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Topic: Why is it so hard for a older women
oldsage's photo
Wed 03/09/11 11:03 AM





Well well well...

Here we have Indianadave4 generalizing all mature women, thinking we're all obese unattractive people.


Nevr said ALL. However, when viewing profiles in my area the count is around 40-50%.

Generalizations: you mean like the one that women use that "ALL MEN" want is sex? Not all women are excessively overweight. In fact it seems that many of the BBW women can only see two sizes of women:

1. BBW's
2. Anerexic Barbie's

There are a whole lot of sizes in between. There are women who haven't taken care of themselves and yet they try to verbally emasculate men who have tried to take care of themselves. Many say they are happy the way they are. That's their choice: just stop verbally abusing men because we don't find obesity attractive.
Yes, at my age women will have a (real) FEW extra pounds and a few wrinkles. This is not a problem. It's when the weight becomes exccessive that it becomes unattractive and no amount of appealing to "just go by personality" will change human nature. Most men and, yes, women want someone who they are somewhat physically attracted to.



Ok....I double dog dare you to read my profile and find one time in there where I generalize,emasculate, itemize or put any restrictions whatsoever on a man...also tell me where I have posted an old photo or lied about myself in anyway. Not all men lie about themselves, neither do all women...but when either one starts all this complaining B.S. it's not hard to understand ONE reason they are still single....again...jmoflowerforyou


In """general""" women who are obese are the biggest complainers towards men who don't accept their fat as beautiful. Maybe you are ONE who hasn't but there are plenty here and on other sites wo do this. The topic is is Why is it so Hard for Oler Women. Well maybe women should listen to men instead of constantly complain. I'll repeatyour comment, "it's not hard to understand ONE reason they are still single". The older women get the more they compain about men.



laugh laugh laugh laugh

I will be 64 in a couple of months....I'm not complaining about men...and I know many women on this site AND others who aren't either. I would like to think that women and men listen to the other and not complain about every little thing. It's easy to do that on sites like these..we have so much freedom to say what we have on our mind and who cares, for nobody knows us anyway.:wink:

I understand your aversion to someone being obese.But some of these women and men have no control over it..I said SOME...and the ones I know who are obese, have poor self esteem. Very few are happy with their bodies. Maybe what you are missing is NOT them wanting you to like their bodies, but see them for who they REALLY are. Most large men and women have beautiful facial features, and they have a MIND...they can and do care about the world at large and other people. Being obese doesn't make them bad people. Maybe the fault lies within yourself, not the OLDER obese people. JMO of courseflowerforyou




My God, she can hit the nail on the head; in such a nice manner.

Viv, keep up the good work.

vivian2981's photo
Wed 03/09/11 01:46 PM






Well well well...

Here we have Indianadave4 generalizing all mature women, thinking we're all obese unattractive people.


Nevr said ALL. However, when viewing profiles in my area the count is around 40-50%.

Generalizations: you mean like the one that women use that "ALL MEN" want is sex? Not all women are excessively overweight. In fact it seems that many of the BBW women can only see two sizes of women:

1. BBW's
2. Anerexic Barbie's

There are a whole lot of sizes in between. There are women who haven't taken care of themselves and yet they try to verbally emasculate men who have tried to take care of themselves. Many say they are happy the way they are. That's their choice: just stop verbally abusing men because we don't find obesity attractive.
Yes, at my age women will have a (real) FEW extra pounds and a few wrinkles. This is not a problem. It's when the weight becomes exccessive that it becomes unattractive and no amount of appealing to "just go by personality" will change human nature. Most men and, yes, women want someone who they are somewhat physically attracted to.



Ok....I double dog dare you to read my profile and find one time in there where I generalize,emasculate, itemize or put any restrictions whatsoever on a man...also tell me where I have posted an old photo or lied about myself in anyway. Not all men lie about themselves, neither do all women...but when either one starts all this complaining B.S. it's not hard to understand ONE reason they are still single....again...jmoflowerforyou


In """general""" women who are obese are the biggest complainers towards men who don't accept their fat as beautiful. Maybe you are ONE who hasn't but there are plenty here and on other sites wo do this. The topic is is Why is it so Hard for Oler Women. Well maybe women should listen to men instead of constantly complain. I'll repeatyour comment, "it's not hard to understand ONE reason they are still single". The older women get the more they compain about men.



laugh laugh laugh laugh

I will be 64 in a couple of months....I'm not complaining about men...and I know many women on this site AND others who aren't either. I would like to think that women and men listen to the other and not complain about every little thing. It's easy to do that on sites like these..we have so much freedom to say what we have on our mind and who cares, for nobody knows us anyway.:wink:

I understand your aversion to someone being obese.But some of these women and men have no control over it..I said SOME...and the ones I know who are obese, have poor self esteem. Very few are happy with their bodies. Maybe what you are missing is NOT them wanting you to like their bodies, but see them for who they REALLY are. Most large men and women have beautiful facial features, and they have a MIND...they can and do care about the world at large and other people. Being obese doesn't make them bad people. Maybe the fault lies within yourself, not the OLDER obese people. JMO of courseflowerforyou




My God, she can hit the nail on the head; in such a nice manner.

Viv, keep up the good work.

flowers flowers Hey Don!

metalwing's photo
Wed 03/09/11 03:12 PM




Ok....I double dog dare you to read my profile and find one time in there where I generalize,emasculate, itemize or put any restrictions whatsoever on a man...also tell me where I have posted an old photo or lied about myself in anyway. Not all men lie about themselves, neither do all women...but when either one starts all this complaining B.S. it's not hard to understand ONE reason they are still single....again...jmoflowerforyou


What about that photo of you and that silly fake fish that you are pretending to catch!!!!:tongue:

no photo
Wed 03/09/11 03:15 PM





Ok....I double dog dare you to read my profile and find one time in there where I generalize,emasculate, itemize or put any restrictions whatsoever on a man...also tell me where I have posted an old photo or lied about myself in anyway. Not all men lie about themselves, neither do all women...but when either one starts all this complaining B.S. it's not hard to understand ONE reason they are still single....again...jmoflowerforyou


What about that photo of you and that silly fake fish that you are pretending to catch!!!!:tongue:
laugh laugh

oldsage's photo
Wed 03/09/11 04:30 PM







Well well well...

Here we have Indianadave4 generalizing all mature women, thinking we're all obese unattractive people.


Nevr said ALL. However, when viewing profiles in my area the count is around 40-50%.

Generalizations: you mean like the one that women use that "ALL MEN" want is sex? Not all women are excessively overweight. In fact it seems that many of the BBW women can only see two sizes of women:

1. BBW's
2. Anerexic Barbie's

There are a whole lot of sizes in between. There are women who haven't taken care of themselves and yet they try to verbally emasculate men who have tried to take care of themselves. Many say they are happy the way they are. That's their choice: just stop verbally abusing men because we don't find obesity attractive.
Yes, at my age women will have a (real) FEW extra pounds and a few wrinkles. This is not a problem. It's when the weight becomes exccessive that it becomes unattractive and no amount of appealing to "just go by personality" will change human nature. Most men and, yes, women want someone who they are somewhat physically attracted to.



Ok....I double dog dare you to read my profile and find one time in there where I generalize,emasculate, itemize or put any restrictions whatsoever on a man...also tell me where I have posted an old photo or lied about myself in anyway. Not all men lie about themselves, neither do all women...but when either one starts all this complaining B.S. it's not hard to understand ONE reason they are still single....again...jmoflowerforyou


In """general""" women who are obese are the biggest complainers towards men who don't accept their fat as beautiful. Maybe you are ONE who hasn't but there are plenty here and on other sites wo do this. The topic is is Why is it so Hard for Oler Women. Well maybe women should listen to men instead of constantly complain. I'll repeatyour comment, "it's not hard to understand ONE reason they are still single". The older women get the more they compain about men.



laugh laugh laugh laugh

I will be 64 in a couple of months....I'm not complaining about men...and I know many women on this site AND others who aren't either. I would like to think that women and men listen to the other and not complain about every little thing. It's easy to do that on sites like these..we have so much freedom to say what we have on our mind and who cares, for nobody knows us anyway.:wink:

I understand your aversion to someone being obese.But some of these women and men have no control over it..I said SOME...and the ones I know who are obese, have poor self esteem. Very few are happy with their bodies. Maybe what you are missing is NOT them wanting you to like their bodies, but see them for who they REALLY are. Most large men and women have beautiful facial features, and they have a MIND...they can and do care about the world at large and other people. Being obese doesn't make them bad people. Maybe the fault lies within yourself, not the OLDER obese people. JMO of courseflowerforyou




My God, she can hit the nail on the head; in such a nice manner.

Viv, keep up the good work.

flowers flowers Hey Don!



Viv is giving me flowers??
Rumours of my death, are gross lies.
Only the good die YOUNG, so I am living forever.

vivian2981's photo
Wed 03/09/11 04:53 PM








Well well well...

Here we have Indianadave4 generalizing all mature women, thinking we're all obese unattractive people.


Nevr said ALL. However, when viewing profiles in my area the count is around 40-50%.

Generalizations: you mean like the one that women use that "ALL MEN" want is sex? Not all women are excessively overweight. In fact it seems that many of the BBW women can only see two sizes of women:

1. BBW's
2. Anerexic Barbie's

There are a whole lot of sizes in between. There are women who haven't taken care of themselves and yet they try to verbally emasculate men who have tried to take care of themselves. Many say they are happy the way they are. That's their choice: just stop verbally abusing men because we don't find obesity attractive.
Yes, at my age women will have a (real) FEW extra pounds and a few wrinkles. This is not a problem. It's when the weight becomes exccessive that it becomes unattractive and no amount of appealing to "just go by personality" will change human nature. Most men and, yes, women want someone who they are somewhat physically attracted to.



Ok....I double dog dare you to read my profile and find one time in there where I generalize,emasculate, itemize or put any restrictions whatsoever on a man...also tell me where I have posted an old photo or lied about myself in anyway. Not all men lie about themselves, neither do all women...but when either one starts all this complaining B.S. it's not hard to understand ONE reason they are still single....again...jmoflowerforyou


In """general""" women who are obese are the biggest complainers towards men who don't accept their fat as beautiful. Maybe you are ONE who hasn't but there are plenty here and on other sites wo do this. The topic is is Why is it so Hard for Oler Women. Well maybe women should listen to men instead of constantly complain. I'll repeatyour comment, "it's not hard to understand ONE reason they are still single". The older women get the more they compain about men.



laugh laugh laugh laugh

I will be 64 in a couple of months....I'm not complaining about men...and I know many women on this site AND others who aren't either. I would like to think that women and men listen to the other and not complain about every little thing. It's easy to do that on sites like these..we have so much freedom to say what we have on our mind and who cares, for nobody knows us anyway.:wink:

I understand your aversion to someone being obese.But some of these women and men have no control over it..I said SOME...and the ones I know who are obese, have poor self esteem. Very few are happy with their bodies. Maybe what you are missing is NOT them wanting you to like their bodies, but see them for who they REALLY are. Most large men and women have beautiful facial features, and they have a MIND...they can and do care about the world at large and other people. Being obese doesn't make them bad people. Maybe the fault lies within yourself, not the OLDER obese people. JMO of courseflowerforyou




My God, she can hit the nail on the head; in such a nice manner.

Viv, keep up the good work.

flowers flowers Hey Don!



Viv is giving me flowers??
Rumours of my death, are gross lies.
Only the good die YOUNG, so I am living forever.


I did hear that rumor...but you'll live awhile longer...the flowers were for the nice words.


oldsage's photo
Wed 03/09/11 05:13 PM
Nice words from me, would ruin my reputation.

You must have misunderstood.

pitchfork pitchfork rofl rofl :thumbsup: waving

vivian2981's photo
Thu 03/10/11 02:45 PM





Ok....I double dog dare you to read my profile and find one time in there where I generalize,emasculate, itemize or put any restrictions whatsoever on a man...also tell me where I have posted an old photo or lied about myself in anyway. Not all men lie about themselves, neither do all women...but when either one starts all this complaining B.S. it's not hard to understand ONE reason they are still single....again...jmoflowerforyou


What about that photo of you and that silly fake fish that you are pretending to catch!!!!:tongue:


FAKE FISH!!!!rant rant I have you to know that was a REAL FISH!!!rant rant and I have witnessesrant rant rant !!!!
We need a jumping up and down hopping mad smilie...laugh

oldsage's photo
Thu 03/10/11 02:47 PM
DO NOT GET HER MAD, I hear she has a gun & shoots VERY well.

My kind of gal.bigsmile drool flowers slaphead :thumbsup: waving :angel:

winterblue56's photo
Fri 03/11/11 02:28 PM

Well well well...

Here we have Indianadave4 generalizing all mature women, thinking we're all obese unattractive people. Also we have Matutum60 thinking all women should fall right into the sack with him..sex only relationships.
Geez, on one hand we're fat, on the other we're sexual toys.....fat....toys.....fat .....toys
rofl rofl rofl rofl gees, both of you grow up and get a life!
jmo of course:angel:




too funny! laugh laugh

winterblue56's photo
Fri 03/11/11 02:48 PM
Oh hi all waving . I've read most of this thread...was very funny in places. I just thought I would give my two cents. $.02 laugh

no photo
Fri 03/11/11 02:53 PM
please continue :tongue:

vivian2981's photo
Fri 03/11/11 03:46 PM

Oh hi all waving . I've read most of this thread...was very funny in places. I just thought I would give my two cents. $.02 laugh


And it is????laugh laugh

Welcome and have fun!flowerforyou

metalwing's photo
Sat 03/19/11 03:44 PM






Ok....I double dog dare you to read my profile and find one time in there where I generalize,emasculate, itemize or put any restrictions whatsoever on a man...also tell me where I have posted an old photo or lied about myself in anyway. Not all men lie about themselves, neither do all women...but when either one starts all this complaining B.S. it's not hard to understand ONE reason they are still single....again...jmoflowerforyou


What about that photo of you and that silly fake fish that you are pretending to catch!!!!:tongue:


FAKE FISH!!!!rant rant I have you to know that was a REAL FISH!!!rant rant and I have witnessesrant rant rant !!!!
We need a jumping up and down hopping mad smilie...laugh



That fish looks like it was cut out out of a Bass Pro Shops ad ... badly.whoa If you know that fish, tell us what it's name was????sad2 spock

agbbieannie's photo
Sat 03/19/11 03:49 PM
flowerforyou Love finds you stop looking for love enjoy life..... Older women are confident. flowerforyou

no photo
Sat 03/19/11 05:29 PM

flowerforyou Love finds you stop looking for love enjoy life..... Older women are confident. flowerforyou
who's looking :wink:

agbbieannie's photo
Sat 03/19/11 06:12 PM
the orginal poster was.

agbbieannie's photo
Sat 03/19/11 06:13 PM
the orginal poster was.

vivian2981's photo
Sat 03/19/11 06:18 PM







Ok....I double dog dare you to read my profile and find one time in there where I generalize,emasculate, itemize or put any restrictions whatsoever on a man...also tell me where I have posted an old photo or lied about myself in anyway. Not all men lie about themselves, neither do all women...but when either one starts all this complaining B.S. it's not hard to understand ONE reason they are still single....again...jmoflowerforyou


What about that photo of you and that silly fake fish that you are pretending to catch!!!!:tongue:


FAKE FISH!!!!rant rant I have you to know that was a REAL FISH!!!rant rant and I have witnessesrant rant rant !!!!
We need a jumping up and down hopping mad smilie...laugh



That fish looks like it was cut out out of a Bass Pro Shops ad ... badly.whoa If you know that fish, tell us what it's name was????sad2 spock


Maxine:tongue:

Sharris's photo
Sat 03/19/11 07:55 PM








Ok....I double dog dare you to read my profile and find one time in there where I generalize,emasculate, itemize or put any restrictions whatsoever on a man...also tell me where I have posted an old photo or lied about myself in anyway. Not all men lie about themselves, neither do all women...but when either one starts all this complaining B.S. it's not hard to understand ONE reason they are still single....again...jmoflowerforyou


What about that photo of you and that silly fake fish that you are pretending to catch!!!!:tongue:


FAKE FISH!!!!rant rant I have you to know that was a REAL FISH!!!rant rant and I have witnessesrant rant rant !!!!
We need a jumping up and down hopping mad smilie...laugh



That fish looks like it was cut out out of a Bass Pro Shops ad ... badly.whoa If you know that fish, tell us what it's name was????sad2 spock


Maxine:tongue:


Maxine...hahaha

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