I'm now feeling that life is good making some good and creative friends

It is just as hard for a man to meet a good woman as it is for a woman to find a good man.

I actually know a lot of decent guys in this age range. I guess I'm just picky. I don't want just someone, I want THE someone. And that's what's hard to find.

As far as I can Tell they don't come In tall

Amen brah...

And yes some of us are still around...And single

They are disguised with your illusions.
They are everywhere,
Waiting.

There's a valid point right there.





There are good men (and women) everywhere, ones we encounter every day in our lives in all avenues. Perhaps the encounters aren't openly explored or the walls are too high or at the 'wrong timing' or who knows... but good people are everywhere.

Ummmmmmmmmmmm.............



I'm still in.........

Illinois!!!!

I'm real new here. Just came out of a relationship that has been off and on for 20 years. I think good for one may not be good for another. I think it's a matter of finding the right match. Dating is all new to me. Have no clue where to start.

Oh, I see: an Anti-Shortite!

<rides in> <tips his hat>

Hi fellow singles. New here.

They turned 56?
And apparently become invisible.

I used your words because I thought they pertained to this thread too. Thanks

"There here"

Right here, still single. Watching the women I get to know and care about date jerks and then come and tell there friend (me) that men are all the same.

The good men are out there ladies, you just have to look past the flash and eye candy. You'll probably be surprised to see that the good guy was a lot closer than you thought!

The entire response about men in that age range have a high probability of being jaded, hurt in the past, "ruined for the rest of your life" thanks to another woman who destroyed him, etc..etc...is equally, if not more so, true on the flip side of that coin. Any man asking where the good women are? Just know older women who are single stand to have that same high probability of already being ruined from a broken life and broken heart in their past as well.

I'm 37 years old, and have not dated since divorcing my daughter's father. That was almost 9 years ago. Which brings up the other problem in finding that good man OR woman that seems to be eluding everyone who's searching in the "older" crowd...kids. Try being a full time single mother to an 11 year old, keep a roof over your head, finish college, along with 20 other things on the daily "to do list" that must be done...where's the time left at that's needed to deal with all the baggage and pain from the past? There isn't any. And, unless you've dealt with your demons, a new relationship isn't going to work and more damage than good will come of it if you try to pretend otherwise.

**As a reminder, the latter rant applies to both single men and women alike. Sorry for the times I spoke exclusively regarding the obstacles women face. But, what can I say, I'm a woman!

LOL....Funny

Anddddd, you must be short!