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rum and diet coke, please, please please with sugar on top?
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rum and diet coke, please, please please with sugar on top? ![]() |
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I'll skip the booze and go for the waiter, if you please.
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But Suz.............putting the sugar on top will defeat the purpose of the diet coke!!!!!!!!!!
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How condescending of you to criticize anyone for asking for help! Based on what I read, he didn't ask her to change...he asked for her help. That is a key part of relationships...supporting each other IN ALL WAYS in good and bad times! (Could your lack of supporting your mate be the reason your single? Your reply IMPLYS that attitude.)And though yes, he may have made a quick, rash decsion asking her to leave, sometimes couples need some space so they may continue to have a fulfilled loving relationship. Time apart is time to rejuvinate and remember all the reasons you fell in love and love them still.
Provided the details of this scenario are TRUE...I would go back in a heartbeat! And hun if she has to think about coming back...I'd ask myself how much she really loves him???? NO DOUBT it hurt like hell when he asked her to leave and she's probably still working through those hurt feelings BUT does she really think it's that easy to find another man like the one described? I am in total support of her taking all the time she needs/wants to resolve hurt feelings BUT REALLY HOPE SHE'S TAKING TIME FOR THE RIGHT REASONS!!!! |
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You obviously want to work things out,and that's great,but you must think about those children first!! Move in move out that's all fine and good for an adult, but not at all cool when kids are involved. Comunication and limits with boundaries need to be agreed.upon. I'd be very hesitant to revisit a live in situation without some serious groundrules being laid out first. Time and true sharing of each others wants and needs can't be a bad thing if both parties have the same goal in mind . Good luck to you both and remember the little ones come first!!!!
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Edited by
Riding_Dubz
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Thu 10/16/08 09:40 AM
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![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() There we go, my bad, Good looking out lillth ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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But Suz.............putting the sugar on top will defeat the purpose of the diet coke!!!!!!!!!! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() And Lilith, I have the refreshments........... ![]() But what about the waiter? |
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Edited by
Riding_Dubz
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Thu 10/16/08 09:39 AM
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rum and diet coke, please, please please with sugar on top? ![]() ill take mine with a splash of grenadine pretty please!!!
i don't know how am making any money, ![]() when im buying everyones drinks!! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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Kev, put semicolons in front of the word drinker... that's what you want, right?
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Hmm...wondering if she's taking advantage NEGATIVELY of the situation???
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second time we have seen this thread.. and if you read the whole thing thru.. he told her that it was good for her to stay home and take care of the house.. then all the sudden he gets in a financial bind and its her fault..
but have a nice day How condescending of you to criticize anyone for asking for help! Based on what I read, he didn't ask her to change...he asked for her help. That is a key part of relationships...supporting each other IN ALL WAYS in good and bad times! (Could your lack of supporting your mate be the reason your single? Your reply IMPLYS that attitude.)And though yes, he may have made a quick, rash decsion asking her to leave, sometimes couples need some space so they may continue to have a fulfilled loving relationship. Time apart is time to rejuvinate and remember all the reasons you fell in love and love them still. Provided the details of this scenario are TRUE...I would go back in a heartbeat! And hun if she has to think about coming back...I'd ask myself how much she really loves him???? NO DOUBT it hurt like hell when he asked her to leave and she's probably still working through those hurt feelings BUT does she really think it's that easy to find another man like the one described? I am in total support of her taking all the time she needs/wants to resolve hurt feelings BUT REALLY HOPE SHE'S TAKING TIME FOR THE RIGHT REASONS!!!! |
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Here is thread one:
http://mingle2.com/topic/show/172877 |
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How condescending of you to criticize anyone for asking for help! Based on what I read, he didn't ask her to change...he asked for her help. That is a key part of relationships...supporting each other IN ALL WAYS in good and bad times! (Could your lack of supporting your mate be the reason your single? Your reply IMPLYS that attitude.)And though yes, he may have made a quick, rash decsion asking her to leave, sometimes couples need some space so they may continue to have a fulfilled loving relationship. Time apart is time to rejuvinate and remember all the reasons you fell in love and love them still. Provided the details of this scenario are TRUE...I would go back in a heartbeat! And hun if she has to think about coming back...I'd ask myself how much she really loves him???? NO DOUBT it hurt like hell when he asked her to leave and she's probably still working through those hurt feelings BUT does she really think it's that easy to find another man like the one described? I am in total support of her taking all the time she needs/wants to resolve hurt feelings BUT REALLY HOPE SHE'S TAKING TIME FOR THE RIGHT REASONS!!!! no one was condenscending to the OP - after a while of repeating the same thing over and over and over it gets monotonous, regardless how righteous you want to be. |
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mmmmmmmmmmmmm........... that hits the spot.. thanks kev!!
look.. you> ![]() hehehe rum and diet coke, please, please please with sugar on top? ![]() ill take mine with a splash of grenadine pretty please!!!
i don't know how am making any money, ![]() when im buying everyones drinks!! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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Hmm...wondering if she's taking advantage NEGATIVELY of the situation??? after making the condenscending remark now you wonder ![]() ![]() |
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But Suz.............putting the sugar on top will defeat the purpose of the diet coke!!!!!!!!!! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() And Lilith, I have the refreshments........... ![]() But what about the waiter? Okay......I forgot the waiter......Can we get Lexy in an apron?? Will he do the job? ![]() |
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But Suz.............putting the sugar on top will defeat the purpose of the diet coke!!!!!!!!!! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() And Lilith, I have the refreshments........... ![]() But what about the waiter? Okay......I forgot the waiter......Can we get Lexy in an apron?? Will he do the job? ![]() need lily's boobs here ![]() |
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i thought Kev was the waiter...
damn it.. and here ive been sliping him tips.. *Kevin! Give me back that piece of paper that said not to fry bacon naked!!!* But Suz.............putting the sugar on top will defeat the purpose of the diet coke!!!!!!!!!! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() And Lilith, I have the refreshments........... ![]() But what about the waiter? Okay......I forgot the waiter......Can we get Lexy in an apron?? Will he do the job? ![]() |
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What kinda water you want,
I got lemon flavored,rapberry mango,tap water bottled water, I think there even some berry-punch gator-aide around here, ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Someone has to DD our drunks skunks right, ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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