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So my current boyfriend doesn't like sex, well more specifically he doesn't like receiving pleasure and finishing sex. He only wants to make me feel the pleasure but I don't always want to be on the receiving end. I want sex to be a mixture of receiving and giving for both of us. Is not wanting to receive pleasure something normal guys do? Or is he just weird? He is also bisexual, and I am straight. So not sure if this affects it at all? Just dump limp dick and find another guy.. do you really think he is going to change? I second the motion, just dump limp dick and find another guy. |
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So my current boyfriend doesn't like sex, well more specifically he doesn't like receiving pleasure and finishing sex. He only wants to make me feel the pleasure but I don't always want to be on the receiving end. I want sex to be a mixture of receiving and giving for both of us. Is not wanting to receive pleasure something normal guys do? Or is he just weird? He is also bisexual, and I am straight. So not sure if this affects it at all? Just dump limp dick and find another guy.. do you really think he is going to change? I second the motion, just dump limp dick and find another guy. |
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Edited by
TMommy
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Wed 03/29/17 04:15 PM
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I asked him about t. He said he wouldn't. But since he's never been with a guy (and I'm his first girlfriend) I'm always wondering about that. maybe in his eyes saying bi-sexual is easier than saying gay man he is trying out girls to see if he has any interest or to try to convince himself he does you may want to take a break and let him sort of who he is |
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Well, I'm dead straight in my sexual preferences. But I can still find excessive sex drive quite off-putting, regardless of gender.
As an emotional (soul centered) personality, I can sometimes find overly sexual people repulsive. But if it is a priority, there's certainly no shortage of men with those interests. |
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Well, I'm dead straight in my sexual preferences. But I can still find excessive sex drive quite off-putting, regardless of gender. As an emotional (soul centered) personality, I can sometimes find overly sexual people repulsive. But if it is a priority, there's certainly no shortage of men with those interests. I agree.. I find overly sexed woman repulsive too. Actually I am doing a study funded by the South Philadelphia Community College on this very same subject Can you provide me with the contact info for these overly sexed women that you know of?.. I would like to interview them.. you know, for research purposes. |
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So my current boyfriend doesn't like sex, well more specifically he doesn't like receiving pleasure and finishing sex. He only wants to make me feel the pleasure but I don't always want to be on the receiving end. I want sex to be a mixture of receiving and giving for both of us. Is not wanting to receive pleasure something normal guys do? Or is he just weird? He is also bisexual, and I am straight. So not sure if this affects it at all? I love sex |
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Can you provide me with the contact info for these overly sexed women that you know of?.. I would like to interview them.. you know, for research purposes. lol lol lol |
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So my current boyfriend doesn't like sex, well more specifically he doesn't like receiving pleasure and finishing sex. He only wants to make me feel the pleasure but I don't always want to be on the receiving end. I want sex to be a mixture of receiving and giving for both of us. Is not wanting to receive pleasure something normal guys do? Or is he just weird? He is also bisexual, and I am straight. So not sure if this affects it at all? Well I'm not an expert, but I do live in the Keys and work with several gay men. It sounds like he just hasn't come out of the closet yet. It could be he's not truly bi-sexual, and just hasn't embraced his own sexuality yet as a gay man. But what matters most right now, is you and if you aren't getting your needs met in this relationship, maybe it's time to do some soul searching as to why you are still hanging in there. Good luck to you! |
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That's what I'm starting to think... Sounds like closet gay to me. It also sounds like you are being used. I almost wouldn't be afraid to bet he has a secret boyfriend he is doing the same way he is doing you. When he is doing you, he is comparing you to him. I bet that is why he says he is bi. There are parts that he likes doing with you. And other parts he likes doing with a guy. Be careful. This could get ugly. |
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Mingle... always entertaining... lol...
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Mingle... always entertaining... lol... Best answer 
Really simple OP If you are unhappy cut ties and move on |
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Sounds like a fail all around.
He obviously is not ready to be fully sexually active with you but sounds like you have pushed the activity and he fails for not saying no. Doesn't matter the reason. He may mistakenly think he is morally, emotionally or physically "safe" just "petting" with you but he's not; even if it is only the fact that you tell his personal business on the web. Not cool |
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Hi will you be my gf
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hhmm
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hhmm
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I have a feeling that your boyfriend just likes to feel someonewhat in control, and maybe you are too aggressive
for him and it's a turn off to him. Just kind of play along to whatever he wants to do, but don't be overly agrresive too much and see what happens. Best of luck to you, |
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he is bisexual + he's never been with a guy + you are his first girlfriend all these together. i am very lost :s Me too. But maybe she could give him the number of some of the woman on here who always complain that men ONLY want sex. |
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hii
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A man gives with his erm... knob. Also, the act of finishing is giving. If he doesn't / can't do that with you, on some deeper level he likely doesn't want to give to you the most intimate gift a man can give a woman... This is not per say conscious thinking, but subconscious, energetic stuff. Sometimes when a guy doesn't feel it for a woman, cannot give his erm.. 'gift' to her. And by that I mean inside the woman. On a woman is different, not so intimate. Diamonds never tickled my fancy... A silver patio on the other hand 
And getting a ring at some point. Don't need diamonds in that. Do need the ring. |
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Confused
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