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I always preferred the FWB thing until I met the ex hubby! The most recent ex was only suppose to go that far & turned into an LTR.
I totally agree with singme...bring on the non-clingy, just wanna have a little fun guys! Drink a little drink, smoke a little smoke, let me leave you with a smile... 
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My opinion alot of women want something real and genuine and not be treated like a sex object, woman want to be treated with class and respect, we are not dogmeat. Absolutely agree with you. I personally find the FWB quite degrading. I figure I deserve better than that. 
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dude, women are not turned off by fwb deals. they just can't post approval on a general forum. can you imagine all the horn dogs emailing for a hook up dude, you are probably the horn dog sending nasty emails dude, look who's talking, get back to perving dude, i just perved you. so there |
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I agree with singmesweet and sweetestgirl here. Personally, I hate it when women say they want a commitment, and then proceed just to use me for sex. I mean, what do I do? I can't hide my package. And I feel downright uncomfortable when women stare there. How rude is it when you talk to a woman, and she's not looking at your eyes, but at your junk. There have been times when I have said, "Hey, cowgirl, my eyes are up here." So ladies, don't treat me like your little sex toy. I'm a man, a sexy man, but a man nonetheless. I have a mind. And I'm a lot more than a package with energy. Hey Cupcake! We still on for next week right? |
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fwb is perfect while ur still looking for the one..u must break off the benifit part if u meet the ONE.some people may only have time,effort,desire to be in a relationship.takes work to keep relationships healty and strong.takes a phone call to friend to be a friend and benifit whenever possible,hard to **** up friendship,easy to ruin relationships.who doesnt have complaints about their relationship their in?Who has complaint about their fwb?besides wanting to be more than friends.To each his own.Different strokes for different folks.
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fwb is perfect while ur still looking for the one..u must break off the benifit part if u meet the ONE.some people may only have time,effort,desire to be in a relationship.takes work to keep relationships healty and strong.takes a phone call to friend to be a friend and benifit whenever possible,hard to **** up friendship,easy to ruin relationships.who doesnt have complaints about their relationship their in?Who has complaint about their fwb?besides wanting to be more than friends.To each his own.Different strokes for different folks. it is still not a good idea for a woman to concede or accept a FWB situation because he usually ends up with someone else - you r exactly right FWB sends the message to her that she is not the ONE and won't be as I seldom see FWB graduate into a relationship problem is a lot of women hope or think they will and sometimes it's because a man has misrepresented things - and sometimes it's because she's hearing what she wants to hear but I maintain my buyer beware and we shouldn't agree to FWB unless we don't mind being used - I agree w/ NavyGirl on this one |
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fwb is perfect while ur still looking for the one..u must break off the benifit part if u meet the ONE.some people may only have time,effort,desire to be in a relationship.takes work to keep relationships healty and strong.takes a phone call to friend to be a friend and benifit whenever possible,hard to **** up friendship,easy to ruin relationships.who doesnt have complaints about their relationship their in?Who has complaint about their fwb?besides wanting to be more than friends.To each his own.Different strokes for different folks. it is still not a good idea for a woman to concede or accept a FWB situation because he usually ends up with someone else - you r exactly right FWB sends the message to her that she is not the ONE and won't be as I seldom see FWB graduate into a relationship problem is a lot of women hope or think they will and sometimes it's because a man has misrepresented things - and sometimes it's because she's hearing what she wants to hear but I maintain my buyer beware and we shouldn't agree to FWB unless we don't mind being used - I agree w/ NavyGirl on this one I think better said that if the women in this FWB really wants to be "the one" for the man in the FWB...then she shoulc not accept! I have never been hurt by my FWBs and was happy when they did find suitable mates. FWB is not designed to result in a LTR...it's simply 2 lonely friends helping each other out (generally sexual, but I have known a few that just wanted some cuddling). It is a given that neither one is "the one" for the other or we'd have started a relationship instead of the FWB! |
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fwb is perfect while ur still looking for the one..u must break off the benifit part if u meet the ONE.some people may only have time,effort,desire to be in a relationship.takes work to keep relationships healty and strong.takes a phone call to friend to be a friend and benifit whenever possible,hard to **** up friendship,easy to ruin relationships.who doesnt have complaints about their relationship their in?Who has complaint about their fwb?besides wanting to be more than friends.To each his own.Different strokes for different folks. it is still not a good idea for a woman to concede or accept a FWB situation because he usually ends up with someone else - you r exactly right FWB sends the message to her that she is not the ONE and won't be as I seldom see FWB graduate into a relationship problem is a lot of women hope or think they will and sometimes it's because a man has misrepresented things - and sometimes it's because she's hearing what she wants to hear but I maintain my buyer beware and we shouldn't agree to FWB unless we don't mind being used - I agree w/ NavyGirl on this one I think better said that if the women in this FWB really wants to be "the one" for the man in the FWB...then she shoulc not accept! I have never been hurt by my FWBs and was happy when they did find suitable mates. FWB is not designed to result in a LTR...it's simply 2 lonely friends helping each other out (generally sexual, but I have known a few that just wanted some cuddling). It is a given that neither one is "the one" for the other or we'd have started a relationship instead of the FWB! yes if those are acceptable terms, that is between the people involved but where I think the problems come in is when a guy obtains sex by deception firefly my experience with this hasn't been positive and I do feel I deserve better - to me the convenience thing is just a cop out as a justification - a real man doesn't mind putting the necessary effort into courtship - as u can see I just really don't like it on many levels I also don't really trust men who advocate FWB. I think they're users who want something for nothing- but that's me- I agree tho we are all entitled to our opinions and what works best for us |
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I always preferred the FWB thing until I met the ex hubby! The most recent ex was only suppose to go that far & turned into an LTR. I totally agree with singme...bring on the non-clingy, just wanna have a little fun guys! Drink a little drink, smoke a little smoke, let me leave you with a smile...
Always willing to put a big smile on a beautiful face!  
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FWB is not about distrust or wanting to start a relationship with ur fwb.its a situation where both people feel comfortabe with the only friend and only benefit part of it.go out have good time together and feel comfortable with that person to enjoy some benefits for both people and specifically not wanting or needing any thing more from the other friend.if ur ready to find a mate for relationship status then go look else where not in the friend.it wasnt meant to be in the first place.pretty simple.
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we are not dogmeat. And no one to my knowledge considers dog meat a sexual object. What a disgusting fetish that would be.
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I always preferred the FWB thing until I met the ex hubby! The most recent ex was only suppose to go that far & turned into an LTR. I totally agree with singme...bring on the non-clingy, just wanna have a little fun guys! Drink a little drink, smoke a little smoke, let me leave you with a smile...
Always willing to put a big smile on a beautiful face!
sweetest...I would likely feel the same if I had bad experiences! The experiences I have had were not with any strangers looking for an FWB either, but real friends that I have had! There was no deception involved..."hey I'm single & you're single, wanna help each other out?" It's never ruined a friendship for me, nor caused any issues in our other relationships. It's more about trusting them with more about yourself rather than creating distrust. Sometimes we are not ready for relationships & also don't like one-nighters with strangers...FWB is a happy medium! |
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dude, women are not turned off by fwb deals. they just can't post approval on a general forum. can you imagine all the horn dogs emailing for a hook up dude, you are probably the horn dog sending nasty emails dude, look who's talking, get back to perving dude, i just perved you. so there dude, perved you back, nanny nanny nanny |
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That boy ain't right
 
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The way I see it is if you want a FWB then go for it. Some can deal with it some can not...
Myself I'm looking for a bit more then that.. Some do it while looking for a LTR and some do it cause they don't want to be tide down..... I just feel that if your looking for FWB then at least make it known to the other person involved..... 
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FWB is not about distrust or wanting to start a relationship with ur fwb.its a situation where both people feel comfortabe with the only friend and only benefit part of it.go out have good time together and feel comfortable with that person to enjoy some benefits for both people and specifically not wanting or needing any thing more from the other friend.if ur ready to find a mate for relationship status then go look else where not in the friend.it wasnt meant to be in the first place.pretty simple. pretty naieve and unrealistic friends don't do that to each other and fortunately ur not one of mine - at least not on those terms |
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I think that a relationship is the most important. You can work on everything else later.
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Some People are for FWB if the FRIEND is in that. I have several lady friends that feel very comfortable calling me and I them when we want to be touched and the intimacy is good because we are first and foremost friends.
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I agree with singmesweet and sweetestgirl here. Personally, I hate it when women say they want a commitment, and then proceed just to use me for sex. I mean, what do I do? I can't hide my package. And I feel downright uncomfortable when women stare there. How rude is it when you talk to a woman, and she's not looking at your eyes, but at your junk. There have been times when I have said, "Hey, cowgirl, my eyes are up here." So ladies, don't treat me like your little sex toy. I'm a man, a sexy man, but a man nonetheless. I have a mind. And I'm a lot more than a package with energy.  Shiki-- you mean you have EYES?? WOW Sorry never noticed before.
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fwb is perfect while ur still looking for the one..u must break off the benifit part if u meet the ONE.some people may only have time,effort,desire to be in a relationship.takes work to keep relationships healty and strong.takes a phone call to friend to be a friend and benifit whenever possible,hard to **** up friendship,easy to ruin relationships.who doesnt have complaints about their relationship their in?Who has complaint about their fwb?besides wanting to be more than friends.To each his own.Different strokes for different folks. it is still not a good idea for a woman to concede or accept a FWB situation because he usually ends up with someone else - you r exactly right FWB sends the message to her that she is not the ONE and won't be as I seldom see FWB graduate into a relationship problem is a lot of women hope or think they will and sometimes it's because a man has misrepresented things - and sometimes it's because she's hearing what she wants to hear but I maintain my buyer beware and we shouldn't agree to FWB unless we don't mind being used - I agree w/ NavyGirl on this one I think better said that if the women in this FWB really wants to be "the one" for the man in the FWB...then she shoulc not accept! I have never been hurt by my FWBs and was happy when they did find suitable mates. FWB is not designed to result in a LTR...it's simply 2 lonely friends helping each other out (generally sexual, but I have known a few that just wanted some cuddling). It is a given that neither one is "the one" for the other or we'd have started a relationship instead of the FWB! yes if those are acceptable terms, that is between the people involved but where I think the problems come in is when a guy obtains sex by deception firefly my experience with this hasn't been positive and I do feel I deserve better - to me the convenience thing is just a cop out as a justification - a real man doesn't mind putting the necessary effort into courtship - as u can see I just really don't like it on many levels I also don't really trust men who advocate FWB. I think they're users who want something for nothing- but that's me- I agree tho we are all entitled to our opinions and what works best for us If both people go into the FWB situation being honest about what it's about, there is no deception. I see no problem with it if both people are not looking for something long term with each other and just want to have some fun. |
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