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Hmmmmm ....
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So pleased to learn that you were aroused too Etrain!!! 
John Don't be too flattered. Etrain is easily aroused.  
So true but we love him anyway! 
My nipples are hard 
now thats HAWT!!! |
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I have learned to listen to my feelings. I'm sorry you went through that. Welcome back to the dark side
Hmmmmm. Imagining Yellowrose as Darth Vader.....Kind of HAWT! 
Goof....I am your FATHER 
Now put away your light sbaer before you poke your eye out
What's a light sbaer??  
sbaer.uca.edu idunno.....is she trying to tell you your not edumacated enough? |
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goofball.....if she is darthvader....then who am I?
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Crazies need not apply.
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lol....yeah the dark side....nawww
We will just light some scented candles...set a sensual mood...grab some wine... yeeeahhh..... this lady is going to have a fun night tonight...candles....girlfriends....and wine.... ....I might pop online while drunk....make some drunk posts..lol |
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ok...you caught my curiosity....
now i gotta perv your profile.. :p |
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Yes! The guys that study this kind of thing tell us that some 70% of what we communicate is through body language and another 20% is in the tone of your voice. That means that online 90% of what you usually say isn't being said. No matter what you write 90% is lost because it's not what you say, but how you say it that matters. This would be exactly what i was talking about... I understand what your trying to convey texas. I gave up on online dating a long time ago. Your question about responses from woman was similar to my irritation with my interaction with the guys online. The guys almost always would respond. I would say that out of 10 e-mails I might send out, I would have at least 9 e-mail me back. Great odds......however...my issue with the guys online is the pervert factor. Guys online seem to think just because I have e-mailed them a couple times...and we have common ground...that they have permission to devulge personal information about their junk....and size...and ask questions about how much of a freak I am... sorry.....but um....no I won't have phone sex with you. I won't get naked in front of the cam....and no I don't have naked pics of myself... I also do not want a booty call....thanks guys...but no thanks. |
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SINGLE or TAKEN? - part 15
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SINGLE........
..............Looking at my feet.........nobody has swept me off them.......yet. |
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I went through a similar situation recently. I like your positive attitude. thanks
aww....sorry to hear it....but...I'm sure we are both better off without them! |
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Sorry things didn't work out, but until you deal with the grief from this breakup, you're not going to be 100% emotionally available to anyone else, and you're likely carry these hurt feelings into your next relationship. I think you have a lot to offer to the right guy, and don't settle... but take care of yourself first. Maybe I miss understood and you're only here to vent, and that's cool. This is as good-a-place as any. but thats the thing....the "grief" you speak of....not there. I went back to him thinking he would try to make that emotional connection that he originally shredded up. I left once....he begged me to come back...so i did...and because he had different views on things that happened this past weekend he wanted to go off on me and get rid of me...so..no giref about that hun. He would have had to create a bond with me first....captured my heart somehow....and he never attempted to do so...so... I'm ok. I'm not even mad. I have been single for so long that I'm used to it. I kinda like it. If mr.right comes along then great!! But there are no tears for him....the way i look at it...he is the one loosing out. He is going to die a lonely miserable man. and I'm cool with that 
You care about the relationships you engage in so of course there's grief. If you didn't care you never would've mentioned it. This is just the first phase in the grief process. Denial I don't mean to give you more grief here, just trying to be a supportive friend. I was hurt the first time I left. This time I feel fine. I went back against my better judgement. I should not have. so....if thats denial....oh well....it feels pretty damn good. |
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Look on the bright side: You don't have to buy him a Christmas present. LMAO! thats true!! whats funny is I was thinking about what to get him for christmas yesterday...lol...don't have to worry about it now!! HAHA! |
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 Things will work out for the best
thanks hun. hugs! |
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Sorry things didn't work out, but until you deal with the grief from this breakup, you're not going to be 100% emotionally available to anyone else, and you're likely carry these hurt feelings into your next relationship. I think you have a lot to offer to the right guy, and don't settle... but take care of yourself first. Maybe I miss understood and you're only here to vent, and that's cool. This is as good-a-place as any. but thats the thing....the "grief" you speak of....not there. I went back to him thinking he would try to make that emotional connection that he originally shredded up. I left once....he begged me to come back...so i did...and because he had different views on things that happened this past weekend he wanted to go off on me and get rid of me...so..no giref about that hun. He would have had to create a bond with me first....captured my heart somehow....and he never attempted to do so...so... I'm ok. I'm not even mad. I have been single for so long that I'm used to it. I kinda like it. If mr.right comes along then great!! But there are no tears for him....the way i look at it...he is the one loosing out. He is going to die a lonely miserable man. and I'm cool with that
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So this past weekend I thought went ok. I was expecting the worst...but in my mind it went ok. apparently in his mind...it was the opposite. It is somewhat irrelevant exactly why we broke up this morning...other than his view of this weekend was horrible...and mine was not. I say it's irrelevant because he did not want to discuss things and work out why things happened they way they did. He just wanted to argue. He was not in any way shape or form wanting to work out the differences....so....I stopped him in mid sentence after about 30 min of the verbal diarrhea....and I said "look, I know what you want, you don't want to resolve this you just want me out....so there is no point in continuing this argument....let me get my stuff I'll get out." So I got my stuff...and I left. Right before I left I told him I am sorry I came back....I knew this would not work but I tried going against my best judgement....I tried...it didn't work... ....I'm not cryin about it.... Merry Christmas......I'm back on the Market!!! LMFAO!!! does this mean we can get it on?
We could!!....or we could get it off.....depends on the mood i suppose... 
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I'm more upset he owes me money.....I'm not sure i will ever see it again....
guys I helped him more than anyone in his life currently....so...if he wants me gone...ta hell with it... |
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So this past weekend I thought went ok.
I was expecting the worst...but in my mind it went ok. apparently in his mind...it was the opposite. It is somewhat irrelevant exactly why we broke up this morning...other than his view of this weekend was horrible...and mine was not. I say it's irrelevant because he did not want to discuss things and work out why things happened they way they did. He just wanted to argue. He was not in any way shape or form wanting to work out the differences....so....I stopped him in mid sentence after about 30 min of the verbal diarrhea....and I said "look, I know what you want, you don't want to resolve this you just want me out....so there is no point in continuing this argument....let me get my stuff I'll get out." So I got my stuff...and I left. Right before I left I told him I am sorry I came back....I knew this would not work but I tried going against my best judgement....I tried...it didn't work... ....I'm not cryin about it.... Merry Christmas......I'm back on the Market!!! LMFAO!!! |
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dude....your pic is fuzzy...and you only have one...
...i honestly can't say one way or the other! :p nice black shirt?...thats all i can see |
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I'm In Big Trouble!!!
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aww...girly... your going to go fight for the country that they live in...umm...i am thinkin mom and dad need to back off. I understand they will be mad. However just as much as there is behavior that they would not tolorate from you towards them...you have to put your foot down as far as their behavior towards you now. your a grown adult that can make that decision. they should be adults about it and respect it. I know....I kept the fact of me smoking from my father unitl i was 29 years old. ( started when i was 20) As an adult now, you have to stand your ground to live your life the way you see fit. Your not being disrespectful to them....you are setting your boundaries for your own self and becomming your own woman. Time for mom and dad to let go of the strings. Thank you too! I'm getting a headache and my face is burning. Blah! My roommate is not here to talk to me either. I've been texting her like crazy. aww....hey just calm down....breathe in.....breathe out!..lol It's going to be ok. I have learned that sometimes when you worry about something so badly that it consumes you like this...once you confront the issue...it usually ends up not being as bad as you thought it out in your own head.... think about it like this. your not going to die....so...thats one thing you don't have to worry about...Your parents are still going to love you even if you move in with the guy. They may be upset...and you may care about them being upset at you...but you can't let them influence you like this. Its not fair to you. Don't you think that perhaps them being this upset and trying to control you at 26 years is kind of an evil manipulation on their part? not exactly fair...not logical either. Don't let them keep doing this. Uless there is a legitimate reason for them being so upset...like they know he is a killer....drug dealer...rapist...something of that nature...they need to back off. |
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I'm In Big Trouble!!!
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aww...girly...
your going to go fight for the country that they live in...umm...i am thinkin mom and dad need to back off. I understand they will be mad. However just as much as there is behavior that they would not tolorate from you towards them...you have to put your foot down as far as their behavior towards you now. your a grown adult that can make that decision. they should be adults about it and respect it. I know....I kept the fact of me smoking from my father unitl i was 29 years old. ( started when i was 20) As an adult now, you have to stand your ground to live your life the way you see fit. Your not being disrespectful to them....you are setting your boundaries for your own self and becomming your own woman. Time for mom and dad to let go of the strings. |
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very attractive....
....and handsome..... |
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