trashy bars or the Catholic church. I am miserable here, but can't afford to leave. I am grateful to have a job & a decent place to live, I am able to make it work financially, but I am not happy about being here.


Well i dont think that all of the midwest should be covered in that statement Im manager of a local here THE local bar here and I dont think its trashy at all...Its very laid back...there are decent jobs to be found here ....


Once again, I agree. Unemployment is low, there is a lot to do in Tulsa, temperatures are not extreme either way (usually)... just a little "tornado dodging" in the spring.

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Sun 08/17/08 11:45 AM
I agree with Missy; the Midwest is a great place and the cost of living is good.

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Sun 08/17/08 10:53 AM
You can't sit back and wait for the world around you to improve your individual situation. Take the bull by the horns and make a proactive move to change/improve your situation. Through hard work and determination you can accomplish most anything.

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Sun 08/17/08 10:44 AM

someone adds me as a "favorite" when they have never even spoken to megrumble


Yeah, never spoken to you NOR do they ever!! I don't get it.

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Sun 08/17/08 08:24 AM
A very wise woman (my mother) once said:

How can anyone have respect for you when you have no respect for yourself.

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Sat 08/16/08 06:18 PM

have sex in your sleep? My x-husband told me I did this quite a bit but I swear I never remembered a thing. laugh laugh laugh


Unfortunately I have had sex that I could have slept right through......

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Sat 08/16/08 02:13 PM


You have talked for 2 weeks.

You cannot usually tell when someone is misleading you but if you give it TIME their true colors will show.

I would have to say rein it in a bit and give it time.


Right! But how do I tell my heart to be patient and not believe? frown


No one is saying not to believe him. If you are that invested after 2 weeks I would say to prepare yourself just in case he is not what he has represented.

Trust but Validate.

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Sat 08/16/08 02:00 PM
You have talked for 2 weeks.

You cannot usually tell when someone is misleading you but if you give it TIME their true colors will show.

I would have to say rein it in a bit and give it time.