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Can we see a pic of her,
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if you're so smart why didn't you think of the money issues before you were married? bcause when we got married, her 2 kids lived with there dad in GA....and when they came to visit for xas, and seen how mice our house was, and how cool i was they wanted to come live with us... i encouraged that...but didnt know there own father would not send child support for them... |
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we have some mad women on her tonight fellas....to say she shouldnt come back after i 100% suported her and her 2 kids for a year, and none of them ever did without, and not to mention i was a mentor to them, and they loved me very much..... Dude, you have a complex, you want her dependant on you...if she has a brain in her skull she'll stay at her mom's... |
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  I aint mad... and I feel like I am stating some good advice and all that jazz... grrrrr
guess I'm leaving here... B.O.L. mister man 
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if you're so smart why didn't you think of the money issues before you were married? bcause when we got married, her 2 kids lived with there dad in GA....and when they came to visit for xas, and seen how mice our house was, and how cool i was they wanted to come live with us... i encouraged that...but didnt know there own father would not send child support for them... Why haven't you and her called the state to start proceedings to collect child support for them? Or get a lawyer? |
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Everyone has problems. And everyone can overreact.
I think you are looking for enough women to say they would take the man back....in hopes that the law of averages will dictate that your woman will take you back. Let me make this very simple: IF YOU LOVE HER...DO WHATEVER YOU HAVE TO DO TO WIN HER BACK. GET DOWN ON ONE KNEE....STAND OUTSIDE HER WINDOW PLAYING "YOUR" SONG...WHATEVER. YOU GOTTA ASK YOURSELF: HOW BAD DO I WANT HER BACK. Just be careful not to cross that razor-thin line between the grand gesture and stalking. |
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we have some mad women on her tonight fellas....to say she shouldnt come back after i 100% suported her and her 2 kids for a year, and none of them ever did without, and not to mention i was a mentor to them, and they loved me very much..... Dude, you have a complex, you want her dependant on you...if she has a brain in her skull she'll stay at her mom's... lol..a complex?? if i wanted her dependant on me then why would i ask her to get a PT job to help me out when taking care of everythign myself>? |
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if you're so smart why didn't you think of the money issues before you were married? bcause when we got married, her 2 kids lived with there dad in GA....and when they came to visit for xas, and seen how mice our house was, and how cool i was they wanted to come live with us... i encouraged that...but didnt know there own father would not send child support for them... |
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I aint mad... and I feel like I am stating some good advice and all that jazz... grrrrr
guess I'm leaving here... B.O.L. mister man
look ur right, u have given good advice...but som of the others are asses |
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Edited by
Riding_Dubz
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Wed 10/15/08 03:45 PM
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I found a resolution to your problem,
listen this is all you gotta do, When you wanna say no, Say you might, When you know she's wrong, say she's right, |
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if you're so smart why didn't you think of the money issues before you were married? bcause when we got married, her 2 kids lived with there dad in GA....and when they came to visit for xas, and seen how mice our house was, and how cool i was they wanted to come live with us... i encouraged that...but didnt know there own father would not send child support for them... Why haven't you and her called the state to start proceedings to collect child support for them? Or get a lawyer? lol..i asked he rto do that...child support enforement..i even downloaded and printed paperwork for her...a month went b i asked her...did u send it off yet...she said no...but im almost done fillin it out....lol...and she satid home all day |
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I aint mad... and I feel like I am stating some good advice and all that jazz... grrrrr
guess I'm leaving here... B.O.L. mister man
You are stating some very good advice. |
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we have some mad women on her tonight fellas....to say she shouldnt come back after i 100% suported her and her 2 kids for a year, and none of them ever did without, and not to mention i was a mentor to them, and they loved me very much..... Dude, you have a complex, you want her dependant on you...if she has a brain in her skull she'll stay at her mom's... lol..a complex?? if i wanted her dependant on me then why would i ask her to get a PT job to help me out when taking care of everythign myself>? are u dumb or what u ass...stop posting on my post Ya I'm dumb.... I don't fall for your BS...that makes me dumb. 
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we have some mad women on her tonight fellas....to say she shouldnt come back after i 100% suported her and her 2 kids for a year, and none of them ever did without, and not to mention i was a mentor to them, and they loved me very much..... Dude, you have a complex, you want her dependant on you...if she has a brain in her skull she'll stay at her mom's... lol..a complex?? if i wanted her dependant on me then why would i ask her to get a PT job to help me out when taking care of everythign myself>? are u dumb or what u ass...stop posting on my post Excuse me?!!  Is she dumb or what u ass?
We don't talk to people like that on here!! |
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Everyone has problems. And everyone can overreact. I think you are looking for enough women to say they would take the man back....in hopes that the law of averages will dictate that your woman will take you back. Let me make this very simple: IF YOU LOVE HER...DO WHATEVER YOU HAVE TO DO TO WIN HER BACK. GET DOWN ON ONE KNEE....STAND OUTSIDE HER WINDOW PLAYING "YOUR" SONG...WHATEVER. YOU GOTTA ASK YOURSELF: HOW BAD DO I WANT HER BACK. Just be careful not to cross that razor-thin line between the grand gesture and stalking. i have treid that...but she says she needs space and time...to think things thru...but keeps tellin me she loves me...then other day send sme an emailsayin how she was out of cigs...kids didnt have this or that...knowing i love all of them and sent her $$$ |
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All this whining over a woman that you probably didn't even know...move on with your life bro
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All I am saying is that COMMUNICATION goes a long way and only works when the two at hand are calm and WILLING to hear one another out...
ALSO one will not change bc another wants them too... one will once change because they them self wants too... 
pbwy |
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Easy come easy go,
im with train, Move on, 
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If you where married to a guy, for lets say just a year. you had 2 teenage kids (not his), and he had 1 2 year old(not urs)....and the realtionship was good...very good at points, but always good.... there was never any cheating, physical or mental abuse.....the guy made like $100k a year...took care of you and your kids...was super in the bed.... And truly loved you...and willing to do anything for you... lets say after about a year....because u didnt work and couldnt really get a good job due to being uneducated....and ur ex husband never sent child support for ur kids... lets say u and ur current husband, started having a few problems...ur husband started letting stress overwhelm him, mainly beause he did too much...he worked a full time job as a IT Director..(those of you who know that job know it can be very stressful), he ran a online bizz too...makin extra $$ to provide for the family....and he was trying to start anopther organization to help less fortunate poeple... lets say his stress levels got everwhelming...and you too started to fight because mainly,....he needed some help from you, and you couldnt..because getting a job and ediucation take time.... but lets say you screwe dsomthitn up finaically....put alot more streess on him...and he kinda told you to pack it up and go back to ur moms 2 hours away.....mainly because his stress levels had gotten so bad....and then a week after going back..u too was taling but had a big fight over the phone... lets say a week after that....his stress levels started to come down.....and he realized he made a huge istake tellin you to leave... all he asked was you help him, even if not contributing with $$ help him by not causding more $$$ issues.... would you take him back? or come back to him if he was genuine? and u knew was a good man and loved you very much? remember....he is a good man, ur kids love him and he loves them back alot...his child loves you and you love her very much too....and he ws successful and a great provider, and never cheated or abused you...no drug or alcohol issues, and a good all around man.... would you come back to him? and if you told him you needed time and space to think things thru...how long would it take you? and would u come back? help me ladies! |
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All this whining over a woman that you probably didn't even know...move on with your life bro
maybe ur right....but u know....i do love her...and still do...just going thru some things....tryin to get it all out now... |
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