So my current boyfriend doesn't like sex, well more specifically he doesn't like receiving pleasure and finishing sex. He only wants to make me feel the pleasure but I don't always want to be on the receiving end. I want sex to be a mixture of receiving and giving for both of us. Is not wanting to receive pleasure something normal guys do? Or is he just weird? He is also bisexual, and I am straight. So not sure if this affects it at all?

So you are on a dating site looking for another man.

Might not be such a bad idea!

why

why

Maybe he is saving his sweet release for his boyfriend..lol

Ok so if you aren't happy in the relationship, shouldn't you end one before starting another?

I would say away from the "weird" label, only because it's a judgement.

Unusual would certainly apply.

Giving pleasure only is a good thing that anyone can enjoy, sometimes. And I, at least, can have a LOT of "fun with females" that doesn't involve me "finishing." I expect most males, at least, have a fair amount of this kind of taking pleasure in them. After all, most guys who go to see nekkid wimmin in entertainment locations, DON'T need to "complete" themselves while they are there. Just getting turned on, can be a lot of fun.

However, NEVER wanting to carry anything to the end, doesn't sound remotely familiar to me.

Only other minor thing I'd mention, is that I've known a few people who said they were bisexual (women, mostly), and each of them were unique. So the fact that this guy says he's bi, wouldn't be an actual explanation of anything. After all, there are millions of different kinds and flavors of heterosexuality. Probably just as many variations on homo and bisexuality too.

If it isn't right..now..it may be never.
I have run into a few that seemed way low on the
testosterone scale, that does not change..they
usually have a lot of other stuff going on..and
as you say he is bisexual, that may be the area
in which he is..conserving.

Maybe he'd rather be with men.

You are asking us single people on a dating site? There's a reason why we are single and you are not, ya know.

Seriously though, he could be into boys.... maybe not.... but he could be.

I asked him about t. He said he wouldn't. But since he's never been with a guy (and I'm his first girlfriend) I'm always wondering about that.

You said he is bisexual. Maybe he is gay and does not want admit it.

That's what I'm starting to think...

^^^^ This...
This won't get better, sooner get worse... Get out before you're too involved

..ummm.. I am starting to think you should find a man that wants to feel your needs..... a relationship needs to be a two-way street...

Just dump limp dick and find another guy.. do you really think he is going to change?

A man gives with his erm... knob. Also, the act of finishing is giving. If he doesn't / can't do that with you, on some deeper level he likely doesn't want to give to you the most intimate gift a man can give a woman...
This is not per say conscious thinking, but subconscious, energetic stuff. Sometimes when a guy doesn't feel it for a woman, cannot give his erm.. 'gift' to her. And by that I mean inside the woman. On a woman is different, not so intimate.

... I thought the most intimate gift was a diamond ring... or maybe a house and a car.... but if I'm reading what you wrote right all I have to do is give her my seed..wow!!!.. I'm going to save so much money from now on..lmao..wink.

You sure he isn't a monk who has taken a vow of not bustin a nutt?

he is bisexual + he's never been with a guy + you are his first girlfriend
all these together.

i am very lost :s