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Wed 04/09/08 09:09 PM
LOL...i do believe your "safe" with this one..........:wink:

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Wed 04/09/08 09:06 PM








a female who is a grease monkey is a real turn off for me....


>Whew< Now where the heck is my socket set?
up your ass lady dyke dyke...


You cannot address me in that fashion. It is rude and insulting.
i do not find it insulting,i find it factual....


you know nothing about me. Please leave. You are ruining this discussion.
i know you are a dyke............that is all i need to know..


DO NOT EVER ADDRESS ME IN THAT WAY AGAIN. I DID NOTHING TO YOU.


Hiker be the bigger"man" and ignore.........he obviously has issues tracing back to his mother not loving him enough........mayby she weaned him to young........god only knows just bear in mind,,,,,,,,he who denies most vehemently is themselves guilty so i'm sure he plays the "female" role in his relationship.......



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Wed 04/09/08 09:00 PM
Edited by iceprincess on Wed 04/09/08 09:01 PM





a female who is a grease monkey is a real turn off for me....


>Whew< Now where the heck is my socket set?
up your ass lady dyke dyke...


You cannot address me in that fashion. It is rude and insulting.
i do not find it insulting,i find it factual....


factual would require facts........do you care to share these said facts or are we required to take your wrod for it...........if that be the case i can think of a few "factual" comments in regards to your precious "manhood"

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Wed 04/09/08 08:57 PM



a female who is a grease monkey is a real turn off for me....


>Whew< Now where the heck is my socket set?
up your ass lady dyke dyke...


Now...now.........do we feel our manhood is threatened?

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Thu 04/03/08 01:24 PM
Edited by iceprincess on Thu 04/03/08 01:25 PM


Dating someone for four months is not quite the same as being married and having children with someone.


when you DIVORCE someone you loose any right on his/her sentimental life.
Besides the fact that if you "feel" for a friend or ex wife you *should* be happy if he/she is happy, not if she/he pleases you behaving accordingly to your code.

I think you are mistaking love with attachment. Love is wishing someone else happiness, attachment is wanting that person to behave as we want and getting angry / jealous if he/she fails to do so.


I agree with you on this............they divorced end of story. he no longer has a say in her life nor she in his. If you two want to make a go of it i say go for it. Talk to her let her know what you plan if she throws a fit then you'll have decision to make as to what you want to do.......and i would highly suggest counseling for her as she hasn't let go divorced or not.

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Wed 04/02/08 03:49 PM





have no love for americans, then again, except for americans, who does?


The list is long and varied. Don't buy into the media "everyone hates Americans" b.s.

However - if you happen to be one of the folks that "hate America", which as an American you are certainly free to do - I will make you the same offer that I have made to others. (If you are not, please skip the rest, have a great day)

If someone truly *hate* America - well, you certainly wouldn't want to stay, would you? After all - you *hate* it, right? I will pay for a one-way first class ticket to any country you like, from Reagan National Airport. I will even drive you over there.

We do have to make one stop first however, as a condition of your ticket. That will be for you to formally and officially renounce your American citizenship. So you sacrifice any and all rights, privileges and future entitlements. Since this is an official act, we might as well lump in a legal document that waives any and all claims made by you in the past, present or future concerning any U.S. citizen, or the American government.

Funny - I have made that offer so many times to people who rant on and on about 'hating America and everything American' but yet have one single taker for the offer. Puzzling......
I think you misunderstood, I don't hate America or Americans for that matter. I do disagree with alot of things that this country stands for like excecutions, abortions, religion, sports and what have you. I admit I am not an ardent patriot because its not in my nature to be, especially given my heritage, but to say all that only tells me that you've jumped the gun on me.


What heritage is that?

african, with a touch of scot


were you born in africa or scotland?

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Wed 04/02/08 02:06 PM


Well unlike you my son can't call his dad so I tell him his dad loves him which is what winx's therapist recommends.you said the therapist was wrong.Maybe i misunderstood but when my son asks me ,I can't say "i dunno".He will assume the worst.Even when i went thru divorce parenting classes,they recommended reassuring both parents loved the child.I don't see why that is wrong?


Rather than assuming what was meant.. why not ask? I was told to say if dad was unavailable.... "I'm sorry you are sad. Mommy loves you and always will". To get him to focus on me, a love he could count on and feel, see, touch... something tangible. That is the point.

If your kid later finds out dad doesn't love him then that makes you a liar. In your kids eyes. Your reasons for lying don't matter all that much.

I don't speak for anyone.


I guess my board certified psychologist who is an expert for the state of SD. and administered testing for both my ex and i for the courts in my custody hearing is a quack. He has seen my son and as i already said my ex and i. He has told me to reassure my son of my ex husbands love for him and his sister. Above all else he says my children in particular my son,as he has the most issues at this time, must feel reassured of their parents love. My child has enough going on he doesn't need to deal with feeling like his father doesn't love him he already feels like he doesn't approve of him enough.

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Tue 04/01/08 07:23 PM
lot of feeling behind it..........flows well have to admitt i read it and thought your a prick...............LOL that's a good thing though poetry should make the reader"feel" all in all i say it is a really good piece.


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Sat 03/29/08 09:11 PM
My opinion on the whole matter is "Your only worth to others what You are worth to yourself"............weight has nothing to do with that

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Thu 03/27/08 09:39 PM
awsome write.........i really like it

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Wed 03/26/08 05:29 PM
I liked it.....

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Tue 03/25/08 07:26 PM
Awsome write big brother..........I love you:heart:

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Mon 03/24/08 07:46 PM
thankyou all for your opinions and thoughts. this was wrote some time ago and fits events that have happened now......I'm sorry to the one's i've offended i truly believe God is a big enough to withstand my push if you'll truly read you'll understand i'm praying as i push.......I'm not trying to be blasphemus ...again I apologize if i've offended you

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Mon 03/24/08 07:41 PM

The thoughts are yours, the words are yours and the choice was yours. You did what you thought you had to do at the time. How you justify these things in your mind are your thoughts too, and I get the point you were trying to make. It isn't so much about what happpened then but how you wanted to make a statment about people and thier writings. Good luck to you.


thank's and I'm sorry to the few i pi$$ed off

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Mon 03/24/08 07:39 PM

Well you already know my opinion.

We are here if you need someone to vent too, I do have a serious side...but I don't use it often. I hope all goes well for you and yours in the future, have a flower.flowerforyou


thank-you darling..... and thank you for participating in my foray into self examination........you made me think and distracted me for a bit

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Mon 03/24/08 07:34 PM
I chose my two over one...........I now have migraines the residual effect of choosing my life. I wake up most mornings thinking what have i done........wondering have i made the right choice should have i taken the chance was logic correct in this case? I had something happen in my life today that this poem fit as it expresses what i feel.........and it makes me wonder again was i right? I shall never be truly sure and i ahve pictures of my unborn child i can't put away........I'm not looking for validation as it's a little too late for that and most of you would say Oh you were right and your so strong all the while thinking never let me go through that......some of you have and will never say anything as you too wake up with the same thoughts.........I just want to make a point when people post things in poetry most are not meant for validation........some are not even meant for praise....it's a request for critique on the style not a judgement on the emotion or cause of emotion.........you can never know what goes on behind the words you can only know what they cause you to feel.......I'll shut up now

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Mon 03/24/08 05:39 PM
History behind this poem is i had a tumor in course of exploring options for treatment i also discovered i was pregnant. the tumor was malignant it was highly suggested i begin treatment immediattly. However my course of treatment would have severe if not fatal consequences for my child. I could choose to wait till my child was far enough along to take safely and sign my own death sentence or i could have an abortion saving myself. Bear in mind i have two children. Do I attempt to save the unborn and sentence all three to life without a mother, or do i sacrifice one for them and myself? Do i take my chances and hope God really does save children and fools?

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Mon 03/24/08 04:36 PM







God is funny like that to me. This conveys belief in a God but also the idea that one's problems lie in the hands of this God...honestly, sounds like something went wrong in life and the writer rather than blame his/her actions for the wrong...they blame God, unfourtanetly not a rarity in religion...


so your opinion would be that the "wrong" is something that would have been within the writers control explicitly? Therefor the writer is looking to god to "rescue" them from their own creation?


Not necassarily in the writers control, but when something goes wrong it is wrong to blame a God for this. I understand when a family member dies (young or old, doesn't matter for this explanation) that one is not in control of that situation, and so where do some turn in this time? God why...etc. Instead of understanding the logic behind why it happened they turn to God. Again, unfourtanetly not a rarity.


so you believe there isa "logic" behind everything including loss and the writer can't understand this logic so they turn to/blame God/religious diety? As you have stated many times this is not a rarity as most humans believe in something greater than themselves it's a need ingrained so that we don't feel small and insignificant.Where in your opinion should this writer have turned? Again bear in mind you don't know what generated the write


For the most part there is logic behind everything, with the exception of few things. Perhaps the writer should have sought logic first then if it remained a question turned to something else.

Please keep in mind I don't truly believe in a God, I don't follow a deity or belief. I am an agnostic, but have ventured through several religions.


I am keeping this in mind. I was just curious as to what you will turn to when logic fails.


u seem awefully sure logic will fail when it hasnt yet in all historybigsmile
Im not counting biblical stories because they r western cultures equivalent of greek mythology, a moral or lesson embedded in a silly story

While im at it I may as well mention a national geographic article which stated how chimpanzees have been known to perform primitive dances very similar to the way many practicioners of old primitive polytheistic religions did
Proof that chimps believe in god? do chimps go to heaven? do chimps have souls?
OR...
Direct proof of evolution through behaviour?bigsmile




I don't know whether logic will or will not fail in any given situation as you must first be in the situation to find that out. I belive at times humans turn to god or in this case Hate God because they feel safe in doing so until they can Logic their way out of/deal with the prediciment.

As for the chimps I advise you ask one...........LOL

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Mon 03/24/08 04:07 PM





God is funny like that to me. This conveys belief in a God but also the idea that one's problems lie in the hands of this God...honestly, sounds like something went wrong in life and the writer rather than blame his/her actions for the wrong...they blame God, unfourtanetly not a rarity in religion...


so your opinion would be that the "wrong" is something that would have been within the writers control explicitly? Therefor the writer is looking to god to "rescue" them from their own creation?


Not necassarily in the writers control, but when something goes wrong it is wrong to blame a God for this. I understand when a family member dies (young or old, doesn't matter for this explanation) that one is not in control of that situation, and so where do some turn in this time? God why...etc. Instead of understanding the logic behind why it happened they turn to God. Again, unfourtanetly not a rarity.


so you believe there isa "logic" behind everything including loss and the writer can't understand this logic so they turn to/blame God/religious diety? As you have stated many times this is not a rarity as most humans believe in something greater than themselves it's a need ingrained so that we don't feel small and insignificant.Where in your opinion should this writer have turned? Again bear in mind you don't know what generated the write


For the most part there is logic behind everything, with the exception of few things. Perhaps the writer should have sought logic first then if it remained a question turned to something else.

Please keep in mind I don't truly believe in a God, I don't follow a deity or belief. I am an agnostic, but have ventured through several religions.


I am keeping this in mind. I was just curious as to what you will turn to when logic fails.

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Mon 03/24/08 04:02 PM





God is funny like that to me. This conveys belief in a God but also the idea that one's problems lie in the hands of this God...honestly, sounds like something went wrong in life and the writer rather than blame his/her actions for the wrong...they blame God, unfourtanetly not a rarity in religion...


so your opinion would be that the "wrong" is something that would have been within the writers control explicitly? Therefor the writer is looking to god to "rescue" them from their own creation?


Not necassarily in the writers control, but when something goes wrong it is wrong to blame a God for this. I understand when a family member dies (young or old, doesn't matter for this explanation) that one is not in control of that situation, and so where do some turn in this time? God why...etc. Instead of understanding the logic behind why it happened they turn to God. Again, unfourtanetly not a rarity.



Says who??? WHo decides it is wrong to blame god for anything???

That is YOUR interpretation...people blame politicians, economy, partners, the weather, other people all the time...who says the poet cannot blame god and it's wrong....says who???

Methinks YOU feel it is wrong... and thats a judgement call... not a right.


One: I don't explicably believe in a God, man is responsible for man's place in life. Two: I don't believe it is right for anyone to blame anything or anyone for their outcome in life, you brought yourself this far and instead of trying to change your going to blame an outside source for your problem. Three: I have plenty of mistakes I can blame on others, but I don't...because I put myself in the situation in the first place, therefore understanding the problems that could arise from said situation.


One can never know all of the problems that can and will arise from life. You haven't always placed yourself in every situation that problems hae arisen from this i can guarantee. The biggest obstical you will ever face is life itself and last i checked you didn't give birth to yourself.

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