Actually no... I'm quite laid back most of the time... I just don't like that when I come here to ask for advice, every single effin time I get attacked... doesn't matter WHAT its about.

Things happen in life. Gotta roll with the punches. Gotta work on those coping skills and anger management. If you don't you will have many more medical issues in your future.

My coping skills are fine and my anger is managed... thank you. How is it not coping well to come ask for advice? I do keep coming here b/c there are a select few who aren't rude and are actually helpful. I'm not angry about this either, just rather annoyed.

Jayme we love you but put yourself in our shoes for a minute. We have had to listen to some very personal private issues presented by you over the last few months. And everyone of these issues were very delicate. And you asked for advice in open forum on the internet. And you contradicted yourself in each of the subjects and portrayed yourself looking like you don't know right from wrong especially in morality issues. And in all three cases you ended up angry, defensive, and using bad words. I like you. You know that. And we've had chosen words in the past. And I didn't mean any offense at things I've said. And I would have apologized sooner but you have me blocked so here goes...... Love and respect yourself a little more. It will help you on your way. You're a much better person. You just don't see it yet. It hurts us all when you hurt yourself like this. Do you hear what the people are saying. Do you even listen to the advice we give? Or are you just really venting and that's all we are to you? Cmon.

I was offended as hell when you told me I was not what you were looking for and I was too old.

I was offended when you make claims of promescuity and how little self respect you have. I respect you. Respect yourself.

I'm offended at all the men you let walk on you because you throw caution to the wind and jump into relationships blindly and without thought.

I'm offended that you hurt yourself like this and try to solicit sympathy and empathy for your situations.

When did I say I was promiscuous? Just because I've dated a few guys doesnt' mean I've slept with all of them. If a man sleeps with a few women nobody thinks anything of it, but if a woman does it she's promiscuous. I'll never understand that one. I never said you were OLD, just older than what I, personally, am looking for. I had put on here 'girls only' b/c it was a personal topic and thought that a woman might understand better than a man would. I don't let men walk on me, when they show that kind of behavior I walk right out the door or show them to it. I don't 'jump in', I actually tread quite lightly. Its them that act like they care then do me wrong. I know I've had my cautionless moments, but life is dead without a few of those thrown in every now and then.

But I didn't get bent outta shape over it. Nor did I turn into yosemite sam. Schr***in, f***ing geesh da**nit c**k s***ing screwy rabbit.

How much is your peace of mind worth to you? Or his piece of mind? You can buy a Home Pregnancy Test for about $4-$7 and end all the uncertainty. Show him the stick so he can see for himself you aren't pregnant, if that is indeed, the situation.

You know he is not ready for anything serious, and you have said you wanted a child. Even though you have shared with him you don't think you can become pregnant, many a man has told a woman he was sterile, only for there to be a WHOOPS! somewhere down the line.
Not taking responsibility for potential birth control, by either of you, creates situations and conflicts like this.
He may not be responding in a considerate manner, and sounds a little unreasonable about taking you for a test. Ignoring it doesn't make the question go away. He also shoulders responsibility for this, and should not put all the blame on you, but ultimately allowing things to just take their "natural" course..... this was just a ticking time bomb waiting to ignite. Spend a few bucks for a HPT and put it all to rest. Then, if you continue to see each other, use condoms!

I wasn't trying to get sympathy... just a few words of advice of how others might try to calm a guy's fears for a day or two till I can get to the store...

And yes, seeing as how I don't know any of you this is truely just a place to vent. When I walk away from the computer I don't give it a second thought.

Many have given advice. Some have (like me) not given advice but made statements on things you've made mention of. Please take something positive away from this. Think about what we've said....

Are you feeling better? Oh I know I am. Whew! That was better than sex!

Here's the real situation here, he is afraid that he is falling for you, and if you were pregnant, he would have to in some aspect be a part of your life, his real issue here is his inability to commit....

Dump his ass and fast, if you are spending time with this looser who can't be honest, you will miss out on a great guy that would be supportive.

TAKE THE TRASH TO THE CURB, AND DON'T GO DIGGING IT UP AGAIN!

Jayme gives me a brain "woodie".

It IS adolescent behaviour to have sex with someone without:
A. Discussing the very real possibilities of an unintended pregnancy---are you both in agreeance on what you would do?
B. Not taking the necessary precautions to prevent pregnancy (as well as STD's) yourself.

Furthermore, it is adolescent behaviour to:
C. Act like a petulant child when the man involved doesn't go along with the agenda.

MEANWHILE BACK AT THE RANCH.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! LOL

i think before people have sex they should discuss one anothers believes and feelings on having children or at the very least know its an accepted risk if your not using protection.

LOL@ SEA...Females only!!!!