Happy Birthday.

Basic consideration goes both ways. No one can truly control who they are attracted to. A lot of "Nice guys" will be patient and want to see if things develop naturally, as you get to know each other. If he is asking you out for drinks, then dinners and eventually away for the weekend, he is probably not looking to be just friends.

If he's not your type, have the consideration to tell him and not expect him to be there every time you need something. If he's interested and you're not he isn't going to meet someone else if you want him around as a friend all the time. And he definitely doesn't want to be the shoulder you use when the guy you are sleeping with treats you like crap.

We may be rare but there are a few, like myself, that never watch sports on TV. I doubt I could name 5 players and the sport they play. Can't understand why I should watch someone, that makes a fortune, playing games. There is too much that I can enjoy doing myself.

Perhaps I am one of the illuminati's early versions?

An alternate for #1 I have the body of a God, unfortunately that God is Buddha.

As one of the "good men", that has just spent the last two years cleaning up after a "Bad boy", I would like to say that this approach is usually a sure way to the "Friend Zone". If you are looking to be more than just a friend, and she shows no interest of being more than that in a reasonable period of time, move on.

You can still be friends, but don't put her needs ahead of your own, hoping she will come around. This will only end up with you getting hurt and eventually the friendship ending, probably badly.

Just my opinion.

I thought Goofy was the reason Mickey divorced Minnie. The judge said he couldn't grant a divorce because Minnie acting silly. Mickey replied, " I didn't say acting silly, I said she was doing Goofy"

I use to love her, by Guns and Roses.

With a couple of them there was some physical contact, hugging and kissing, that seemed to me to be more than just friendly. The "afraid it will ruin the friendship" line, would only come out when the topic of sex would come up.

When I was asking them out for drinks, dinner, and eventually in most cases away for the weekend I wasn't thinking that was just trying to be friends.

When a woman is calling everyday and wanting to spend time together a few times a week I would think that most guys would think there was more than just a friendly interest there. I was honest about my wanting to be more than just friends. The ones that were honest with me are still friends.

If a guy walks away because the physical doesn't happen soon enough, he's a player or he was only after one thing. If he respects her, gets to know her and waits for the right time, he's a nice guy and "just a friend". Let's face it, you women have all the control. Just be honest and tell us it's never going to happen as soon as you know it (usually within the first 15 min.) and save us all a lot of trouble.

From someone that has managed to land firmly in the "Friend Zone" for most of the last 20 years, and who has always thought that the perfect relationship would happen by falling in love with my best friend, let me see if I can try to explain it.

I have been involved with 3 women since my divorce almost 20 years ago. I never intended to become "just friends" with any of these women at the start. I met them, flirted with them, asked them out for drinks then dinner etc. I got to know them and they got to know me. I never pushed them for intimacy, I wanted it to happen naturally. The more time we spent together, the closer we became, until we were talking almost every day. In almost all cases they would start telling me and others that I was their "Best Friend".

Then when we would start to get involved physically, the brakes would come on and I would here that dreaded phrase, " I don't want it to ruin our friendship." Eventually they would become involved with another guy, that wasn't their "Best Friend" and when he treated her like crap, she would come running back to cry on my shoulder.

In all of those situations the friendship ended. If they find someone that they are interested in romantically, the chances of remaining "Best Friends" with someone of the opposite sex and their partner accepting it is slim. The simple fact is that once involved with someone else the friendship is sure to drift apart, not necessarily end but change.

If a physical relationship develops with someone that is already your best friend, and the physical part is good, it seems to me that the friendship will only become stronger.

That is why I have been single for so long.

Holly!

Hopefully they got married in a "Community property" State and she can take the selfish loser for half of everything he's got.

He saw it, just chose to ignore it! Happens all the time. It's ok though. I always have the voices in my head to keep me company. If they try to ignore me I poke them with a pencil through my ear.

I would reply, but you haven't been here long enough! Besides every one hear just ignores whatever I say anyway.

Very Hot!

Hope you have a wonderful Birthday!

A very satisfied smile!

Sizzling!!!

The time I went to give my friend a hug and peck on the cheek, to say good night. She turned and instead of her cheek our lips met and we spent the next two hours in each others arms.

I noticed!