so mothers love and give their affaction to their children because they are married to them.

so you need a marriage licence to love, and show affection.

I don�t.
How curious...
maybe i am broken.
must see my psy
*dials number*

so you have always been single but claim to know what love is.

so many red flags in so little information.

dude, that is so creepy.

just sayin�.

basic survival in the western world: do not get into a stranger�s car, no matter how horny you are.

sounds like a Good Job! How much do you pay?

i suppose you are working so much oyu have no time, hence you have the Money?

by standing next to one?

Well not all fit this description?!

You gave a possible answer yourself:

they know what they want. and what do they want? an answer to their sexual peak. And what is that? NSFW!

and they are self-sufficient, so they like their independence.
so you be independent too. do not depend on her, do not drag her down by using her resources. Bring your own resources.

:P

They want a Toyboy...

doesit?
Does.


met a woman from here.
she was 45 minutes late and kinda flaky "train canceled" - even though in the meantime i had double and triple checked with the train company...
;-)
Put her on ignore, that made her mad.

FFWD 3 months

contacted her a few days ago, She has been fuming for two days now, because i said the word "liar" and did not react to her "you behaved like a child"
we have been throwing stones at each other, arguments, observations, objective vs subjective impressions...

We�ll meet up at the fun fair on saturday.
where do we meet? I set the Meeting point beneath this - just to make sure she knows what she has gotten herself into.

re-read what i said:
You are too young for me!
do not forget the "for me"

ahdamn... i turned a compliment into a slap.

Sowwwie!
:D

Stop making this personal.
Who said i am defending this.

i specifically said "i understand".
so if anything, you should have said

"He has not met the right husband yet"
Okay?

and no, that does not change a damn thing.
The Dude is still the Dickhead.
The Wife is still a ... a... a -dare i say it - a HORSE.
and the Husband is still the Loser.

Because he�ll go to jail for bloody murder on Mister Dickhead.
and all that because of a ... cheating HORSE.


I had a girlfriend once - her father tried to impress me all yankee style, by showing me his Gun collection in his garage.
I took the only one i recognized, a MG 42, disassembled, reassembled and loaded it.
took me half an hour and some google on the smartphone, but he shut up after that.

Everyone can be beaten. Especially the entitled and enraged ones.
Don�t be enraged. Be smart. Walk away from the Horse.

@Guy

Life is complex, i think we can accept that.

However - the subject is to detect women that want money, women that are gold diggers, women that want to trap the average user in any way.
and that, my friend, is simple.
and i like to follow simple advice - it has kept me out of complicated situations.

Oh, me looking at someone far away, more than at 100 women and all that,
that was just my personal wink at SitkaRains.
I do not "consider" her.
I only admire her, from what... 10,000 miles away?
and she is too young for me anyway.

*does not blush*

He gets all the benefits without the drawbacks.
does not have to work to get sex (like a husband, begging for it)
does not have to date, wine and dine the chick' (no time for that, they just have sex )
does not have to marry her (she is not loyal anyway, so he knows exactly what she is...)
does not need to raise her kids (the ignorant husband does that)
does not need to fear divorce court

that�s a hell of a lot of upsides especially in the western world where men... "Husbands" regularly get taken to the cleaners.

All he needs to do is use a fake name, a burner cell and get "le Snip" to cover the bases.


I do not agree -
but i understand the technicalities.

what feelings does he have?
he knows she is a cheat. in his head he is laughing at the dumb husband to whom this happened... twice.
what does he feel? when she goes home? he scratches an itch and feels satisfaction.

Cheat me once shame on you, cheat me twice, shame on me.
Or something along those lines.

Chasing skirts, and learning lessons from the Past.
I failed at the first, because i succeeded at the second.
so i am back looking for a smart woman that likes to dance the dance.

I know one, but damn she is from frickin� Anchorage, and she already has a tango partner.

Life sucks.
:D

Use the good old MGTOW technique of playing Poor.
you have your house, your job and your life in order, but refuse to talk about your financial situation.


Listen
If she talks about money - especially not having any...
Walk away.
If she is 30 and drops hints about student loans...
walk away.
If she is 50 and talks about her babydaddy refusing to pay child support...
walk away.


Read and aquire info.
read their profiles. if you see a woman who likes to go on vacation, she likes "to be taken" on vacation. If she likes to go to restaurants, vacation, is looking for a man "to treat her right" and such...
those are what you call "red flags"

go from virtual to real
if a woman is genuinely interested in you, meet up.
In fact, money should be no subject at all until you have met her a dozen times.



If any money talk comes up during the first 3 months after meeting a person
Walk away.


And have your D.... your Passion under control to actually WALK AWAY.
[how to do that, is to follow Bill Burr�s advice to, err.... "rub one out" i believe he said.]
think with the Big head.
shut the Small head up.



Simplez.

does that invalidate the infor contained here?
;-)

The other one will not know what to respond to a "Hi"
So do ANYTHING BUT "Hi"
Hi... Hi is useless.
you want that Woman to talk to you. give her something to talk about. Throw her a rope, make it easy for her.

what i do is throw a silly comment, a half-insult or an elaborate question that shows i have red, and understoof their Profile.

No, this is not a sure-fire way to get a proper reply.
need to gauge if she is chill or stuck up - not easy. Might backfire on you and you get a slap across the face.

But such is life...

You wanna get the most out of this site - what is it you want?
72 virgins or just a good laugh?

ask for nothing.
then you can not be dissappointed.


That will make you relax, and when you got nothing to lose, women quickly understand that you are confident or at least laid back.
And confident and laid back dudes rock.

Needy Horny Toads not - they are creepy as hell.

So no "marry me " questions either.

I asked my Boss, and he told me, in our work, business relationship, he thinks sex is definitely not important.

It was quite a Bummer for me, i admit.
soon after, she fired me.

1)
Her Bipolar disorder meant that she could go from happy to sad within minutes.
My sex sessions, i like it to last hours. So yea, that was a practical issue.

2)yes - i withdrew to the room with the couch and the PC. Yes, the list of reasons why i did not want sex or intimacy got longer and longer.


3)(optional)
The sex was what got us together.
The lack of sex due to [reasons] was what split us up.
= Sex, intimacy, skin on skin, cuddling matters.
--> No intimacy, no relationship. Brutal.

Well... i have been there (me 32 her 66)

and for me the answer was the "sex was the most intense i ever had".

Not wild... But fusion-like.
But eh, she was married... so things came to an end.
oops.

As for the "Glasshouse" element...
I don't care.
It matters more to be awake and critical thinking than kneeling before HER.

There are a LOT of male asshats out there. Well known fact.

But women can be just as nasty.

If that statement removes 50% of of my Potentioal dating and mating opportunities, It'll only speed up my search for the right one.

No!
of course not.
Just balancing this whole mangina thing out a bit.
superior, holy woman!
How DARE a being with a dick think differently than whorshipping the woman!

Here -
a woman gives birth to a man.
he is capable of walking, even talking.
oone listens, noone cares. Mom is holy, mom is right.
Mom needs attention, kills son.

http://www.irishtimes.com/news/world/us/woman-gets-20-years-to-life-for-killing-5-year-old-son-with-salt-1.2168799

Sure, Glasshouse.

what do we call the mother?
Who cares.... Kill the user who dares to disagree!