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SINGLE or TAKEN? - part 9
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SOULMATE TAKEN!
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HAHAHA feel better now that you have that mindless atack of me out of your system?! Why do so many refer to saying "uneducated" as condescending?? How many of you know the definitions of educated and uneducated and how that definition relates to today's society? There's a big difference between uneducated and stupid and EDUCATED people know that. He didn't call her stupid, moronic, dumb or any of the other 17,000 some words that could be used to describe just plain stupid. Might be wise for a few of you to also refresh your memory on the definition of "condescending." It is clear why many of you SINGLES are on this site...you're ALL TAKE and NO GIVE and I AM BEING CONDESCENDING!!!!!!! (Note: I'm on the site but I'm not single...in a very fulfilled a loving relationship thank you...one which blossomed through this site!) Observation - your profile says looking for man for dating. also just an observation. Also a good observation...I've been so busy being in love that I haven't bothered to update my profile...good project to add to my to do list today. Thank you! It's probably pretty easy for someone such as you to refer to my profile as "like trying to follow a rabbit through the woods." Simple minded, UNEDUCATED people have a tendancy to make remarks like that especially when they can't see the woods for the trees let alone know how to go about catching a rabbit in them. HAHAHA Words from a mindless dimwit...is that condescending? I've updated my profile. No deletions just additions. Don't bother to read it...I know you too uneducated. HAHAHA |
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Why do so many refer to saying "uneducated" as condescending?? How many of you know the definitions of educated and uneducated and how that definition relates to today's society? There's a big difference between uneducated and stupid and EDUCATED people know that. He didn't call her stupid, moronic, dumb or any of the other 17,000 some words that could be used to describe just plain stupid. Might be wise for a few of you to also refresh your memory on the definition of "condescending." It is clear why many of you SINGLES are on this site...you're ALL TAKE and NO GIVE and I AM BEING CONDESCENDING!!!!!!! (Note: I'm on the site but I'm not single...in a very fulfilled a loving relationship thank you...one which blossomed through this site!) Observation - your profile says looking for man for dating. also just an observation. Also a good observation...I've been so busy being in love that I haven't bothered to update my profile...good project to add to my to do list today. Thank you! It's probably pretty easy for someone such as you to refer to my profile as "like trying to follow a rabbit through the woods." Simple minded, UNEDUCATED people have a tendancy to make remarks like that especially when they can't see the woods for the trees let alone know how to go about catching a rabbit in them. |
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If you where married to a guy, for lets say just a year. you had 2 teenage kids (not his), and he had 1 2 year old(not urs)....and the realtionship was good...very good at points, but always good.... there was never any cheating, physical or mental abuse.....the guy made like $100k a year...took care of you and your kids...was super in the bed.... And truly loved you...and willing to do anything for you... lets say after about a year....because u didnt work and couldnt really get a good job due to being uneducated....and ur ex husband never sent child support for ur kids... lets say u and ur current husband, started having a few problems...ur husband started letting stress overwhelm him, mainly beause he did too much...he worked a full time job as a IT Director..(those of you who know that job know it can be very stressful), he ran a online bizz too...makin extra $$ to provide for the family....and he was trying to start anopther organization to help less fortunate poeple... lets say his stress levels got everwhelming...and you too started to fight because mainly,....he needed some help from you, and you couldnt..because getting a job and ediucation take time.... but lets say you screwe dsomthitn up finaically....put alot more streess on him...and he kinda told you to pack it up and go back to ur moms 2 hours away.....mainly because his stress levels had gotten so bad....and then a week after going back..u too was taling but had a big fight over the phone... lets say a week after that....his stress levels started to come down.....and he realized he made a huge istake tellin you to leave... all he asked was you help him, even if not contributing with $$ help him by not causding more $$$ issues.... would you take him back? or come back to him if he was genuine? and u knew was a good man and loved you very much? remember....he is a good man, ur kids love him and he loves them back alot...his child loves you and you love her very much too....and he ws successful and a great provider, and never cheated or abused you...no drug or alcohol issues, and a good all around man.... would you come back to him? and if you told him you needed time and space to think things thru...how long would it take you? and would u come back? help me ladies! Why do so many refer to saying "uneducated" as condescending?? How many of you know the definitions of educated and uneducated and how that definition relates to today's society? There's a big difference between uneducated and stupid and EDUCATED people know that. He didn't call her stupid, moronic, dumb or any of the other 17,000 some words that could be used to describe just plain stupid. Might be wise for a few of you to also refresh your memory on the definition of "condescending." It is clear why many of you SINGLES are on this site...you're ALL TAKE and NO GIVE and I AM BEING CONDESCENDING!!!!!!! (Note: I'm on the site but I'm not single...in a very fulfilled a loving relationship thank you...one which blossomed through this site!) Observation - your profile says looking for man for dating. Good observation...if there's anywhere you can check when the last time I was on the site before today was...please do...I occasionally like to come here just to read the forums. |
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second time we have seen this thread.. and if you read the whole thing thru.. he told her that it was good for her to stay home and take care of the house.. then all the sudden he gets in a financial bind and its her fault.. but have a nice day How condescending of you to criticize anyone for asking for help! Based on what I read, he didn't ask her to change...he asked for her help. That is a key part of relationships...supporting each other IN ALL WAYS in good and bad times! (Could your lack of supporting your mate be the reason your single? Your reply IMPLYS that attitude.)And though yes, he may have made a quick, rash decsion asking her to leave, sometimes couples need some space so they may continue to have a fulfilled loving relationship. Time apart is time to rejuvinate and remember all the reasons you fell in love and love them still. Provided the details of this scenario are TRUE...I would go back in a heartbeat! And hun if she has to think about coming back...I'd ask myself how much she really loves him???? NO DOUBT it hurt like hell when he asked her to leave and she's probably still working through those hurt feelings BUT does she really think it's that easy to find another man like the one described? I am in total support of her taking all the time she needs/wants to resolve hurt feelings BUT REALLY HOPE SHE'S TAKING TIME FOR THE RIGHT REASONS!!!! I did read the whole thing through and UMM EXCUSE ME where did he say it was her fault? I read he took out his stress on her...I also read that she did something to make the financial situation more stressful. Nowhere did it say it was her fault. Wonder which of us needs to read the whole thing through???? |
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If you where married to a guy, for lets say just a year. you had 2 teenage kids (not his), and he had 1 2 year old(not urs)....and the realtionship was good...very good at points, but always good.... there was never any cheating, physical or mental abuse.....the guy made like $100k a year...took care of you and your kids...was super in the bed.... And truly loved you...and willing to do anything for you... lets say after about a year....because u didnt work and couldnt really get a good job due to being uneducated....and ur ex husband never sent child support for ur kids... lets say u and ur current husband, started having a few problems...ur husband started letting stress overwhelm him, mainly beause he did too much...he worked a full time job as a IT Director..(those of you who know that job know it can be very stressful), he ran a online bizz too...makin extra $$ to provide for the family....and he was trying to start anopther organization to help less fortunate poeple... lets say his stress levels got everwhelming...and you too started to fight because mainly,....he needed some help from you, and you couldnt..because getting a job and ediucation take time.... but lets say you screwe dsomthitn up finaically....put alot more streess on him...and he kinda told you to pack it up and go back to ur moms 2 hours away.....mainly because his stress levels had gotten so bad....and then a week after going back..u too was taling but had a big fight over the phone... lets say a week after that....his stress levels started to come down.....and he realized he made a huge istake tellin you to leave... all he asked was you help him, even if not contributing with $$ help him by not causding more $$$ issues.... would you take him back? or come back to him if he was genuine? and u knew was a good man and loved you very much? remember....he is a good man, ur kids love him and he loves them back alot...his child loves you and you love her very much too....and he ws successful and a great provider, and never cheated or abused you...no drug or alcohol issues, and a good all around man.... would you come back to him? and if you told him you needed time and space to think things thru...how long would it take you? and would u come back? help me ladies! Why do so many refer to saying "uneducated" as condescending?? How many of you know the definitions of educated and uneducated and how that definition relates to today's society? There's a big difference between uneducated and stupid and EDUCATED people know that. He didn't call her stupid, moronic, dumb or any of the other 17,000 some words that could be used to describe just plain stupid. Might be wise for a few of you to also refresh your memory on the definition of "condescending." It is clear why many of you SINGLES are on this site...you're ALL TAKE and NO GIVE and I AM BEING CONDESCENDING!!!!!!! (Note: I'm on the site but I'm not single...in a very fulfilled a loving relationship thank you...one which blossomed through this site!) |
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Hmm...wondering if she's taking advantage NEGATIVELY of the situation???
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How condescending of you to criticize anyone for asking for help! Based on what I read, he didn't ask her to change...he asked for her help. That is a key part of relationships...supporting each other IN ALL WAYS in good and bad times! (Could your lack of supporting your mate be the reason your single? Your reply IMPLYS that attitude.)And though yes, he may have made a quick, rash decsion asking her to leave, sometimes couples need some space so they may continue to have a fulfilled loving relationship. Time apart is time to rejuvinate and remember all the reasons you fell in love and love them still.
Provided the details of this scenario are TRUE...I would go back in a heartbeat! And hun if she has to think about coming back...I'd ask myself how much she really loves him???? NO DOUBT it hurt like hell when he asked her to leave and she's probably still working through those hurt feelings BUT does she really think it's that easy to find another man like the one described? I am in total support of her taking all the time she needs/wants to resolve hurt feelings BUT REALLY HOPE SHE'S TAKING TIME FOR THE RIGHT REASONS!!!! |
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There's the most HONEST and TO THE POINT answer I've read! I believe relationships would last longer if not last infinitely if we all practiced a little more of that list!
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My guess list would be; Someone who likes them as is; not to be improved, smoothe over, or changed so much they don't even recognize themselves in the mirror. Someone who is courteous; please and thank you won't be saved for strangers. Someone who values my time. Someone who respects and values my stuff like there own. Someone that gets going to work is love made visable. Might not be glamorous but I go and do it and you are a big part of the reason why. When I am gone to work it is not a vacation. Sometimes I need time to switch gears. Sometimes I really am tired. And no sometimes I don't want to bring work home. Someone who gets to the point and doesn't leave me guessing or wondering WTF all the time. I can't read minds. Someone who gets they are not the only one who wants to feel appreciated, sexy, loved, or scared sometimes. Someone who gets that sometimes sex isn't always about romance some times it is just sex that is needed like other bodily functions. Someone who realizes being a boyfriend doesn't mean I don't have other friends that are just friends. Friends that make our life better because they meet needs you can't. Someone who gets I picked you already; there is no contest with my family; you won please be gracious about it. Someone who shares the responsibilities and doesn't just dump the ones they don't like on me. Someone who doesn't try to decide how I should be a father and encourages me as I learn by experience just like you did. Someone who gets I am not one of the kids so stop trying to lecture me, disciplene me, or be my Mom. I am not your parents kid either;don't get me into stuff because you can't deal with your folks or siblings either. Someone who gets that her money isn't just her money and my money isn't all her money. Or that our money grows on trees. Or that I am going to make as much as Dear old Dad; he has a big headstart on me. Someone who gets just because your girlfriend is envoled with an asshole that I am not going to be one. Someone that gets that what goes on between us is not her family and friends business and they NEVER forget even if you do. Someone that gets if you want me to come home you have to make home someplace I want to be and be glad to see me not just hand of the chores or the kids. Someone that gets if you want me to have balls you have to quit trying to cut them off all the time. |
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Topic:
In search of beauty...
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 BEAUTIFUL!!!!
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Honesty...nice to know it's not dead!!!!!
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Topic:
Accept Me
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Curious if you are really a humanbean? Very much enjoyed the poem otherwise!
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Topic:
Best Friend??
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I am my own best friend first...I cannot be a even a good friend to anyone else until I first befriend myself.
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Topic:
BRUTAL HONESTY
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It was alright but I think you could have told us a little more about yourself. 
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What more would you like to know? 
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Topic:
BRUTAL HONESTY
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SOOOOO nice to know that are other intellectuals still left in this world!
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Topic:
9 Months Later!
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Topic:
BRUTAL HONESTY
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No offense, but those counts may be still reading all of that. You sound like a great lady... but it takes time to read all of it, so you'll probably get more opinions shortly....
I think several of those counts simply didn't want to take the time to read it though I do think you made a valid point! |
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Topic:
BRUTAL HONESTY
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The world will tell you who you are...until you tell the world!
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Topic:
BRUTAL HONESTY
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I count all these people looking at the post and yet so few give an opinion...WHAT ARE YOU AFRAID TO SPEAK YOUR MINDS???????? BIG THANKS TO THOSE WHO HAVE!!!!!!
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