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Topic: WHAT DO WOMEN REALLY WANT???
I_love_bluegrass's photo
Wed 03/13/19 03:13 AM
Edited by I_love_bluegrass on Wed 03/13/19 03:14 AM

Women choose a man, the same as she chooses her car. Important features in a car are:

Must be reliable, good to look at, clean (inside and out), low maintenance offers a comfortable ride on short or long distances and can go the distance during the life of ownership. Sometimes engine size, colour and type of car (style) is important also.

How this translates to a man is:
- Reliable: No flakes, liars, already taken
- Good to look at: Men on the fringes of looks, size department are less attractive
- Clean (goes without saying). Good personal hygiene is important
- Low maintenance: Lots of guys are too busy to be in a relationship so make poor boyfriends and partners
- Offers a comfortable ride on short or long distances: No drama, anger problems, financial woes, problems with the ex etc
- Can go the distances during the lifetime of ownership: Has a genuine desire to get married rather than just "be with the special one"!

Optional extras:
- Engine size: Pertains to intellect, physical stamina, personal stats
- Colour: Preference for ethnicity. Some like black, white, Latino, Asian etc
- Type: Romantic, Athletic, Humorous, Adaptable, Well-travelled, etc

If a man has all those qualities he is a KEEPER.


I agree with most of that..

And yet, there's a goodly number who yammer on about how one's preferences don't matter..aren't important...that you should overlook stuff....otherwise, you're deemed "too picky/ particular"..
(usually siad by those with standards of their *own* they wouldn't compromise...)

Those of us who have reached to age of 50 should know what we like, prefer, want, need to have the best relationship possible, to have the most joy and peace in our lives..
It's not someone else's place to tell us that *they* think we are wrong to want what we want, and know what is best for us.

no photo
Sat 03/16/19 12:49 PM
To be valued, to be understood, to be told she's looking nice when she's spent ages on herself, to be reminded of her charms when shes feeling insecure, to be adored, to be brought flowers out of the blue, to be surprised, to be exited, to be cared for when she's ill, to know she's the only one for her chosen man, to be happy, to laugh, to sometimes cry, to be cherished,to be reminded in creative ways and thoughtful words that she is much loved. but mostly to be valued and understood. although women are very different. Oh and perhaps the other thing too :)

mzrosie's photo
Sat 03/16/19 02:51 PM
laugh yeah all that ^^ and much much more
and perhaps that other thing too... perhaps
rofl rofl rofl

Toodygirl5's photo
Sat 03/16/19 02:58 PM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Sat 03/16/19 02:59 PM
Bear Hugs :bear:

no photo
Wed 03/20/19 01:21 AM
Cool

JustBeHonest's photo
Wed 03/20/19 06:13 AM
What women really want.......is what I think I’ve found.

Love, affection, to be valued, respected, treated well and sex!

Liz's photo
Wed 03/20/19 12:39 PM
A man who lives local would be a good start.

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Wed 03/20/19 01:04 PM

To be valued, to be understood, to be told she's looking nice when she's spent ages on herself, to be reminded of her charms when shes feeling insecure, to be adored, to be brought flowers out of the blue, to be surprised, to be exited, to be cared for when she's ill, to know she's the only one for her chosen man, to be happy, to laugh, to sometimes cry, to be cherished,to be reminded in creative ways and thoughtful words that she is much loved. but mostly to be valued and understood. although women are very different. Oh and perhaps the other thing too :)


Yes, this! smitten

no photo
Wed 03/20/19 01:44 PM
Power ...now give me the remote laugh laugh

no photo
Wed 03/20/19 02:19 PM
And residents of hell want ice water.

Krazzy79's photo
Thu 03/21/19 10:46 AM
they dont evan know themselves

no photo
Thu 03/21/19 12:57 PM
An angry old man. explode

JustBeHonest's photo
Thu 03/21/19 03:31 PM

An angry old man. explode


Had one of those, never again.

Happy fun old man is better.

Freebird Deluxe's photo
Mon 03/25/19 01:11 AM
Not to get the bad news that the main shaft coupling bracket assembly relay bearing support housing on their car needs replacing

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Mon 03/25/19 01:23 AM
I don't think most men, especially those with a type A personality, will ever be as emotionally involved in a relationship as most women seem to expect. Logic and reason are to override emotion in most situations!!

meetnicegal's photo
Mon 03/25/19 01:29 AM
Yes, but also made to feel special, honesty

meetnicegal's photo
Mon 03/25/19 01:31 AM
WRONG!! Pretty racist statement. Tyr sugar rather than vinegar to catch a bee

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Wed 03/27/19 01:21 PM

Women choose a man, the same as she chooses her car. Important features in a car are:

Must be reliable, good to look at, clean (inside and out), low maintenance offers a comfortable ride on short or long distances and can go the distance during the life of ownership. Sometimes engine size, colour and type of car (style) is important also.

How this translates to a man is:
- Reliable: No flakes, liars, already taken
- Good to look at: Men on the fringes of looks, size department are less attractive
- Clean (goes without saying). Good personal hygiene is important
- Low maintenance: Lots of guys are too busy to be in a relationship so make poor boyfriends and partners
- Offers a comfortable ride on short or long distances: No drama, anger problems, financial woes, problems with the ex etc
- Can go the distances during the lifetime of ownership: Has a genuine desire to get married rather than just "be with the special one"!

Optional extras:
- Engine size: Pertains to intellect, physical stamina, personal stats
- Colour: Preference for ethnicity. Some like black, white, Latino, Asian etc
- Type: Romantic, Athletic, Humorous, Adaptable, Well-travelled, etc

If a man has all those qualities he is a KEEPER.



This rules out about 90% of them.

actionlynx's photo
Wed 03/27/19 01:50 PM


This rules out about 90% of them.


Yes, but that still leaves what? 700 million men in the world?

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Wed 03/27/19 01:53 PM



This rules out about 90% of them.


Yes, but that still leaves what? 700 million men in the world?


:thumbsup: waving


OT... A glass is half full kind of man!

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