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      In general, what is your biggest problem in relationships?  
I am big enough to admit that I jump to comclusions. Usually the wrong ones  | 
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        shelleybc2007
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      Getting one started. Fear. As soon as I meet a guy..it is so imformation overload...crazy and non stop. I run! I would like to meet a guy that is not in a hurry. Smile with me, laugh with me and enjoy my company. Quit making it like a interview to invade my every personal space. Relationships evolve..they don't need to be decided on in thirty minutes over numerous question and answer games. When I meet you I have a pretty good idea..we all do...but then the invasion takes over and I am a private person and it freaks me out...just chill out! All this crap about the past is who we are..a little wounded, a bit shy..but when feeling comfortable..the nicest most compass 
    ionate person you will ever meet...we just don't get that far...lol!
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      In general, what is your biggest problem in relationships?  
Apparently I have a major problem with my own brain.... called "overthinking"      
I am starting to think I have the same problem   
Yeah... seems to be a universal "female" problem?   I am working on it though...   by thinking about it... 
No, really though, have gotten better, but still a work in progress for sure.  | 
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      self esteem...not feeling worthy or good enough..
 
  ...major major self esteem probs...meh... :(  | 
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      Re-lat-ion-ship...what does it all mean?
     
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      Having one.
     
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      Finding someone willing to put up with me.
     
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      He lives too far away!  
    
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      I'm a jerk  
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      I'm a jerk  
Says who?  | 
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      I am impatient  
    
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     Re-lat-ion-ship...what does it all mean? Re ... short for repeat lat ... Pronounced "Lay" short for getting screwed. ion ... stream of hot gas ship ... duh! Everyone knows what a ship is. Put it together and you have a ship powered by hot air that takes you to the place to get screwed over and over.  | 
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      In general, what is your biggest problem in relationships?  
I seem to attract addicts. I have had a whole string of them. I cannot seem to break the cycle. I have studied codependency and addiction. I try to choose men who are not using but will find after getting to know them that they do. If only they wore a banner that said it so I could run on sight....lol  | 
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      Biggest problem with relationships is my inner child; he doesn't have the best role model.  A trite way to say it, but put another way, finding the time to allow for an emotional connection to form and be nurtured.
     
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      In general, what is your biggest problem in relationships?  
i give too much of myself  | 
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      FINDING one!
     
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      farting in bed
     
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 In general, what is your biggest problem in relationships?
 ionate person you will ever meet...we just don't get that far...lol!
    
 
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