cuz the guy across the street from me is a flaming gay

That makes no sense.
A lot of women choose to be friends with homosexual men because they're more in touch with their feminine side. So actually, your neighbor could probably set you up with a girl

This comment I can agree with.

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Uhmmm....wanna be my neighbor?

I've been through crap and back. I'm not right for anyone. They lie cheat and many other things to me. What am I doing wtong

I doubt if you've done anything wrong, other than get involved with the wrong types. Good luck!

I truly agree with the old guy with four arms. Although I have become, or always have been a cynical wisea$$, comments like that give me pause and stir the microkernel of empathy in my empty head/heart.

Don't you believe what you just said - you just haven't met the right guy (or gal) yet. It is possible he (or she) doesn't exist or got scooped up already...

Maybe this is wrong: You go looking for your dream car, and you have tons of "must-haves" but cannot for the life of you find THAT car. IT might be time to widdle down that list.

If it looks like you friend, your sister, whatever is in a happy, blissful, tv-style marriage - they probably ain't really, they just work really hard TOGETHER to make it work. Some have to put tons of effort into it, some just click. I have one friend like that - him and his wife just clicked. You would think they are brother and sister they are so alike...I'll stop rambling and go to sleep now. Cheer up!

Don't agree with THAT lunatic! Deep down inside, I don't want to believe that. Maybe I have had that awakening or mid-life crisis that folks talk about, but I don't want to die alone. If you choose to be alone I guess that's one thing, but you have to admit = sharing a decent life with someone you love is however better (.0003%? - 100%) than living it alone.

as long as i dont have to cuddle afterwards

I don't see what the problem is being alone? At least I can come and go as I please and I am not accountable to anyone. I tried sharing my life with guys but they are all way too demanding. As I said relationships are way too much work. I want to come home at the end of the day; I don't want to deal with anyone or their problems. I also like having my bed to myself. There are positive sides to being single. Besides; just because I am not coupled up doesn't mean I am alone. I have family and friends so I am never truly alone.

Being single is synonymous with being free for me. This last go around I found that whenever I truly get into someone else I cease being myself. It was just so evident even to me which is saying a lot. I was willing to change for the relationship and did so much that I felt trapped. Thankfully she released me. It feels good to be my old self, again. I will be studying that loss of my identity.

he apparently was forget ful twice because he didn't make mine either, but we are not worthless...we are WOMAN....watch us ROAR! lol

God marked us strong enough to find out own boyfriends I guess.....frankly, however, I am not sure I want one of the buggers at this point

Gud

of course n this is supposed to be an adult site

I am working on Not being single.