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Thu 06/16/11 11:32 PM
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Thu 06/16/11 11:29 PM


they ask me to wire them money for a visa and a plane ticket?



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That is straight up true love right there, lol

i know. i'm still holding out that she'll show. it's been a few years, but it takes a while to get a visa in some of those countries.


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Thu 06/16/11 10:30 AM
they ask me to wire them money for a visa and a plane ticket?



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Thu 06/16/11 10:25 AM

there is entirely too many christian women in this country.also most judge atheist as vile creatures or have the "OH HELL NO" attitude towards atheist.i actually have no problem dating christian women


i agree. i put agnostic on my profiles, but it seems that you have to have something to worship other than women in order to be dating material.
not all of us are bad. i grew up going to church and decided as an adult that i didn't completely go along with what i was exposed to. i still have morals and such. but you would think that because i don't believe in something, anything, that i'm some psychopathic murderer when i'm not busy being a responsible adult.
you don't have to be religious to know that treating people poorly is wrong.


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Wed 06/15/11 10:35 AM


I think we have become a disposable society. Doesn't fit, throw it out. Not the latest, out it goes. Something shiney, trade up. No one takes the time to see the value in what they have or wants to work to keep it.

Just my opinion.


Hello, this young woman has a head on her shoulders and knows how to use it! We are a media shake and bake society of quick fixes. "lets just do it and we'll figure it out later". The chances of this working in our current world is next to none.

it's true. fewer people have the patience to work things out and therefore just give up when things get difficult. i admit that in some instances i'm the same way. i have no tolerance for certain types of b.s. and will definitely walk away. i would like to have a woman in my life, i don't need one in my life.



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Wed 06/15/11 10:26 AM

I think this is an endless debate, besides commitment is the issue, marriage is a legally binding contract.

a commitment is a commitment. you shouldn't need the law. the law is just there so if one person doesn't honor their commitment the other can get out of their end.
imo a relationship doesn't need marriage for there to be a binding commitment. it's a matter of choice. does one choose to be faithful to their partner or not? if not, they aren't really committed to that person. it's really all symbolic. the marriage, the rings, the ceremony; they all serve as symbols for the commitment. the strength of that commitment comes from within the individuals involved and how much value they put on that commitment. really, the law should have no say in the matter.
unfortunately, not everyone is of the same moral stock. therefore, we have to have laws that tell people that they must uphold their end of the deal else they suffer the consequences.


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Tue 06/14/11 11:32 AM



this is a good point, someone who has never been married may be in a rush to get married, where as someone divorced is probably more willing to 'take it slow' because they want to make sure they do it right the second time around

i wish this were true. i know someone who considers it sinful to be sleeping with someone while not married to them. she's been married and divorced 3 or 4 times. i've lost count. apparently, breaking the commitment she made before god isn't as important as the sin she commits before the commitment.


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only if she was marrying for sex

if she married out of commitment, not forseeing the results
thats different than then the INTENTIONAL act of sex with no such commitment,,


marriage is supposed to be a sacred institution. when it's treated with a cavalier attitude as just an obstacle to the goal, or as just another thing to do, it loses it's sanctity. when people don't take the time to get to know one another and rush into marriage thinking that "this is the one" when they've know each other for all of 5 minutes you get a divorce rate like we have now.
i'd rather have someone who took the time in a relationship, 1,2,3 years whatever and then realized that it wasn't a lasting thing, than have someone who rushed into a marriage several times.
IMO any person who's been divorced 3 or more times needs to look in the mirror. either they keep picking the wrong people, or they are the ones causing the problems.


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Tue 06/14/11 11:22 AM

this is a good point, someone who has never been married may be in a rush to get married, where as someone divorced is probably more willing to 'take it slow' because they want to make sure they do it right the second time around

i wish this were true. i know someone who considers it sinful to be sleeping with someone while not married to them. she's been married and divorced 3 or 4 times. i've lost count. apparently, breaking the commitment she made before god isn't as important as the sin she commits before the commitment.


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Tue 06/14/11 09:42 AM




thats clever

there is another one detective goren asked on criminal intent that I still havent figured out

'if you came to two doors, one leading to heaven and the other to hell, and the guard guarding the door to heaven could only tell the truth and the guard gurding the door to hell could only tell lies,,,what one question would you ask to decide which door to enter to get to heaven?'





Ask either guard, " What door would the other guard tell me leads to heaven." Then pick the other door.



lol,, brilliant,, thanx


hmmmm, Labrynth...



Also, ask either guard any of these questions...

"Am I here?"
"Are you a guard?"
"Is that other guard really a guard?"
"Will I fit through the door?"
"Can I (or you) open the door?"

(a yes answer means heaven's guard, no means hell)



"Are you an Atheist?"
"Are you me?"
"Is that door a window?"
"Am I a whale?"
"Is hell real?"

(a no answer means heaven's guard, yes means hell)


so if asking a guard if hell is real results in a no then it must be heaven's guard. if there's a door to heaven and a door to hell then hell must be real. if hell is real and a guard tells you otherwise, that would be a lie and therefore wouldn't be coming from the guard to heaven.


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Tue 06/14/11 09:34 AM

Hi there everyone,
I just relovcated to Frankfurt for a new job opportunity.
Looking for some friends in Town to meet up ones in a while.

Just drop a line if you feel Frankfurt is too big to stay alone.
Looking forward to your replies,
Linus

could you find an opportunity for me as well? i've been looking to move to germany, but would need a job once i got there.


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74Drew's photo
Tue 06/14/11 09:26 AM
what are we talking about here, relationship or just sex?

sex - legal's legal

relationship - there's a maturity level that one should be near, age plays little factor as long as they're close to that maturity level


imo


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Tue 06/14/11 09:17 AM
i love this question

i have my own presumptions on this and will hold onto them.

as for my preference, i'm with equus on this. multiple divorces and 4 kids from 5 fathers is a problem.



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Tue 06/14/11 09:06 AM

Alrighty... These first 2 are not me, I deny my resemblance to anyone...

My dad



Some religious dude from the 1600's???








And this is me...


dude your dad looks like the werewolf leader guy from underworld.
just sayin.


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Tue 06/14/11 12:43 AM
she could start by saying it.
and make it believable.


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Tue 06/14/11 12:33 AM



What happend to this thread?? Where are the celebs of mingle? ;)
Have her do you Cinderella!!


I've already been done.. haha! People have told me I look like Cameron Diaz.. haha

yeah, if cameron diaz was hot.

i think you look like a blonde version of the girl who plays rachel on glee. but better.


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Tue 06/14/11 12:28 AM

Hi,

I just joined mingle2 and hope to make some friends. I'm a positive, friendly person who would love to chat.

I'm in the hospital and will be for a few months due to a back injury.

I'm new to this type of site, so all advice is appreciated.:laughing:


wecome

i'm a negative, semi-friendly person who would also love to chat.
but, if you don't want to i understand. there'll be plenty of others for you who are also willing.

sorry to hear about your back.
get well soon.


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Tue 06/14/11 12:24 AM
yep we suck.

have you considered women?


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Mon 06/13/11 10:08 AM
attire would depend on the environment for the date. nice restaurant would require better clothing than a coffee shop or a bookstore.
i would prefer to go someplace where we can converse, so a movie is out.
dinner is ok, but i think for a first meeting a bookstore or a coffee shop is a better environment. you can talk over a cup of coffee and if there's no connection early on you don't have to wait for the appetizers then the meal then the check just to get out of there. a bookstore tells a little about the kind of person they are. do they read gossip mags or classic lit or sci/fi....whatever it is, it still gives you something to talk about.

if it's dinner, i feel awkward not paying. not sure why, but unless we had been dating for a while and were actually in a relationship i'd be uncomfortable with paying anything less than my part of the bill.



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Mon 06/13/11 09:55 AM
Edited by 74Drew on Mon 06/13/11 09:56 AM

Quote of the day:

'Whatever you give a woman, she will make greater. for herself
If you give her sperm, she'll give you a baby. and either blame you for what carrying that baby did to her body or make you pay for it when she leaves you
If you give her a house, she'll give you a home. which she'll then remind you that you don't do enough to help out around or you'll have to give it right back to her when she leaves you
If you give her groceries, she'll give you a meal. with arsenic cooked right in for thinking that she should be cooking for you
If you give her a smile, she'll give you her heart. and while you're off at work she'll be banging the neighbor because he's around more often then you and she doesn't have to cook for him, or do anything around his house, and he's not the one who ruined her body by not wearing a condom
She multiplies and enlarges what is given to her. So, if you give her any crap, be ready to receive a ton of ****.' the one thing she won't take when she leaves you. in fact you'll keep getting more even after she's gone.



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Women are Angels. or demons, depends on the minute
And when someone breaks our wings,
we simply continue to fly...usually on a broomstick. their primary mode of getting around before their wings fully developed. it only makes sense that they'd go back to that.
We are flexible like that. thanks to those pilates classes



just playin
i love womenhappy


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Mon 06/13/11 01:33 AM
that's a long way away for a relationship.

pen pals could work though. give that try and see what develops.


welcome



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