Topic: Why is it hard to find good and responsible men | |
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Please I need an answer to this question
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uhm
looking in the wrong places over thinking it looking to fail (meaning setting the bar so high no one could hit the point) havent found the right one yet the list is endless the trick is to keep looking cause with out trying you will never find best wishes on your hunt you can add a picture to up your chances lots of guys wont reply if you dont have a pic up or send you an email for that matter it dont help the area you are from Nigeria cause its known for scammers and fake people but at least you are being truth full putting that on there so that is at least a point in your direction best wishes on your hunt keep your head up , your prince could be right around the corner you never know : ) |
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Edited by
misstina2
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Sat 11/14/15 08:29 AM
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on here if you want to up chances add pictures Don't limit yourself look here look wherever you are doing activities if you have no way to relocate look locally good luck
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Have you tried looking behind the couch?
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"Why is it hard to find good and responsible men"
Please I need an answer to this question The question assumes what has yet to be proven. What if good and responsible men aren't hard to find? |
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men do the smart thing and shy away from women...
women that seek men that take responsibility. we understand that to mean: Provide me and my 3 kids (from 3 different fathers) with housing, food, clothing and so forth. and if you do not, i will call the Law on you. A woman can take responsibility for herself. if she does not, she often seeks a man to do that for her. Therefor women seeking responsible men are not, and with that disqualify themselves for long term relationships and marriage. |
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there are good men and women everywhere... if you're having a problem finding one, then it is something that you're doing wrong, not the rest of the world...
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I'm going to ask my magic 8 ball. Hang on a moment.
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Your outlook is good.
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Living in Nigeria, in the age of the great repeating Nigerian Prince/Princess scams, will make things extra tough for you in the online world.
As for myself, I have come to the conclusion that truly "good and responsible men" or women have ALWAYS been scarce. Not because humans are inherently nasty and selfish, or anything as negative or depressing as that. It's more that I discovered that it takes a great deal of conscious effort and work, for anyone to be good and responsible. I think that most people don't recognize that, and go through their lives from one moment to the next, expecting that the fact that they are trying to please themselves, will have the natural result that whatever they do will be "good," or at least "for the best." And without the effort, and with all of the disparate forces and other people in the world, ever urging everyone to cater to whatever whims are most profitable to THEM, this sort of laissez faire approach to life, will almost certainly result in most people leading, shall we say, less than elegant lives. |
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Have you tried looking behind the couch? Last time I did that it ended in an exorcism. |
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Nookin' fo' nub in all da wong pwaces...
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I suppose we're all just busy,
doing 'guy' stuff. |
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Please I need an answer to this question You posted this the same day you joined the site... give the poor guys a chance!! As for "responsible" it has so many different meanings and is subject to personal opinion - to me is means 'boring'. |
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Guys are visual so put up a photo with class. In other words don't show your assets off. Some things are best kept secrets for special occasions.
Welcome to the family |
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Because the good ones are all in relationships already? I don’t know.
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Because some woman they do not respect the husband so no to fine responsible is my God .....i am looking for a responsible girl to be with i can fine ....i know she willl come one day to me.
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"love is a stranger and funny thing.."
we have to wait who is really for us... thats why so we hurt because we love the wrong person or unbelievers who are not destined for us... #wait for the ryt tym... |
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Because most of us, don't just stick our bait out for just any sucker....
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Because the good ones are all in relationships already? I don’t know. Not all the good one's are taken. How do I know that? I know that based on hard factual documented evidence. And I can prove it. |
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