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Topic: How do I handle this one? (Girls ONLY)
iceprincess's photo
Sat 12/08/07 02:31 PM
just leave him be till you find out for sure...pick your battles darling and this one your gonna lose......he has his own emotions and his own way to deal and if it's causing you this much stress than let it ride till you know EXACTLY what your dealing with.............

cutelildevilsmom's photo
Sat 12/08/07 02:31 PM
well i havent had sexin about five years so two more to go...sad sad

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Sat 12/08/07 02:31 PM



....To some people sex is not that big of a deal, I take kissing as being more intimate than sex. ....

And this is exactly why there are so many unintended pregnancies, single-mother homes*, and a frighteningly high incidence of STD's.


*I'm not referring to cases of divorce, death, etc.


A: I know I'm the only person HE'S sleeping with b/c I talk to him and see him all the damn time, I even talk to him while he's working sometimes b/c he likes to hear my voice while he works. Yes, I do believe that he is falling for me but afraid to commit. I told him from the get go that if he was sleeping with other ppl he need to tell me right off. He's an honest person, I believe him that he's not. Its actually been more like a relationship without the label... he buys me dinner and wine and spends time talking and playing and laughing with me. He's not all bad, but he really is waring thin on my nerves right now.

And B:.. well hell I done forgot what B was going to say...


I'm sure there is nothing to worry about then. If he SAYS it, it HAS to be the truth.

longhairbiker's photo
Sat 12/08/07 02:32 PM
.01%.

REDDRAGONS's photo
Sat 12/08/07 02:34 PM
Drama anyone?


"And like sands through the hour glass so are the days of our lives"

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longhairbiker's photo
Sat 12/08/07 02:34 PM
99.9% pure something stinks in here.

cutelildevilsmom's photo
Sat 12/08/07 02:34 PM
Edited by cutelildevilsmom on Sat 12/08/07 02:36 PM




....To some people sex is not that big of a deal, I take kissing as being more intimate than sex. ....

And this is exactly why there are so many unintended pregnancies, single-mother homes*, and a frighteningly high incidence of STD's.


*I'm not referring to cases of divorce, death, etc.



C'mom Tulsa men dont lie to us women!!devil
A: I know I'm the only person HE'S sleeping with b/c I talk to him and see him all the damn time, I even talk to him while he's working sometimes b/c he likes to hear my voice while he works. Yes, I do believe that he is falling for me but afraid to commit. I told him from the get go that if he was sleeping with other ppl he need to tell me right off. He's an honest person, I believe him that he's not. Its actually been more like a relationship without the label... he buys me dinner and wine and spends time talking and playing and laughing with me. He's not all bad, but he really is waring thin on my nerves right now.

And B:.. well hell I done forgot what B was going to say...


I'm sure there is nothing to worry about then. If he SAYS it, it HAS to be the truth.



c'mon Tulsa,men dont lie to us women..huh huh huh





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longhairbiker's photo
Sat 12/08/07 02:35 PM
Oops sorry I farted.

JaymeStephens84a0lc's photo
Sat 12/08/07 02:36 PM
While I was going to apoligise for the double post b/c my computer is sh!t right now...

I can see more things I need to respond to.

I get tested a few times a year, have ever since I became sexually active when I was 13.

And yes, my sister passed when I was 15, leaving my mother and I to raise him. I have him more than anyone else, always have. I've been the main one raising him for 8 years. Hard yes, but worth it b/c that child is my world.

I've only lived here like 4 months... so several means in the last 4 months. I dont' tell you guys EVERYTIME I start seeing someone...

buttons's photo
Sat 12/08/07 02:36 PM
thought something was stinking in herelaugh

cutelildevilsmom's photo
Sat 12/08/07 02:37 PM

Oops sorry I farted.



.01 funny..:wink:

longhairbiker's photo
Sat 12/08/07 02:39 PM
I liked the vomit remark earlier.

Jess642's photo
Sat 12/08/07 02:39 PM
Jayme, the wiccan boyfriend, the pregnancy scare, the online love affair, and marriage proposal, the exes getting married, without you...

All in the last four months....and the one who was having an affair by text with his ex, not ex....was that the wiccan boyfriend, and now this one....


Where do you find time to raise your nephew? huh

longhairbiker's photo
Sat 12/08/07 02:45 PM
I'm starting to feel like a youth counselor slash obgyn.

JaymeStephens84a0lc's photo
Sat 12/08/07 02:45 PM
That guy was a mistake... the wiccan guy... but I knew him for like a year before we even dated.

The internet thing was just dumb...lol, he got carried away and I didnt' realize that he wasn't joking...

I keep all this away from my nephew... He's here with me right now. He's 9 and he's watching a movie right now cus its far too cold and slippery to go out side and play. I've been taking care of this boy for 8 years, I really dare anyone to question or judge me for taking on the care of my sister's child..

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Sat 12/08/07 02:46 PM





....To some people sex is not that big of a deal, I take kissing as being more intimate than sex. ....

And this is exactly why there are so many unintended pregnancies, single-mother homes*, and a frighteningly high incidence of STD's.


*I'm not referring to cases of divorce, death, etc.



C'mom Tulsa men dont lie to us women!!devil
A: I know I'm the only person HE'S sleeping with b/c I talk to him and see him all the damn time, I even talk to him while he's working sometimes b/c he likes to hear my voice while he works. Yes, I do believe that he is falling for me but afraid to commit. I told him from the get go that if he was sleeping with other ppl he need to tell me right off. He's an honest person, I believe him that he's not. Its actually been more like a relationship without the label... he buys me dinner and wine and spends time talking and playing and laughing with me. He's not all bad, but he really is waring thin on my nerves right now.

And B:.. well hell I done forgot what B was going to say...


I'm sure there is nothing to worry about then. If he SAYS it, it HAS to be the truth.



c'mon Tulsa,men dont lie to us women..huh huh huh





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lol.. Unfortunately the men in Tulsa have NOT cornered the market on honesty!

JaymeStephens84a0lc's photo
Sat 12/08/07 02:48 PM

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I'm sure there is nothing to worry about then. If he SAYS it, it HAS to be the truth.


Its called having faith in people... even though he's being a jerk he's still not lying to me about anything.

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Sat 12/08/07 02:48 PM


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I'm sure there is nothing to worry about then. If he SAYS it, it HAS to be the truth.


Its called having faith in people... even though he's being a jerk he's still not lying to me about anything.


Can I borrow that crystal ball when you're done with it?

longhairbiker's photo
Sat 12/08/07 02:49 PM
Slash minister slash psychologist slash psychiatrist slash pimp slash bank robber slash pizza delivery guy.

Jess642's photo
Sat 12/08/07 02:51 PM
Edited by Jess642 on Sat 12/08/07 02:54 PM
What I see, if one reads all of Jayme's, posts, (which you can do now), is a consistent, desire to be coupled...

Nothing wrong with that...

The birth of a new baby in the family, and a strong desire for that to be Jayme...nothing wrong with that either..

It's the revolving door of men, to pursue one purpose, and almost in a mercenary manner, that is unhealthy.

Jayme...close your legs....open your eyes.... and take stock of you.

Self esteem, is more important than a baby, otherwise you raise an unbalanced child.

Why do you want a child so much, when effectively you already have one, your nephew?

Who are you trying to impress, Mum?

Is it Mum's attentions you require, what your other sister is lavished with, with her young baby?

Is it trying to be your dead sister's equal, to ease Mum's pain?

We all do strange things, when trying to be or please another.

I wonder what impact losing your sister, and effectively your Mum, and being replaced by your nephew, has created in you.

Were you the baby, before that, of the family?

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