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Topic: --- Why are you still single? ---
newarkjw Joined Sun 05/25/08 Posts: 17172	Sat 05/19/12 12:00 AM
Why do you think you are single? Lord I was married for 24 years. I have done my time........ I don't mean not being single means being married. I've had the same ball and chain so I can relate. I'll rephrase the question. Why do you think you don't have a girlfriend/boyfriend? Do you blame others or could it be something about yourself? Damn you ask alot of questions. Your not CIA are ya? I told the cops I didn't have nothing to do with that chit. That was Johnny from down the street doing that....... I've been taking notes from singmesweet Just having a little fun brother. I don't mean no harm......

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Sat 05/19/12 12:01 AM
I have too many problems right now. Best wishes for a full recovery. I do hope you find someone special along the way if that's in the cards. Don't give up Thanks. It will just take time.

mg1959 Joined Thu 04/05/07 Posts: 7872	Sat 05/19/12 12:02 AM
Why do you think you are single? Lord I was married for 24 years. I have done my time........ I don't mean not being single means being married. I've had the same ball and chain so I can relate. I'll rephrase the question. Why do you think you don't have a girlfriend/boyfriend? Do you blame others or could it be something about yourself? Damn you ask alot of questions. Your not CIA are ya? I told the cops I didn't have nothing to do with that chit. That was Johnny from down the street doing that....... I've been taking notes from singmesweet LOL, poor thing. She is gaining quite the reputation for being "the interrogator".

HawaiiMusikMan Joined Sat 11/08/08 Posts: 3548	Sat 05/19/12 12:05 AM
Why do you think you are single? Lord I was married for 24 years. I have done my time........ I don't mean not being single means being married. I've had the same ball and chain so I can relate. I'll rephrase the question. Why do you think you don't have a girlfriend/boyfriend? Do you blame others or could it be something about yourself? Damn you ask alot of questions. Your not CIA are ya? I told the cops I didn't have nothing to do with that chit. That was Johnny from down the street doing that....... I've been taking notes from singmesweet LOL, poor thing. She is gaining quite the reputation for being "the interrogator". Yes, I know.... It was a bit of an inside joke

HawaiiMusikMan Joined Sat 11/08/08 Posts: 3548	Sat 05/19/12 12:15 AM
Why do you think you are single? Lord I was married for 24 years. I have done my time........ I don't mean not being single means being married. I've had the same ball and chain so I can relate. I'll rephrase the question. Why do you think you don't have a girlfriend/boyfriend? Do you blame others or could it be something about yourself? Damn you ask alot of questions. Your not CIA are ya? I told the cops I didn't have nothing to do with that chit. That was Johnny from down the street doing that....... I've been taking notes from singmesweet Just having a little fun brother. I don't mean no harm...... No harm taken bro. If we can't have a bit of fun on here there's no reason to be here. Being CIA would be kinda cool though

HawaiiMusikMan Joined Sat 11/08/08 Posts: 3548	Sat 05/19/12 12:29 AM
im not right for anyone If this was an honest answer, I don't believe it. Time will prove you wrong

HawaiiMusikMan Joined Sat 11/08/08 Posts: 3548	Sat 05/19/12 12:32 AM Edited by HawaiiMusikMan on Sat 05/19/12 12:37 AM
Because whether I tend to push potential prospects away because of trust and insecurity issues. I'm in the same boat. I wish I was more confidant and trusting

HawaiiMusikMan Joined Sat 11/08/08 Posts: 3548	Sat 05/19/12 12:41 AM
Probably cos i don't put out on a first date. I could change that

HawaiiMusikMan Joined Sat 11/08/08 Posts: 3548	Sat 05/19/12 12:43 AM
Why???????? cause no one wants me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You may find yourself surprised.

HawaiiMusikMan Joined Sat 11/08/08 Posts: 3548	Sat 05/19/12 12:47 AM
Because I haven't found the one that I can't live without. I have my boundaries and so far, no one has fit. Neither have I. Lets hope we both find what we're looking for

HawaiiMusikMan Joined Sat 11/08/08 Posts: 3548	Sat 05/19/12 12:51 AM
I'm sure you've had friends, colleagues, family, ask you this question. Why do you think you are single? Because my late wife is still dead. Yea, that throws a monkey wrench in things, but that doesn't mean you can't love again and I hope that is in store for you

mscherbear Joined Fri 03/07/08 Posts: 15111	Sat 05/19/12 12:55 AM
I don't know. I'm beginning to think its just the way I'm meant to be

HawaiiMusikMan Joined Sat 11/08/08 Posts: 3548	Sat 05/19/12 01:03 AM
I don't know. I'm beginning to think its just the way I'm meant to be I am a little bit younger than you, almost thirty, but have come to the same conclusion. Hopefully for us it's not true and we will find someone who's right for us. Don't give up cause I'm trying not to

Chloe23Irish Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 717	Sat 05/19/12 01:03 AM
Beacause I don't want to send messages, write letters or explain why I am not home yet. Because I do not want someone calling wanting to know what I am doing or where I am. Because I like holding my own destiny and doing things on my own time line. Because I am not real good at taking orders or compromising on situations anymore. And dangit if I wanna buy a kayak or something I enjoy doing I don't want to ask someone else if that's okay with them......because I just don't wanna I love this

HawaiiMusikMan Joined Sat 11/08/08 Posts: 3548	Sat 05/19/12 01:15 AM
Why do you think you are single? Lord I was married for 24 years. I have done my time........ I don't mean not being single means being married. I've had the same ball and chain so I can relate. I'll rephrase the question. Why do you think you don't have a girlfriend/boyfriend? Do you blame others or could it be something about yourself? Damn you ask alot of questions. Your not CIA are ya? I told the cops I didn't have nothing to do with that chit. That was Johnny from down the street doing that....... I've been taking notes from singmesweet LOL, poor thing. She is gaining quite the reputation for being "the interrogator". Playboy living in Vegas.... what's your excuse?

Chloe23Irish Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 717	Sat 05/19/12 01:20 AM
I'm sure you've had friends, colleagues, family, ask you this question. Why do you think you are single? Cause Michael Bublé hasn't met me yet

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Sat 05/19/12 01:45 AM
I'm sure you've had friends, colleagues, family, ask you this question. Why do you think you are single? Cause Michael Bublé hasn't met me yet lol

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Sat 05/19/12 01:46 AM
...because Im trying to DECREASE the number of people/responsibilities I have in my life

Rawrr_Girl Joined Sun 10/04/09 Posts: 4431	Sat 05/19/12 01:56 AM
Probably cos i don't put out on a first date. Some of us men don't move that quickly. Hey? Ha ha :) Actually, what with me being a very jokey person, I was kidding when I wrote that. I know better than to take life that seriously :D

brendajo33 Joined Mon 05/07/12 Posts: 5	Sat 05/19/12 02:36 AM
im not right for anyone thats why im single im not a cookie cut person.. im diffrent and guys seem to like cookies all the same!! im ok with it tho.. im sure theres someone out there thats diffrent too :)