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BBQ? Yep....aren't we special????Getting BBQ shipped in for our party 
where is the thread for the meet? |
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I think I am a mix of young and older. I don't shop at what are called old people stores, and don't wear my hair like my grandmother.  But I am not much for going out. My house probably smells old as I love antiques.
But really, sex what the h#ll is that? 
Sex is good BBQ!
are you a chef? Not by profession but we won 13th in the world in brisket and 15th in the world in ribs this past weekend! 
we? where? still so close yet so far away.. My cook-off team at the World BBQ Championships at the Houston Livestock and Rodeo going on now. I'm going to send some to Viv for the Mingle Meet. It has never been unwrapped since cooking so I don't know how good it is but hopefully it will be tasty. My Hero 
quite gallant |
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BBQ? Yep....aren't we special????Getting BBQ shipped in for our party
where is the thread for the meet? I'm sorry Sadie...I skipped right over this post.. 
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BBQ? Yep....aren't we special????Getting BBQ shipped in for our party
where is the thread for the meet? I'm sorry Sadie...I skipped right over this post..
got it..checked it out..sounds fun... |
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BBQ? Yep....aren't we special????Getting BBQ shipped in for our party
where is the thread for the meet? I'm sorry Sadie...I skipped right over this post..
got it..checked it out..sounds fun... I'm looking forward to it. 
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"Why is it so hard for a older women" ...we are soft...do not want to be hard.
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"Why is it so hard for a older women" ...we are soft...do not want to be hard. We've had years of "hard" Hared work, Hardship, Hard Lives...some softness would be appreciated at this time of my life. |
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"Why is it so hard for a older women" ...we are soft...do not want to be hard. We've had years of "hard" Hared work, Hardship, Hard Lives...some softness would be appreciated at this time of my life. zackley |
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"Why is it so hard for a older women" ...we are soft...do not want to be hard. We've had years of "hard" Hared work, Hardship, Hard Lives...some softness would be appreciated at this time of my life.  you got it.
Sadie would be nice if you could drive down for the meet. 
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"Why is it so hard for a older women" ...we are soft...do not want to be hard. We've had years of "hard" Hared work, Hardship, Hard Lives...some softness would be appreciated at this time of my life. Tender .... Like a juicy brisket!! |
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"Why is it so hard for a older women" ...we are soft...do not want to be hard. We've had years of "hard" Hared work, Hardship, Hard Lives...some softness would be appreciated at this time of my life. Tender .... Like a juicy brisket!! mmmm mmmm mmmm |
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Im a 50 yr old man and i dated a gril 20 yrs younger once i wasnt looking for her it just kind of happen she was a great gril and i have not one bad thing to say about her i personneely have never loved anybody more than i did her but there is a huge age difference no matter what anybody says you just cNT MAKE IT WORK FREINDS ARE DIRRERNT IDEADA ARE DIFFERNT YOU NAME it it dont work so all you guys out there take it from me go with someone close to your own age you will be alot happeier
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Edited by
CeriseRose
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Sat 03/05/11 02:54 AM
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to find LOVE? Sometimes we have to examine ourselves and take our own inventory. What baggage do we carry from past relationships? Has the previous lover, fully gone/moved on? Are we still in love with someone else and only hoping to temporarily fill 
the empty place that he left. Are we searching for a near match to our Ex. Can we adapt to a lover who is totally different from what we visualized him to be? Are we really READY for love.......with someone else? Are we willing to open the door to our heart to someone new. 
Can we let our guard down? Are we what he needs? Would we be an asset or only a liability? Are we willing to put in the time/the effort? To show him what we're made of ?
Are we truly Ready to commit?
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Im a 50 yr old man and i dated a gril 20 yrs younger once i wasnt looking for her it just kind of happen she was a great gril and i have not one bad thing to say about her i personneely have never loved anybody more than i did her but there is a huge age difference no matter what anybody says you just cNT MAKE IT WORK FREINDS ARE DIRRERNT IDEADA ARE DIFFERNT YOU NAME it it dont work so all you guys out there take it from me go with someone close to your own age you will be alot happeier |
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to find LOVE?  Because its JUST that hard for older guys as well..  
Sometimes in looking,,we all tend to jump to conclusions,,or pre-judge another w/o fully giving them are BEST,,for them and US to realize.....WHO THEY REALLY ARE.... 
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Well well well... Here we have Indianadave4 generalizing all mature women, thinking we're all obese unattractive people. Nevr said ALL. However, when viewing profiles in my area the count is around 40-50%. Generalizations: you mean like the one that women use that "ALL MEN" want is sex? Not all women are excessively overweight. In fact it seems that many of the BBW women can only see two sizes of women: 1. BBW's 2. Anerexic Barbie's There are a whole lot of sizes in between. There are women who haven't taken care of themselves and yet they try to verbally emasculate men who have tried to take care of themselves. Many say they are happy the way they are. That's their choice: just stop verbally abusing men because we don't find obesity attractive. Yes, at my age women will have a (real) FEW extra pounds and a few wrinkles. This is not a problem. It's when the weight becomes exccessive that it becomes unattractive and no amount of appealing to "just go by personality" will change human nature. Most men and, yes, women want someone who they are somewhat physically attracted to. |
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Well well well... Here we have Indianadave4 generalizing all mature women, thinking we're all obese unattractive people. Nevr said ALL. However, when viewing profiles in my area the count is around 40-50%. Generalizations: you mean like the one that women use that "ALL MEN" want is sex? Not all women are excessively overweight. In fact it seems that many of the BBW women can only see two sizes of women: 1. BBW's 2. Anerexic Barbie's There are a whole lot of sizes in between. There are women who haven't taken care of themselves and yet they try to verbally emasculate men who have tried to take care of themselves. Many say they are happy the way they are. That's their choice: just stop verbally abusing men because we don't find obesity attractive. Yes, at my age women will have a (real) FEW extra pounds and a few wrinkles. This is not a problem. It's when the weight becomes exccessive that it becomes unattractive and no amount of appealing to "just go by personality" will change human nature. Most men and, yes, women want someone who they are somewhat physically attracted to. Ok....I double dog dare you to read my profile and find one time in there where I generalize,emasculate, itemize or put any restrictions whatsoever on a man...also tell me where I have posted an old photo or lied about myself in anyway. Not all men lie about themselves, neither do all women...but when either one starts all this complaining B.S. it's not hard to understand ONE reason they are still single....again...jmo
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Well well well... Here we have Indianadave4 generalizing all mature women, thinking we're all obese unattractive people. Nevr said ALL. However, when viewing profiles in my area the count is around 40-50%. Generalizations: you mean like the one that women use that "ALL MEN" want is sex? Not all women are excessively overweight. In fact it seems that many of the BBW women can only see two sizes of women: 1. BBW's 2. Anerexic Barbie's There are a whole lot of sizes in between. There are women who haven't taken care of themselves and yet they try to verbally emasculate men who have tried to take care of themselves. Many say they are happy the way they are. That's their choice: just stop verbally abusing men because we don't find obesity attractive. Yes, at my age women will have a (real) FEW extra pounds and a few wrinkles. This is not a problem. It's when the weight becomes exccessive that it becomes unattractive and no amount of appealing to "just go by personality" will change human nature. Most men and, yes, women want someone who they are somewhat physically attracted to. Ok....I double dog dare you to read my profile and find one time in there where I generalize,emasculate, itemize or put any restrictions whatsoever on a man...also tell me where I have posted an old photo or lied about myself in anyway. Not all men lie about themselves, neither do all women...but when either one starts all this complaining B.S. it's not hard to understand ONE reason they are still single....again...jmo
Give'm hell Viv!!! |
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Well well well... Here we have Indianadave4 generalizing all mature women, thinking we're all obese unattractive people. Nevr said ALL. However, when viewing profiles in my area the count is around 40-50%. Generalizations: you mean like the one that women use that "ALL MEN" want is sex? Not all women are excessively overweight. In fact it seems that many of the BBW women can only see two sizes of women: 1. BBW's 2. Anerexic Barbie's There are a whole lot of sizes in between. There are women who haven't taken care of themselves and yet they try to verbally emasculate men who have tried to take care of themselves. Many say they are happy the way they are. That's their choice: just stop verbally abusing men because we don't find obesity attractive. Yes, at my age women will have a (real) FEW extra pounds and a few wrinkles. This is not a problem. It's when the weight becomes exccessive that it becomes unattractive and no amount of appealing to "just go by personality" will change human nature. Most men and, yes, women want someone who they are somewhat physically attracted to. Ok....I double dog dare you to read my profile and find one time in there where I generalize,emasculate, itemize or put any restrictions whatsoever on a man...also tell me where I have posted an old photo or lied about myself in anyway. Not all men lie about themselves, neither do all women...but when either one starts all this complaining B.S. it's not hard to understand ONE reason they are still single....again...jmo
In """general""" women who are obese are the biggest complainers towards men who don't accept their fat as beautiful. Maybe you are ONE who hasn't but there are plenty here and on other sites wo do this. The topic is is Why is it so Hard for Oler Women. Well maybe women should listen to men instead of constantly complain. I'll repeatyour comment, "it's not hard to understand ONE reason they are still single". The older women get the more they compain about men. |
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Edited by
vivian2981
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Wed 03/09/11 10:25 AM
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Well well well... Here we have Indianadave4 generalizing all mature women, thinking we're all obese unattractive people. Nevr said ALL. However, when viewing profiles in my area the count is around 40-50%. Generalizations: you mean like the one that women use that "ALL MEN" want is sex? Not all women are excessively overweight. In fact it seems that many of the BBW women can only see two sizes of women: 1. BBW's 2. Anerexic Barbie's There are a whole lot of sizes in between. There are women who haven't taken care of themselves and yet they try to verbally emasculate men who have tried to take care of themselves. Many say they are happy the way they are. That's their choice: just stop verbally abusing men because we don't find obesity attractive. Yes, at my age women will have a (real) FEW extra pounds and a few wrinkles. This is not a problem. It's when the weight becomes exccessive that it becomes unattractive and no amount of appealing to "just go by personality" will change human nature. Most men and, yes, women want someone who they are somewhat physically attracted to. Ok....I double dog dare you to read my profile and find one time in there where I generalize,emasculate, itemize or put any restrictions whatsoever on a man...also tell me where I have posted an old photo or lied about myself in anyway. Not all men lie about themselves, neither do all women...but when either one starts all this complaining B.S. it's not hard to understand ONE reason they are still single....again...jmo
In """general""" women who are obese are the biggest complainers towards men who don't accept their fat as beautiful. Maybe you are ONE who hasn't but there are plenty here and on other sites wo do this. The topic is is Why is it so Hard for Oler Women. Well maybe women should listen to men instead of constantly complain. I'll repeatyour comment, "it's not hard to understand ONE reason they are still single". The older women get the more they compain about men. 
I will be 64 in a couple of months....I'm not complaining about men...and I know many women on this site AND others who aren't either. I would like to think that women and men listen to the other and not complain about every little thing. It's easy to do that on sites like these..we have so much freedom to say what we have on our mind and who cares, for nobody knows us anyway.
I understand your aversion to someone being obese.But some of these women and men have no control over it..I said SOME...and the ones I know who are obese, have poor self esteem. Very few are happy with their bodies. Maybe what you are missing is NOT them wanting you to like their bodies, but see them for who they REALLY are. Most large men and women have beautiful facial features, and they have a MIND...they can and do care about the world at large and other people. Being obese doesn't make them bad people. Maybe the fault lies within yourself, not the OLDER obese people. JMO of course
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