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Too picky?
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Tanya, U are a VERY beautiful lady,with a great sense of humor and class, believe me, just wait, it will fall into place into place when U least expect it, just be patient my dear!! 
Thank you, Mikey!
Fetts, you gonna wear a mini-skirt and a part of heels? I'll buy hm a drink if he shows up dressed like that. |
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Too picky?
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girly...you and i have more in common than i thought!...lol
Believe me...i understand! I have been on the dating scene for almost 4 years.... I'm seeing someone now...but god only knows if it will work...I'm pessimistic about it...considering the circumstances... but your scenerio of meeting someone and it just not clicking ....yeah...been there soooooo many times. it sucks! I'm convinced you and I need a girls night out now!! I shall e-mail you! |
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picking your
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whats on my brain??? right now looking for a new/used vehicle any suggestions I have many to choose from.....what are you hoping to get into? |
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Alone
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I have a great holiday alone or with someone.
My first holiday alone was a rough one..but since then I have learned that I'm never alone. I have great friends and family that love me and will always be a part of my life no matter who I may be "dating"....or married to for that matter :p I no longer feel "alone" If I'm single during the holodays. I feel like myself. Its so much worse feeling alone while being with someone.....thats agony!! |
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If a man....
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If a man "knows his place" what does that mean to you? My "place" is right between her legs was there any other place he should be? :P |
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attractive and genuine.
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we could all drink that free bubble up and be eatin that rainbow stew!
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Edited by
hopefloating
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Mon 12/07/09 07:16 AM
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-rQJ6KQjDG0
Lovers Cross- Lyrics- Jim Croce Guess that it was bound to happen Was just a matter of time But now I've come to my decision And it's one of the painful kind 'Cause now it seems that you wanted a martyr Just a regular guy wouldn't do But baby I can't hang upon no lover's cross for you Yes, I really got to hand it to you 'Cause girl, you really tried But for every time that we spent laughing There were two times that I cried And you were tryin' to make me your martyr And that's the one thing I just couldn't do 'Cause baby, I can't hang upon no lover's cross for you 'Cause tables are meant for turnin' And people are bound to change And bridges are meant for burnin' When the people and mem'ries they join aren't the same So I'll hope that you can find another Who can take what I could not He'll have to be a super guy Or maybe a super god 'Cause I never was much of a martyr before And I ain't bout to start nothin' new And baby, I can't hang upon no lover's cross for you |
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What do you think....
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(I know it can both genders, but just posting it this way.. cause I personally don't know women that go to the bar alone) If a single guy goes to the bar every weekend... anywhere from 2 - 3 time a weekend (works 4 - 10 hour shifts during the week, so has Mondays off)... To play pool, drink and socialize. Do you think that it's a problem? Or just a way to socialize? I think that perhaps it could be a problem. It would depend if he went there to get hammered every single time. However if he has a few drinks and plays pool and is there because he likes the atmosphere and people...nothing wrong with it in my opinion. I used to bartend and I had regulars like that. They had nothing else better to do so they came to have a few drinks and socialize. Hey! hopefloats! You aren't that far from me... if you want, I can let you know the next time we do a girls nite out! Yea. I actually work in A2. Right off Jackson rd west of wagner. I work a ton of hours so i very rarely get a chance to go out. What spare time i do have i try to spend time with the kiddos....but...hey...just let me know when the next get together is and I will see if I can pop in for a quick drink or two! |
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What do you think....
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(I know it can both genders, but just posting it this way.. cause I personally don't know women that go to the bar alone) If a single guy goes to the bar every weekend... anywhere from 2 - 3 time a weekend (works 4 - 10 hour shifts during the week, so has Mondays off)... To play pool, drink and socialize. Do you think that it's a problem? Or just a way to socialize? I think that perhaps it could be a problem. It would depend if he went there to get hammered every single time. However if he has a few drinks and plays pool and is there because he likes the atmosphere and people...nothing wrong with it in my opinion. I used to bartend and I had regulars like that. They had nothing else better to do so they came to have a few drinks and socialize. |
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Morning Roll Call
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I'm here....but my mind is still in bed.
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As kid I remember watching the carl seagn series. It was not until I was an adult that I heard of Steven Hawking.
I want to read more about steven hawking...and his discoveries. I did watch a bio on him. It was amazing how he managed to calculate everything in the universe and how it came to be...up until a certain point...the big bang....and then he has no clue where the "bang" came from. He concluded it had to come from a source that is not able to be defined or calculated....a higher power perhaps? He said he could not say....he did not know...he just knew that something had to create it. I'm not religious. Im not fond of religion. However,I do personally belive in a higher power. |
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wouldn't it be great if......
.....when people walked into my store....they knew what the heck they wanted... ....If they knew that money does not majicaly "disappear" when they are buried in a trade.... ....that financing is simple mathamatics...1+1=2 folks.... no....you can't have a $30,0000 vehicle for a $200 payment a month....you can't even have a $15,0000 vehicle for a $200 payment.... And it would be great if people understood that I'm not the boogy man....calm down....I'm here to help....If i can't help then I am not doing my job and you should fire me! lol....ugggg....dealing with the general public is a challenge! :p |
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Guy needs girl advice
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Yeah asking women advice on women? I don't know if that works out so well considering they usually speak womanese and we can't understand them anyways. Don't buy into the whole girls like nice guys buddy it will lead to pain and suffering trust me! Be bold and direct with a level of charm and sencerity and just ask her out! Good luck! your right...real woman don't want "buddies" real woman want a "man"...one who will sand up for them...stand beside them....and care for them as much as they care in return. Be agressive if you want her. Not pushy..... but agressive!...big difference from being a pushy a hole.. If your not agressive another guy will be. And then she will be off the market. good luck getting the girl! |
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soo....
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Just be a good little man hoe and quit ur bitchin!! :p....lol
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do girls like fat guys For me.....Size matters..... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dyWbX-RFi-4 Not too much more would matter to me. |
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One Thing Today
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Hug my kids today!
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But if he realizes that he wants you to stay around and that he needs to change in order to do that THEN HE is the one trying to CHANGE him...it becomes internal then But I'm betting that he doesn't know the full extent of how you feel about it. Thats what I thought I had been saying all along...so i guess i am on the right track.... So your betting he does not know the full extent....hmm.... well it is one reason I agreed to come back and start dating him again...he begged me to come back...i told why i could not...he responded with pleding and promises of affection utopia..... ....*sigh*.... thank you for your thoughts....and i do understand what your saying...but he does know.... |
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Edited by
hopefloating
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Thu 12/03/09 02:55 PM
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I have... I expressed earlier how I have made a huge effort on my part to give him the space he needs and to not be on his arm....or trying to hold him...hell we both had the entire day off yesterday....we hung around the house....the entire day... not once did i get a hug..... not once did I try to hold him down and make him hug me...or kiss me... You have no clue how hard it is for me to not touch....for my man to be close to me and not touch him...its torture in my mind... so ...if that helps clairify how I am giving in the relationship and trying to change my behavior...there ya go So if it's so difficult you to change you...what makes you think it will be any easier for him to change him..specialy if he is not doing for him but for you...seems it'd be even harder for him unless HE wants to change when did i say it would be easy for him? i don't rememebr saying that. I'm not changing for me...I'm changing for him...to make him comfortable around me... so how would it be harder for him again? Because you are an oustide source on him an external motivator You have decided to try to change for him thereby becoming an internal source..but it was your decision to do that. so until he decides he wants to change for you. You are an external motivator asking him to change. Which by far is not as powerfull. so in other words you are saying I would be doing him a favor by telling him good bye? that way he could stay how he is not have to make any effort to change and be happy just as he is? what if he does not want me to go? what if he wants me to stay? Then he would have to change in order to keep me so...but I would not be making him...he would be deciding to do so ...all on his own...because he would prefer the effort of change over the grief of loss.... am I on the right track here?? |
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I have... I expressed earlier how I have made a huge effort on my part to give him the space he needs and to not be on his arm....or trying to hold him...hell we both had the entire day off yesterday....we hung around the house....the entire day... not once did i get a hug..... not once did I try to hold him down and make him hug me...or kiss me... You have no clue how hard it is for me to not touch....for my man to be close to me and not touch him...its torture in my mind... so ...if that helps clairify how I am giving in the relationship and trying to change my behavior...there ya go So if it's so difficult you to change you...what makes you think it will be any easier for him to change him..specialy if he is not doing for him but for you...seems it'd be even harder for him unless HE wants to change when did i say it would be easy for him? i don't rememebr saying that. I'm not changing for me...I'm changing for him...to make him comfortable around me... so how would it be harder for him again? |
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