Topic: First Date Advice - Add Your Own
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Thu 06/10/10 05:40 PM
definitely primp to make a good impression - for me, that IS me being myself. I'm a manicure and make up girl, and would want a guy who appreciates that - but I agree be urself, absolutely:thumbsup:

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Thu 06/10/10 05:44 PM

be yourself. If you primp and preen yourself to the point that you can't even recognize yourself then how are you to know if they like you at the end of the date for you or for the barbie doll your pretending to be.


I agree with this. Don't do so much more than you will normally that when you do start doing the normal stuff the person feels like you faked them out when you met them.

Dragoness's photo
Thu 06/10/10 05:45 PM
Don't tell them your exes were in jail for murder and haven't quite let you go yet.

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Thu 06/10/10 06:21 PM


be yourself. If you primp and preen yourself to the point that you can't even recognize yourself then how are you to know if they like you at the end of the date for you or for the barbie doll your pretending to be.


I agree with this. Don't do so much more than you will normally that when you do start doing the normal stuff the person feels like you faked them out when you met them.
but my point is I always do ... with very few exceptions. now & then I will have a make up free Saturday

but I never wear sweats - not even to the gym - I change there. And I do think that 1st impression is critical. If u don't make an effort when u are tryin' t oshow ur best that would leaave me thinking "geez, he's going to be a serious slobola in about a month" so to ME - primping to the max is MY comfort zone - I will do I what I wish thank you

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Thu 06/10/10 06:24 PM
Edited by Atlantis75 on Thu 06/10/10 06:25 PM

Don't tell them your exes were in jail for murder and haven't quite let you go yet.


Actually don't even mention exes. That should be a discussion for later, in another date down the road but only if the topic leads to it and it's unavoidable. I had women hanging up on me after talking about my exes.

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Thu 06/10/10 06:24 PM



be yourself. If you primp and preen yourself to the point that you can't even recognize yourself then how are you to know if they like you at the end of the date for you or for the barbie doll your pretending to be.


I agree with this. Don't do so much more than you will normally that when you do start doing the normal stuff the person feels like you faked them out when you met them.
but my point is I always do ... with very few exceptions. now & then I will have a make up free Saturday

but I never wear sweats - not even to the gym - I change there. And I do think that 1st impression is critical. If u don't make an effort when u are tryin' t oshow ur best that would leaave me thinking "geez, he's going to be a serious slobola in about a month" so to ME - primping to the max is MY comfort zone - I will do I what I wish thank you



Most guys will forget a pretty face fairly quick. But someone who makes them think tends to stay in the mind for a good amount of time.

Dragoness's photo
Thu 06/10/10 06:26 PM


Don't tell them your exes were in jail for murder and haven't quite let you go yet.


Actually don't even mention exes. That should be a discussion for later, in another date down the road but only if the topic leads to it and it's unavoidable. I had women hanging up on me after talking about my exes.


I agree.

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Thu 06/10/10 06:27 PM




be yourself. If you primp and preen yourself to the point that you can't even recognize yourself then how are you to know if they like you at the end of the date for you or for the barbie doll your pretending to be.


I agree with this. Don't do so much more than you will normally that when you do start doing the normal stuff the person feels like you faked them out when you met them.
but my point is I always do ... with very few exceptions. now & then I will have a make up free Saturday

but I never wear sweats - not even to the gym - I change there. And I do think that 1st impression is critical. If u don't make an effort when u are tryin' t oshow ur best that would leaave me thinking "geez, he's going to be a serious slobola in about a month" so to ME - primping to the max is MY comfort zone - I will do I what I wish thank you



Most guys will forget a pretty face fairly quick. But someone who makes them think tends to stay in the mind for a good amount of time.
haven't really had much trubble there, but thanks little one

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Thu 06/10/10 06:28 PM





be yourself. If you primp and preen yourself to the point that you can't even recognize yourself then how are you to know if they like you at the end of the date for you or for the barbie doll your pretending to be.


I agree with this. Don't do so much more than you will normally that when you do start doing the normal stuff the person feels like you faked them out when you met them.
but my point is I always do ... with very few exceptions. now & then I will have a make up free Saturday

but I never wear sweats - not even to the gym - I change there. And I do think that 1st impression is critical. If u don't make an effort when u are tryin' t oshow ur best that would leaave me thinking "geez, he's going to be a serious slobola in about a month" so to ME - primping to the max is MY comfort zone - I will do I what I wish thank you



Most guys will forget a pretty face fairly quick. But someone who makes them think tends to stay in the mind for a good amount of time.
haven't really had much trubble there, but thanks little one


hey I may only be 5'5'' but I'm a giant for my family lol

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Thu 06/10/10 06:30 PM



Don't tell them your exes were in jail for murder and haven't quite let you go yet.


Actually don't even mention exes. That should be a discussion for later, in another date down the road but only if the topic leads to it and it's unavoidable. I had women hanging up on me after talking about my exes.


I agree.


so do I. There may be a few times when it is absolutely necessary after you've been together for awhile

but a guy who talks constantly about his ex at any point - just no - if it's a brief mention to clarify something in passing OK but not too often - on a first date? no second date

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Thu 06/10/10 06:32 PM






be yourself. If you primp and preen yourself to the point that you can't even recognize yourself then how are you to know if they like you at the end of the date for you or for the barbie doll your pretending to be.


I agree with this. Don't do so much more than you will normally that when you do start doing the normal stuff the person feels like you faked them out when you met them.
but my point is I always do ... with very few exceptions. now & then I will have a make up free Saturday

but I never wear sweats - not even to the gym - I change there. And I do think that 1st impression is critical. If u don't make an effort when u are tryin' t oshow ur best that would leaave me thinking "geez, he's going to be a serious slobola in about a month" so to ME - primping to the max is MY comfort zone - I will do I what I wish thank you



Most guys will forget a pretty face fairly quick. But someone who makes them think tends to stay in the mind for a good amount of time.
haven't really had much trubble there, but thanks little one


hey I may only be 5'5'' but I'm a giant for my family lol
I am 5-5 too! and I don't think it matters what ur style is u want to be comfortable on that date. Of course I am hoping he will rmember all of the intelligent things I say while he is guessing my bra size....u know how guys are!!!!:laughing:

AmbiantNight's photo
Thu 06/10/10 06:34 PM







be yourself. If you primp and preen yourself to the point that you can't even recognize yourself then how are you to know if they like you at the end of the date for you or for the barbie doll your pretending to be.


I agree with this. Don't do so much more than you will normally that when you do start doing the normal stuff the person feels like you faked them out when you met them.
but my point is I always do ... with very few exceptions. now & then I will have a make up free Saturday

but I never wear sweats - not even to the gym - I change there. And I do think that 1st impression is critical. If u don't make an effort when u are tryin' t oshow ur best that would leaave me thinking "geez, he's going to be a serious slobola in about a month" so to ME - primping to the max is MY comfort zone - I will do I what I wish thank you



Most guys will forget a pretty face fairly quick. But someone who makes them think tends to stay in the mind for a good amount of time.
haven't really had much trubble there, but thanks little one


hey I may only be 5'5'' but I'm a giant for my family lol
I am 5-5 too! and I don't think it matters what ur style is u want to be comfortable on that date. Of course I am hoping he will rmember all of the intelligent things I say while he is guessing my bra size....u know how guys are!!!!:laughing:


eventually I'm going to just wear a shirt that say "38D ok now are there any other questions?"

FearandLoathing's photo
Thu 06/10/10 06:35 PM
--. Always number dating advice. Who screwed up?

Dragoness's photo
Thu 06/10/10 06:39 PM
oops

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Thu 06/10/10 06:40 PM








be yourself. If you primp and preen yourself to the point that you can't even recognize yourself then how are you to know if they like you at the end of the date for you or for the barbie doll your pretending to be.


I agree with this. Don't do so much more than you will normally that when you do start doing the normal stuff the person feels like you faked them out when you met them.
but my point is I always do ... with very few exceptions. now & then I will have a make up free Saturday

but I never wear sweats - not even to the gym - I change there. And I do think that 1st impression is critical. If u don't make an effort when u are tryin' t oshow ur best that would leaave me thinking "geez, he's going to be a serious slobola in about a month" so to ME - primping to the max is MY comfort zone - I will do I what I wish thank you



Most guys will forget a pretty face fairly quick. But someone who makes them think tends to stay in the mind for a good amount of time.
haven't really had much trubble there, but thanks little one


hey I may only be 5'5'' but I'm a giant for my family lol
I am 5-5 too! and I don't think it matters what ur style is u want to be comfortable on that date. Of course I am hoping he will rmember all of the intelligent things I say while he is guessing my bra size....u know how guys are!!!!:laughing:


eventually I'm going to just wear a shirt that say "38D ok now are there any other questions?"


laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Thu 06/10/10 06:41 PM








be yourself. If you primp and preen yourself to the point that you can't even recognize yourself then how are you to know if they like you at the end of the date for you or for the barbie doll your pretending to be.


I agree with this. Don't do so much more than you will normally that when you do start doing the normal stuff the person feels like you faked them out when you met them.
but my point is I always do ... with very few exceptions. now & then I will have a make up free Saturday

but I never wear sweats - not even to the gym - I change there. And I do think that 1st impression is critical. If u don't make an effort when u are tryin' t oshow ur best that would leaave me thinking "geez, he's going to be a serious slobola in about a month" so to ME - primping to the max is MY comfort zone - I will do I what I wish thank you



Most guys will forget a pretty face fairly quick. But someone who makes them think tends to stay in the mind for a good amount of time.
haven't really had much trubble there, but thanks little one


hey I may only be 5'5'' but I'm a giant for my family lol
I am 5-5 too! and I don't think it matters what ur style is u want to be comfortable on that date. Of course I am hoping he will rmember all of the intelligent things I say while he is guessing my bra size....u know how guys are!!!!:laughing:


eventually I'm going to just wear a shirt that say "38D ok now are there any other questions?"
rofl best advice on here!! good goin' girl!slaphead

AmbiantNight's photo
Thu 06/10/10 06:42 PM
Thank you, thank you, I feel your love love laugh

74Drew's photo
Thu 06/10/10 07:21 PM

Shave. EVERYTHING. Even your feet. Just in case.

does this go for the guys too?


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skydancingA's photo
Thu 06/10/10 07:51 PM
48: never tell them your parents are first cousins.
This is at least a 3rd date conversation starter.

AmbiantNight's photo
Thu 06/10/10 07:54 PM
49 break every rule. If he doesn't run screaming he's a keeper