Marriage is not for everybody all the time. I would much rather be happily single than unhappily married. I have been a widow for 4 years and am afraid of making a mistake. I am concentrating on other things for the time being.

hw'll u fnd im?

womens r cheat

What I meant was, women on here seem to find you attractive and you have a lot going for you. I'm sure you have your reasons for being single at the moment and I hope we both find a special lady when the time is right






The last few years for me have been very relaxing for the most part and I don't go looking to get into anything that might be work. Most of my partners in the past were effortless and that is something I don't think I could do without. That may sound selfish but I really do believe people are their own worse enemies when it comes to relationships. I think people a lot of times want something to work at and I'm looking for someone to fit. I don't want to start a construction company I want to settle into a custom prefab.

Good luck to you my friend!

my children, my impatience, my faith

my children, because I dont want just anyone in OUR life, and if they are potentially going to be in mine, they are going to be in OURS



my impatience, because I am not the type to 'need' a relationship or wait around on someone to make up their mind or figure things out, Im the type whod rather do it myself than wait for someone to figure it out



my faith, because I am not into the whole casual sex attitude and I truly want a FRIEND first and foremost,unless we are going to have a commitment later sex aint happening until then,not sure most guys are into that with someone may age and two kids

Mg.. I couldn't agree with you more.. and I don't believe it's being selfish to want to be with someone laid back and low maintenance! When my kids left.. so did the drama.. and WOW.. I'm SOO enjoying the peace and quiet! hearing people whine and complain all the time can get old quickly.. life is what you make it.. and I've enough work to do..

in my opinion.. if its hard work? it's not the right relationship!

don't know about YOU.. but I'm not one for being "lumped" into a stereo-type.. not ALL women are.. you probably have just met a lot of wrong ones for you!

keep positive and keep posting.. but most importantly.. be yourself and please don't judge the WHOLE female population by a few unworthy ones..

hey boonedoggy.. methinks it's cuz of that love-sick smiley.. it's given you the 'come hither, dreamy' eyes!!

I like my freedom.

Thank God, none of my family or acquaintances is rude enough to ask such a thing.

The answer is simple: terrible judgment in men.

because I am apparently picky lol...no not everyone can deal with someone who has a kid with special needs...i'm busy and i can't always give them the attention they want...which i feel is understandable and fair...besides being single has its perks :)

Because i can't make pancakes right

I'm sorry but pancake making happens to be at the top of my list for seeking potential partners. A new griddle may help

May be in not so interesting.

Cuz I can't find normal! What is wrong with normal? and believe me, I am the goofiest guy you will probably ever meet, so I have a wide range for what is normal. For example, here is a list of the last three women I had really strong feelings for:

1. Died of drug overdose. I guess all the AA meetings she dragged me to worked, at least she wasn't drinking!
2. Had trust issues, was from Liberia and her family was dragged out into the street where they killed her father and ate her pet dog in front of her. She refused to work on her issues.
3. Had clinical depression and OCD. Would not go outside cause "Nature is dirty and it can kill you" Literally inspected me and her bathroom every time I used it (which unfortunately was very often-LOL)

Life is hard, I know; I am really easygoing, but when the crazy impedes progression in a relationship its time to bail. And that is just the women I liked, but I won't bore you with all the crazies I bailed on right away.

PS- any normal out there?

good Question!

because no love !

for real.. do any of us really know why?? I think not. we may speculate. It's all circumstantial.

Lets all just try to be as happy as we can be right where we are in this moment shall we! all we have is right here and now. the present.

I wish this site had like buttons like fb so I could like people comments ijs