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| Topic: Some Things That Put you Off when Looking at Profiles? | |
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I lot of things put me off ...
guess might be their ... first mail with starting with a comments... like hi babe... or hi beautiful ... hi honey ... and other rhetorical words ... I am guessing they do not look at my profile... before contacting me ... I say a lot of things that can tell them... what they may need to know ...before asking me a ?... |
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I also have a solo lifestyle, but I do have a huge family and Grand-kids to keep me company if I so wish.
Like yourself, females simply do not respond no matter how polite you are. I view them as ignorant, self centred individuals and just move on after blocking them. Every single site has different functions, but all end up with females that will not have the courtesy to respond. I suspect they are waiting for that adonis or greek god, that's going to whisk them away in his strong arms and take them to his yacht in the Caribbean. Sorry ladies, that's not gonna happen! One site I'm currently using actually has a function to send 100 messages out to females. It goes along the lines of 'make my day and reply to me', but much nicer than simply that. Only got one reply and that was from a Lithuanian lady, and all written in her native tongue. Out of politeness I replied to her, with a nice message translated in her language. Dating sites by and large are pretty useless, far too many female window shoppers that do not know what they want. At least this site is free, so no monetary harm done:) |
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When the first thing I see is "looking for marriage". If you are "husband hunting", then I figure you have a lot of emotional baggage and are not capable of being an independent, competent woman. I feel the same way about men who are afraid of marriage... It tells me they're afraid of ever making a real commitment again after they split from their ex. Meaning they're not truly over it and have emotional baggage. |
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Holding huge fish = biggest turn-off in the universe
Tongue out = a solid nr 2 in turn-off Pouty fish lips = so not sexy on a man Old photos, you can tell Leaning into... their ex (??) who they cropped out? Often their hand/hair still shows Children/baby/other woman in photo Dog |
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Edited by
Freebird Deluxe
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Sun 05/05/19 02:58 AM
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Holding huge fish = biggest turn-off in the universe Tongue out = a solid nr 2 in turn-off Pouty fish lips = so not sexy on a man Old photos, you can tell Leaning into... their ex (??) who they cropped out? Often their hand/hair still shows Children/baby/other woman in photo Dog Yes I forgot to add huge fish to my list an while I'm at it comedy rubber chickens |
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Edited by
JulieABush
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Sun 05/05/19 03:38 AM
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I got a “friend invetation” from a guy and when I viewed his profile his main line in orange said “stop staring at me!” Big turn off for me. Saying “Hey babe” is a turn off too because I’m not your babe and so is an empty profile. Also sending a friend invetation then deactivatiing your account is a turn off.
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Not having my glasses on.
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I also have a solo lifestyle, but I do have a huge family and Grand-kids to keep me company if I so wish. Like yourself, females simply do not respond no matter how polite you are. I view them as ignorant, self centred individuals and just move on after blocking them. Every single site has different functions, but all end up with females that will not have the courtesy to respond. I suspect they are waiting for that adonis or greek god, that's going to whisk them away in his strong arms and take them to his yacht in the Caribbean. Sorry ladies, that's not gonna happen! One site I'm currently using actually has a function to send 100 messages out to females. It goes along the lines of 'make my day and reply to me', but much nicer than simply that. Only got one reply and that was from a Lithuanian lady, and all written in her native tongue. Out of politeness I replied to her, with a nice message translated in her language. Dating sites by and large are pretty useless, far too many female window shoppers that do not know what they want. At least this site is free, so no monetary harm done:) "I suspect they are waiting for that adonis or greek god, that's going to whisk them away in his strong arms and take them to his yacht in the Caribbean." Horse sh**. WHY do guys think that....? We just was a guy that is what we want...not some guy who can't read a profile, and just bulldozes right ahead even though we say "thanks, but I don't think we have *anything* in common"... (which answers your query above about "but all end up with females that will not have the courtesy to respond.".....because most of the time when we do that, the guy gets pissy, and demands to know why, and then gets hatful..) " far too many female window shoppers that do not know what they want." I *do* know, unfortunately guys think they need to tell me what i want.. I'm like "So, despite the fact I am 57, and have had 2 long term and very fufilling relationships I don't know what I need, want, and prefer?...Interesting.." |
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and a TON of fake profiles they all say the exact same things its like come on couldn't they have been original
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A widow or single father who has kids living with them.
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People look at profiles?
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A widow or single father who has kids living with them. Make that a widower and hell yes! No more family situation and kiddies. |
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Edited by
I_love_bluegrass
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Tue 05/07/19 07:41 AM
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A widow or single father who has kids living with them. Make that a widower and hell yes! No more family situation and kiddies. Yeah..but then there are the ~grandkids~... 
I have been surprised at the number of 50+ year old guys with kids under 10 at home (some in their early 60's).. Nothing says "I go for younger women" tha that.. Because it's not likely his wife had that kid when *she* was 48... 
Maybe that happenes occasionally, but not as often as *I* am seeing it. |
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"Looking for knight in shining armour"
Long winded blurbs. Older women with boobs out 
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Men that are just looking for ego boost
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Men w no shirt on
Men in bed Too many animals Family pics Dom/submissive profile Men w kids at home No complete profile Men fishing or hunting pics Only one pic Men in a bar Sexually suggestive in pic or profile Married or separated, and looking And of course, scammers |
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People sitting on kangaroos
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When their profile nothing but 'hi'
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