Look at this thread: all there is, is a complaint. Someone Puking their dissatisfaction on the floor without details or the will to understand.


why do all women behave exactly the same?
AWALT!

stop playing the SJW victim card...

looking at the backdrop of your photo... i think there might be something to that story.

I think that one major problem is media itself.

Stop listening to the PROAGANDA, start living a normal life with a lot less Fear.

did you mean Boco Haram?

That´s just another branch of isis/aq...
google that stuff.

Boko Haram, which calls itself Wilāyat Gharb Ifrīqīyyah (Arabic: الولاية الإسلامية غرب أفريقيا‎, (Islamic State's) West Africa Province, ISWAP)
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Boko_Haram

so why is there less talk about Boco Haram?
because when a Rich Guy´s house blows up, other Rich people talk about it.

However, when a poor guy stabs another one in the middle of the sidewalk, nobody notices.


Not color.
Rich/Poor.


and for the record... no, overall one group of humans does not care for another group of humans. Never did.

Zero.

the breakup was what ended the pain.

So you are like, literally destroying yourself by describing your physique as ... Rubbish.

let me explain the WHY - the reason why men bypass you.
some of these apply to some men. Not all apply to all men.
The things i write might be damn ugly - i believe though they are accurate.

-Some want their woman young and beautiful.
-Some men want to start a Family. Their OWN Family.
-Some men want a Simple one on one Relationship, Not any Kids that live with the father and come to visit every week...
-Some men when they see "kids yes, they live away from home" think like "the state has taken the kids away from her, she can not take care of kids --> responsibility issues.
-Kids but never married... for some men a big Nono.
-Some men look at you doing your Job kneedeep in Shait... That is not the sort of woman a man would want to spend time with.
-So you smell like the sewers and tobacco on top of that. and occasionally, though not daily, you drink.


Full Stop.

and now you are on the internet, a place where LOOKS and APPEARANCES matter most... looking for a man who does not care about these things.
The Internet is the most judgmental place, like, EVER.
Jou do not present yourself like a person a man would want to commit his life to.

Sorry ma´am... you are looking in the wrong place i gather.

Honestly, us Dudes we use our eyes - way too much i might add - and in many cases do not give much of a chance to anything that does not pass the "eyes-test".


Those are reasons why you might get bypassed.
I am sure the list is not complete.

present yourself differently, and man would want a date with you.
no need to tell him straight away- and i resume your own selfdescription- "I am an ugly rat who works in the sewers"


If you have a date, you at least get to present your personality and your smile.
the problems you describe in your profile... he will find them out SOON ENOUGH.

alpha F***s Beta Bucks

you give her the tingles and provide the fun, he provides her with house, food clothing &diamond ring.

who wins? her
who gets the std´s ? both of you.

Phew! lucky you!
seriously.

If he is interested in a girl (you)
and treats the other girls the same as you

then maybe he is interested in the other girls as well.
That is perfectly fine. Many Girls are interesting.

or maybe you want to be treated "better" than he treats the rest?
so what would warrant this special treatment?
what is the reason he should privilege you above anyone else?

he merely expressed an interest in you.
is not married to you or anything.

Calm down.

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and no, we are wired differently. in the brain and all.
Its like an ant trying to understand an elephant or vice versa.
does not compute - or very very rarely.

then you still have house car pension and a shirt on your back... and get to see your kids, and have stayed out of jail, i take it.

if none of the above applies, and i still spoke balderdash, then i regret you.

Nah.

Sex helps relax...
If i go back on a memory trip through the years or masturbation, anxiety, hunger, needyness...

Nope. sex is grrrreat. going back to a pre-sex status would ruin my mental life.

Let me see...

Divorced mother seeks... --> baggage, and tons of it.
Wants a "man forever" right from the start --> puts weight on the relationship even before the first meeting.
don´t say you have been on and off online dating --> a man might hear "sleeping around"

...at a first glance.

in short: present yourself differently, and men might accept the challenge.

because me n my ex were sexually incompatible (backdoor, or nothing!) because she was a leech, and because that particular lady was completely bonkers.

Sent her back to her parents before she pushed me into marriage.

ever since, i have been taking the back seat and am observing the sex/relationship/going out/marriage thing...

and boy am i better off in my "FWB Setup" or "sports relationship" that´s been going on almost 4 years now.

all the essentials, and none of the annoying extras, plus i get to keep my independence :D

Being single?
Yayyy!

because you live in the middle of effing nowhere. (googled your spot)
because men do not wish to raise other guy´s Kids?
because you are currently racking up huge piles of debt with your college thing?

If "caring" means something along the lines of "be the breadwinner while i have no job but a kid to feed"...

Nope.
Noe Nope Nope.

ok 50/50 then.
or two tabs.

men do the smart thing and shy away from women...
women that seek men that take responsibility.

we understand that to mean:
Provide me and my 3 kids (from 3 different fathers) with housing, food, clothing and so forth. and if you do not, i will call the Law on you.

A woman can take responsibility for herself.
if she does not, she often seeks a man to do that for her.

Therefor women seeking responsible men are not, and with that disqualify themselves for long term relationships and marriage.

no, common sense prevents men from getting into marriage- not age.
common sense sets in at the age of the first Divorce, when the ex takes you for your pension, your house, car Kids and future.

sex is better. because sex includes friendship.

see what i did there?

See...

you are hot as hell.
still would not even want to share the same train with you because you think all of us are the same on a certain level.

NeeeeeEEeeext.