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Tue 12/22/09 02:49 PM
pretty much what everyone else has said....

If you advertise yourself like a player...you'll get the players.

Be yourself, tell it like it is...and you should be fine.

Welcome to mingle and good luck!

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Tue 12/22/09 06:58 AM
It does not hurt to send them a quick hello.

A lot of guys ( no matter age ) are shy at making first contact. If you show just a little interest it helps them get started in the getting to know you process.


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Fri 12/18/09 10:47 AM
you can tone the muscles anywhere...but he is asking about losing weight in a particular spot. That is medically impossible.

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Fri 12/18/09 10:24 AM
Edited by hopefloating on Fri 12/18/09 10:45 AM
unless you can change your genetics....your out of luck.

where body fat is stored is determined upon your genetic makeup.

When you gain muscle you will be able to lose the body flab thats hanging around...regardless of where its at.

The only true way to get rid of fat where you don't want it....lipo suction...sorry...

better start putting some money aside for a little surgery.....or keep workin out and be slim all over.

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Thu 12/17/09 05:48 PM
I have my kids that weekend.

Otherwise I would attend.

Idunno...Perhaps their father could watch them for a couple hours..??..Just so I can pop my head in and say hi?...not sure.

I will see what I can do.

my answer...Maybe, with a chance of Idunno.

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Mon 12/14/09 07:44 AM
LOL....

thats funny!

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Mon 12/14/09 07:36 AM
laugh

I drink....and i find this funny because it just might be something I would do! :p

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Mon 12/14/09 06:57 AM
This sentence in your profile does not make sense to me.

"Some call me old fashion. It's always makes me smile,and reply yes your right and glad I am. "


I have read this 20 times and I can't understand it.

am I missing something?

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Sat 12/12/09 11:56 PM

But if they chose to leave...good bye cause I was not important enough in their life. It goes both ways darlin


no kiddin sherlock....

but if my b/f screws up....and I want to leave because of said screw up....and he lets me walk....


or whatever the reason is....i understand its a two way street....the point of the question is if you love someone do you let them go to see if they will return...

IMO....absolutely not.

Hold on to what you love.

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Sat 12/12/09 07:21 PM
I don't believe that.

I want someone to want me...and if that person lets me go...then why would i go back?

you let me go....it tells me that I'm not significant in your life. of course you don't want to go to the extreme and be a stalker...but if you love someone you hold onto them.
you don't just let em go..you try to get them to understand you want them...need them...If they chose to leave and you do nothing to influence them to stay then that particular saying is a copout for the person doing the "letting go".

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Thu 12/10/09 05:09 PM

She is a bot! Not real at all! A bot looking to rip someone off!


yeah!


what he said

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Thu 12/10/09 04:16 PM

women carry so much stuff with them that the odds that they wouldn't accidently leave something behind is astronomical

they carry everything in their purse,..... make up, microwave oven, ekg machine ....


i agree with this...

I accidently leave crap everywhere...not just at a "guys" place.

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Thu 12/10/09 10:46 AM
Edited by hopefloating on Thu 12/10/09 10:46 AM
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oh good grief charlie brown....


this is not rocket science....

your still married......

your in denial about wanting "just friends"

you really want to get laid but are afraid to admit it.

Neither You or your ex know how to patch things up with each other so ...now you need a divorce.....i suggest saving as much money as quickly as possible so you can get one.

quit listening to your ex....unless you think there may be a chance you two can work things out. If she cares to know who your with then obviously she still cares about YOU. If thats the case then you need to ask yourself if you still care about her....do you?

Is it enough to try to work on the relationship?

If not then don't let what she thinks bother you....what she thinks has no business being on your mind when its your decision on what you want to do.

To get laid or not to get laid...that is the question.


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Thu 12/10/09 09:28 AM



Actually I don't agree with that at all. First of all there is no such thing as a perfect world. If there was everyone would be content with life and no need to put blame for our lives on others.

Perfect is as we make it within our own lives........

If one feels as if they are living within hell then it is time to climb out of the pit and do something with their life instead.

Complaining and blaming others only digs them deeper within the pit they are already in...........whoa


I have to disagree. Im not in any pit. Im about peace love and respect for ones self and the others and world around. Living this life style i see the selfishness and greed raining supreme in the world. There alot of good people no doubt, but this generation is called "the me generation" for a reason. Most people that even claim to care only really care about themselves and there people and are quick to shun or judge, or outcast others. They will ruin someones life for a little more money, or for sex. Being an honest good person is getting harder and harder the nicer you are the more people are bound to try and use and abuse that or act like your an outcast(which it seems to be increasingly true). I get plenty of love back but theres plenty of people that cant stand me because im honest. I shine my karma. Its not about blaming others, its a cold hard fact that the world as a whole tends to be greedy, self centered, and cold.
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I agree with him to an extent this world is getting worse, its funny to be cruel, its understandable to hurt another for ones self, being cold is how we get by. The more you dont care bout things more people admire it. From my experiences anyway but it just makes it that much more important to admit the bad and take it as what it is and just try to be good and be you and hope it helps spread peace love and consideration for all.
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Thats just my opinion though, i could be wrong.



Very well said....

I don't think I could have said it better myself.

As much as I do agree with you, I also feel that the life you make for yourself is not controled by others....but it can be effected by other people and it is effected regardless if you allow it or not based upon the horrible attitudes and current behavior society is gradually accepting as "the norm"

If I would have acted out half the horrible things i see kids do today....i think my father and mother would have disowned me...

I was taught by both my parents what was right and wrong. I'm not perfect....however...the morals i see in the "me" generation makes me sick to my stomach.

The guy I was recently seeing...his children have no clue what is accptable behavior. My kids could not believe how they acted...but their father seemed to think his kids were fine......uh huh.....
all I could keep thinking when he told me this was...
...."when one of them blows up a federal building one day don't come cryin to me".....

a bit exptreme but still...he is not laying the moral foundation as little people that they will need to have established when they are adults.
Its difficult....it takes persistance and tears sometimes to keep the youth in line...but in the end its worth all the effort.

idunno....I could go on and on on this subject...but I hate to be long winded :p


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Thu 12/10/09 07:24 AM
Finish my degree.

purchase a home.

Live closer to my kids. ( within 5 minutes )

I would like to find love....or have it find me...either way...


thats it.

pretty simple.

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Wed 12/09/09 04:22 PM

I have found that running naked thru the street,and screaming WOOOOOOOOOOOOO!,is a good way to meet new and interesting people in your neighborhood....


Thats how i met my last b/f....

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Wed 12/09/09 12:20 PM
Edited by hopefloating on Wed 12/09/09 12:22 PM
I started playing flute when I was 10.

I picked it up very quickly. I had private lessons and my teacher wanted me to compete because she was certain I was better than most players with twice the instruction time. I could not compete right away because I was too young....i think i had to be 14 before I would qualify to compete.

however...long story short....I still play flute...I can read music. I know enough on the piano to do a few chords...

I picked up the guitar back in 99. I play acustic...

oh yeah..i sing too

married an accomplished musician.

divorced said accomplished musician....

I have been in bands here and there...never took it seriously...just sang for the fun of it.

I dont have time any more for the band scene. Life and kids and work...ugg...no time....no time


oh yeah....i write music too...i need to get some of that stuff copy writted....*sigh*.....would be nice to sit and collect royalty checks for a few tunes of mine that hit the charts.

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Wed 12/09/09 11:44 AM
I think I mention in my profile that If you write me I will respond...unless your profile is either wacked out, boring,or perverse.

However there was a time when I would not respond to a guys e-mail if it was an obvious cut and paste....

....then I realized how difficult it is just to find a match that you want to hang out with....yyeeeaahhhh....cut and paste away with the e-mails guys....

Because its your PROFILE you will be judged upon for me to respond to you.


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Tue 12/08/09 03:02 PM

no,, they either do or they dont,, cant be forced upon someone



you are correct !!!!

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Tue 12/08/09 03:01 PM
I'm beginning to think that I'm not capable of "falling in love".....I don't think my emotions run that deep anymore...they used to..


...but...eh...life is not a fairy tale...and this princess has given up on any prince showing up on some daym white horse....

....i don't like horses anyway....

.....show up in a camero....like a 79 ss....yeeeaaahhh....hubba hubba!!