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You are his first girlfriend. That's the reason. He's just really insecure and thinks he doesn't deserve you so he feels uncomfortable if it's all about him. Show him that he does deserve you or dump him.
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That's crazy, far from normal! I hope you'll be ok,the bisexual thing is scary, isn't aids pretty big among gays compared to everyone else?
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So my current boyfriend doesn't like sex, well more specifically he doesn't like receiving pleasure and finishing sex. He only wants to make me feel the pleasure but I don't always want to be on the receiving end. I want sex to be a mixture of receiving and giving for both of us. Is not wanting to receive pleasure something normal guys do? Or is he just weird? He is also bisexual, and I am straight. So not sure if this affects it at all? how long of a time frame are you talking about.... maybe if its an extended amount of time to get you off he could just get tired and not have the energy to keep going ---- have you tried taking the reigns and being the aggressor after the fact you have had your release or the crew line is (no disrespect intended) maybe he is just not into you enough and he is hoping that will change in the future him having sex with others does raise the risk of stds i hope you are not only using protection but being very protective of your health even if he says he always uses protection but doesnt with you chances are he doesnt with others either |
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he is bisexual + he's never been with a guy + you are his first girlfriend all these together. i am very lost :s Me too. But maybe she could give him the number of some of the woman on here who always complain that men ONLY want sex. i would not have guessed you were bi |
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please someone define overly sexed women 
any woman that wants more than their guy is willing to give |
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So my current boyfriend doesn't like sex, well more specifically he doesn't like receiving pleasure and finishing sex. He only wants to make me feel the pleasure but I don't always want to be on the receiving end. I want sex to be a mixture of receiving and giving for both of us. Is not wanting to receive pleasure something normal guys do? Or is he just weird? He is also bisexual, and I am straight. So not sure if this affects it at all? |
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Edited by
Rudolf_108
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Sat 04/15/17 01:15 AM
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Hi,
>> he doesn't like receiving pleasure and finishing sex. there is a chance that he's just deathly afraid of fathering children right now, condoms or not. If your relationship isn't rock-stable, he may just be a much more conscientous guy than the rest of the pack. You (the OP) needs to judge this, and most likely I am wrong but the possibility is very real. Oh, and I would be very (very) careful of putting people into simple boxes. We aren't Michelangelo statues chiseled in rock. People live and learn and change a little bit every day. |
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Maybe he is saving his sweet release for his boyfriend..lol |
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Hello !
I have the same "thing" (to not call it issue), and I will try to explain you how do I see it and why (might be the same as your boyfriend) ! For me sex is not "that" important as we used to hear or to see (before our first time), as there are pervert people, so the opposite exist also, but we are rare ! I do for example prefer to have more a deep relation with the person (girl because I'm straight) which is based on trust, love, respect, and facing life together and enjoying it, thank just focusing on the physical part (sex part) .. lets say we are more into feelings than physic, I also don't finish, no need to ***, I'm fine if I make my girl satisfied .. but I understand that somehow they are not, as they don't really understand our personality (your case). Is your bf for example, read a lot ? think a lot ? interested by some serious topics and like to talk about them ? I can help you more if you tell me how similar is he to me ! |
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Hello ! I have the same "thing" (to not call it issue), and I will try to explain you how do I see it and why (might be the same as your boyfriend) ! For me sex is not "that" important as we used to hear or to see (before our first time), as there are pervert people, so the opposite exist also, but we are rare ! I do for example prefer to have more a deep relation with the person (girl because I'm straight) which is based on trust, love, respect, and facing life together and enjoying it, thank just focusing on the physical part (sex part) .. lets say we are more into feelings than physic, I also don't finish, no need to ***, I'm fine if I make my girl satisfied .. but I understand that somehow they are not, as they don't really understand our personality (your case). Is your bf for example, read a lot ? think a lot ? interested by some serious topics and like to talk about them ? I can help you more if you tell me how similar is he to me ! He talks a lot, especially before the foreplay which makes me feel that he is convincing himself to have sex with me . |
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Hummm... so the bf is bi and he does not like BJ's...
Has anyone even thought that maybe it is cause a girl is giving it to him and it does not turn him on???? That just maybe he gets turned on when a guy is giving him one instead??? If one is straight and they date one that is bi there are going to be some things as I understand that one sex can do it and it turns them on but, when the other one does the same thing it does not.... Maybe he is more gay then he is bi just saying~~~ |
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He talks a lot, especially before the foreplay which makes me feel that he is convincing himself to have sex with me . If it is the only thing, so it is not like my case, but seems that he is very nervous, maybe he is afraid of something which is on him, is your relation just started ? are you his first gf ? |
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He talks a lot, especially before the foreplay which makes me feel that he is convincing himself to have sex with me . If it is the only thing, so it is not like my case, but seems that he is very nervous, maybe he is afraid of something which is on him, is your relation just started ? are you his first gf ? "afraid of something" ..I am not sure but yes, I am his first . |
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Edited by
Ritesh14312
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Sat 04/15/17 05:45 PM
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Contact me
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Maybe he's just an extraordinary guy who likes giving more than receiving
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Sorry, he is not into you like you are into him.
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Ohh
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Most likely he's hittn something on the side ... that or u need to force feed that boy some viagra
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Hey
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