My biggest problem is dealing with women that change theyre mind and mood too often...that gives me mixed signals which makes me pull away..ex: a woman may say she is laid back and dont like drama but be quick to instigate an argument or call off a relationship when mad then the next day wanna get back together..wtf is up with that

And that pretty much explains things in a nutshell. The mindgames just pretty much ****.

((Hassidic))

my biggest problem is that i tend to end up with women who end up being disloyal and untrustworthy. nearly everyone i've been with has seemed perfect and ended up the same!..

which is the reason i ended up on the site lol

Probably that I have really high expectations of myself when it comes to how I treat them ( I try to act like a lady and expect them to be a gentleman), often giving too much latitude for selfish behavior until I get fed up and then just walk away in disgust..

I am sure part of it was being blessed earlier with a spouse who really had his act together and was an exceptionally smart,affluent, considerate, fair, and loving person that could care less if I did or didn't make a fat check or was still built like a beauty contendar. Now I don't want to settle for some mediocre guy who has and attitude that I should get down on my knees for the pleasure of listening to him complain, sleep, or let his people or pets run all over what I have worked a lifetime for. Silly me see that making myself a fool and I won't do it. Not even for some cheap imitaion of love.

most women find it hard to handle my huge...ego. be seeing you

I don't understand the connection.

My assumption is that online dating is something new for him to try. Welcome to the forums Danny and best of luck.

When I say or do something stupid because of my overthinking things...

Finding one would be a good start.

that's it "being in a relationship" that's my biggest problem...

I have always thought that "slow simmering" was the best way to tenderize. I have found that the more "slow simmering" occurs, the tougher they get.

Lack of communication is a big one. There are several different things.

really!!!
if you where near by, i`d club you over the head and drag you to my cave in the blink of an eye.

control. I will never be manipulated or controlled again. Same goes for women.jmo

yep, thats exactly it! just wanted to see if online dating would change things, since other people that come on here must obviously have some common issues like i've had, and want some respect and loyalty as well.

The problem is.....I want a relationship and can't find a man who does also.