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Topic: What is your biggest problem in relationships?
MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 06/18/09 10:01 AM


Promising the world. Feeding me everything that I want to hear. Catering to every fantasy that I might have. Then finding out it was all a big lie. I am a hopeless romantic and men seem to like to prey on that. I guess I am gullible. I want to believe the best in people, truly I do. But I am seeming to lose all confidence in ever getting what I want.


Lies, lies and more lies.
I must be the queen of gullible. Just because I beleive a guys word, stories, and promises. I keep running into liars. What am I suppose to do - hire an investigator before I go out on a date? This isn't fair. I must be doing something wrong, I don't see it coming and end up angry or sad. Its not fair - to all the good guys out there either. I need some Bum Repellent, please!
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Bella124's photo
Thu 06/18/09 11:12 AM
i think its the fact that neither person is willing to meet in the middle...ie...most men need sex to know they are loved....women need love to have sex(not all...but most). so its a nasty cycle. women does not want to have sex tonight...man pulls away....women feels less love...so on and so on

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 06/19/09 12:40 PM

i think its the fact that neither person is willing to meet in the middle...ie...most men need sex to know they are loved....women need love to have sex(not all...but most). so its a nasty cycle. women does not want to have sex tonight...man pulls away....women feels less love...so on and so on
flowerforyou

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Fri 06/19/09 12:44 PM
Edited by Steelz on Fri 06/19/09 12:45 PM
1. Lack of communication
2. Abusive (emotionally and/or physically)
3. Cheating
4. Financially irresponsible

Although all of the above should be signs of real problems.

The one "breaking point" that is subtle is "falling out of love or drifting apart".

Nothing worse than being in a marriage and STILL feeling alone!

musicismydrug's photo
Fri 06/19/09 01:21 PM
for some reason the gals keep insisting that their boy friends come along....and keep saying they cant and then we dont go out at all what gives...........ok but seriously i keep getting some relay immature relation ships. im just waiting for a mature serious one sooo im guna say i need to stop picking the girls that are a big looney tunes in the head.

74Drew's photo
Fri 06/19/09 01:37 PM

flowerforyou In general, what is your biggest problem in relationships?flowerforyou

me


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miko1960's photo
Fri 06/19/09 01:48 PM
When they start trying to dress me,woman never like the way guys dress

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 06/21/09 01:21 AM

for some reason the gals keep insisting that their boy friends come along....and keep saying they cant and then we dont go out at all what gives...........ok but seriously i keep getting some relay immature relation ships. im just waiting for a mature serious one sooo im guna say i need to stop picking the girls that are a big looney tunes in the head.
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HasidicEnforcer's photo
Sun 06/21/09 01:19 PM
me

SomoanTemptress's photo
Sun 06/21/09 01:41 PM
My biggest problem in a relationship is when a guy says he wants an open...HONEST realtionship and then turns out to be everything BUT that! I don't mind being in an open relationship but don't tell me u want somethin' exclusive if you wanna keep your options open and play the field! THIS is why I'm single lol

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 06/22/09 12:51 PM

me

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TxsSun's photo
Mon 06/22/09 01:19 PM


flowerforyou In general, what is your biggest problem in relationships?flowerforyou

me


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I ditto that

HasidicEnforcer's photo
Tue 06/23/09 04:27 PM
I date losers

HasidicEnforcer's photo
Tue 06/23/09 04:29 PM


me

:cry:


sorry, Lee.

turned out Myth wasn't the one. tears

hurts like a mutherfocker right now.

TBRich's photo
Tue 06/23/09 04:42 PM
I was taught that there really isn't a "ONE", that one has to continually work on it to keep the magic alive. (Which is why I prefer the "two", but not "three", when there is three, there is usually a lot of pointing and laughing, while I sit in the corner)

shoesmonkey's photo
Tue 06/23/09 04:44 PM
They just drive me crazy. Or, I drive them crazy.

Atlantis75's photo
Tue 06/23/09 05:40 PM
I can't put a general syndrome on all the relationships I had.

Once it's school, other times it's distance, other times it's me in some sort of problem that weighs me down, such as how to start something more meaningful in my life, they misinterpret it as "you don't love me enough".

CKeef's photo
Tue 06/23/09 06:20 PM
I'll make a quick list...
Long distance
Lack of communication
Stop doing the things that friends do... if you're my love, you should be a BEST friend AND then some, not just the some.
Dishonesty/disloyalty

Maybe the biggest to me is not looking at things from different perspectives. People want things but dont think about if they give the same in return. Hypocrisy is definitely too much to handle. Consideration!! clutch

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 06/24/09 09:43 PM

I was taught that there really isn't a "ONE", that one has to continually work on it to keep the magic alive. (Which is why I prefer the "two", but not "three", when there is three, there is usually a lot of pointing and laughing, while I sit in the corner)
bigsmile

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 06/24/09 09:44 PM



me

:cry:


sorry, Lee.

turned out Myth wasn't the one. tears

hurts like a mutherfocker right now.
flowerforyou

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