so i need not interact more with society than i must -groceries, cleaners, shopping in general, gas station... City life in general is very exhausting. always noisy too. Sucks.

I just wanna do my Job and Chill the remainder of the time, be left alone in the garden, with the Dog and the GF.

and when you have a house far out in the bush, you better make sure i's not made of paper. When a bad guy comes around because he heard you got money from the lottery, the next cop might take an hour to get there and find nothing but your Corpse.

And Guns are fun.

"Marriage was a GREAT REWARD for This Gal. heart "

exactly in the global direction of what he is saying.
Marriage should not be a reward for the woman.
should not be a reward for anybody - the State included.
Because who is the real winner...?

are you sure?
i bet there are cultures where this matter is... not... at least not always... at least not REALLY... a joint decision.

just sayin'...

because marriage is out of the question.

buy a remote house.
turn it into a bunker
stockpile food, fuels, tools, tools, and Guns.

and tell nobody.

approach a pretty girl like a pretty guy: with your mind, not with your D...umdeedumm.
Talk to the person, not her booty.

So its no different than for a male, a friend, a neighbor...

no sex till marriage is a bad idea.

useful reading

http://mingle2.com/topic/442084

But come on! It�s ridiculous!

Don�t even try to weasel yourself past all the errors other men might have done. You�ll fail.
There is no guaranteed plan to get her to reply.
Nor do you know the Reasons why.

Keep it simple. be yourself. Be nice, be smart, maybe she�ll appreciate, maybe not.
If not...
Her loss.

Also tell yourself this:
these are live people.
they spend time here.

If their experience was as bad as you portray it, they would have closed their account a long time ago.

So if their experience was as bad as you portray it, and they are STILL here...
They must be either desperate... or stupid.

Nope.
nopenopenope lets not even go there.
;-)

I recommend turning the Process around:

FIRST check out if the Site is legit...
BEFORE posting half nude pix.

But since you had your Nude Pix up before you asked this question,
i suspect you raised this topic to generate traffic?

ah. so you know this HOW?



again - how the Bloody hell are you coming up with this?




by doing what YOU just did. Play the victim, the poor innocent, White knight with pure intentions.




but back to the answer you seek:
Not at all. it�s no longer possible to date them.
All your efforts are futile because of the things you said before.
Not that it is based on anything substantial, but hey... i suppose you are right, right?

Money.
Money attracts all sorts of things and can bve thrown at problems.
and once the problems are gone, you have time to find love.

... or do it in such an obvious, clumsy and funny way that everyone laughs and has a good time :D

someone to break the bank with.
else it ain't fun.

you listened to the small head more than you listened to your big head.

you work together.
so unless you want to make that awkward, you do not look at her in any other way than a colleague.
maybe she feels bad and weird now and talks to HR and you will lose your job over "harassment" or something.

dude.
use your BIG head.
keep work and private separate.

might need to contact two guys.
one for the one and the other for the other Role respectively.

and make sure they never meet.

letting you down nicely.
accept and move on.

Talk to the man - give him the honesty he deserves, and be prepared to be treated as honest as he can.

Ask the questions you need answers to, and allow him to ask you a few questions that he needs answered.

He might say: i want you and only you.
He might say: i want to have someone over on the two other weekends.

He might say: look you live too far away, this is an issue. This is the best we can be, if you really need more, - sorry, can not do, if you NEED MORE break it off.


Overall, we know little details, but then again those details are irrelevant.
You know you will have to talk to the man, and both of you will have to lay your cards on the table.
And no, it is not going to be a "effortlessly happy" moment, as you seek for a better arrangement.

The worst you get is a whole bunch of answers you do not like, and everything goes to waste.
The best you can get is a compromise on how to keep going.

Do it in order to make progress.
Do not accept living like that if it downright sucks.

LOLZ!

So if you do not think colour matters
... then why do you ask if it does?

ah so you mean RACE?
is THAT the question - does RACE matter?

(come on get to the point that itches... this is confusing as hell)

I have seen an instance on another site where a black/afro-american/african (make your pick) woman from France is looking for a white boy between 28 and 38.
Confuded, I asked her "why?".
Said she had "expectations" since she was looking for something "real"



That woman is racist as hell - because what she is saying in fact is that black dudes cannot fulfill her expectations, that they are not real.




In Essence:
Color might not matter to you.
But to other people it is one of the most important things.
But is it still love then... or is it business?



Lemme tell you one thing here.
Love is about You and Her. [Him... It]
Your Mind and Soul first, and then your Body and your wallet.
If someone out there treats you in a different way, looks at your skin before checking out the Guy inside that skin, send that person back to where she came from.

Keep it simple, keep it real.